The Gift of Fear
Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence
It reminds me of the book that we talk about all the time, The Gift of Fear.
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It was mentioned in relation to a listener's story about being followed by a suspicious vehicle. The listener stated that they had recently listened to advice from the book and it helped them stay alert and avoid a potentially dangerous situation.
It reminds me of the book that we talk about all the time, The Gift of Fear.
Like what an amazing time to like tune into and listen to that gift.
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Strongly recommended by Jordan Harbinger as a book that talks about listening to your gut and using your fear, with the key takeaway that intuition is always right in at least two important ways: It is always in response to something and it always has your best interest at heart.
Gavin DeBecker put it best in his book The Gift of Fear. Intuition is always right in at least two important ways. It is always in response to something and it always has your best interest at heart.
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The book was used to explain that at some point a domestic violence victim becomes a domestic violence volunteer, and it was highlighted that we often collude with predators by ignoring our intuition.
A line from Gavin DeBecca's book "The Gift of Fear" puts it best that at some point a domestic violence victim becomes a domestic violence volunteer.
The ways we often collude consciously or unconsciously with predators usually by ignoring our intuition, discounting the numerous alarm bells that go off early on with somebody dangerous.
I imagine Gavin gets a decent amount of flak for saying stuff like that because it sounds like victim blaming.
I've read his book, interviewed him here on the show. I've walked away with a totally different reading of that. I don't see this as victim blaming, I actually see it as victim empowering.
What Gavin's trying to do here is push people and he can be a little bit tough about this sometimes. I know it comes from a place of actually caring about this. He's pushing people to recognize how much agency they do have and how we still have a personal responsibility to protect ourselves from people who want to harm us.
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It was described as an ideal Christmas gift for anyone who likes bikes. It tells the story about racing and training.
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it's not like a book where just as there's a different route you know it's kind of trying to tell the story about that route or things that has happened in racing or training along like me really thinking oh crap I've got a week to buy some quite a lot of Christmas presents
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The author recommended this book, which is about listening to your instincts, as they often pick up on things that your conscious brain might miss.
You ever read the gift of fear? Gavin De Becker book really great book it was published like 30 years ago or something I think Oprah made it quite a big deal and uh it's about it's by a um I think he used to be a body guard he's like a personal security expert and he tells all these stories it's mostly about women and maybe this applies to men too um where women basically ended up getting um attacked by men who they did actually have bad vibes about in some way but they ignored those and it cost them right and his argument is that um fear is a gift and that you should listen to your instincts because often again highly you know very uh evolved to be very very attuned these instincts right there's a reason why we are descended from people who listen to their instincts in this regard um and often your unconscious will spot things that your conscious brain hasn't spotted and maybe you'll be worried about being impolite or being weird or whatever you know so I can't remember all of the stories but I remember there's one of a woman who a man offered to help her carry her shopping up to her flat and he was really insistent about it and she was like okay so she let him and then as soon as he was in the flat he shut the door and attacked her and she was lucky to survive she she said later that it was weird he like he didn't feel like he was just being nice she got she got bad vibes from him she got the ick whatever there was something like going on but her conscious brain said he's just being nice and so she ignored her instincts and she let him into her flat and that's the sort of example where actually I think that our unconscious brains know are actually very wise about a lot of these things
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The book was mentioned in the context of intuition and how it can be a valuable tool in recognizing danger. It was specifically used to make a point about the possibility of psychic powers being a source of inspiration for solving crimes, but it was ultimately asserted that it was more likely a result of illegal actions by law enforcement.
Everybody read the book that we mentioned frequently a few years back, The Gift of Fear by Gavin De Becker. The idea of intuition there.
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The book was recommended as a way to learn more about intuition, specifically the idea of having a hunch about someone.
If you are looking for a book to teach you more about intuition, please, please, please read The Gift of Fear by Gavin DeBecker.
We've mentioned it in the past. It came out in 1997. So I guess it's relatively new in the grand scheme.
But the idea here is this guy, DeBecker, looked through the notion of intuition, the idea that you have a hunch like Noel, for instance. Have you ever met someone and had a really good or really bad vibe off them that you couldn't explain consciously?
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It was discussed as a book that provided guidance on how to effectively manage and utilize money, influencing Tom Chappell's perspective on wealth and its purpose.
I read a book called The Gift and it's really about how to use money. The purpose of money is to keep it in circulation, not to stow it away.
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The book, 'The Gift of Fear', was mentioned and recommended due to the concept of an instinctive feeling of danger, which the main character experienced, that the author explores in his work.
Yeah, what Gavin DeBecker calls the gift of fear, right? I will recommend that book until I'm blue in the face but yes, that is what Kazu is feeling.
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It was recommended to the listener by her father, presumably as a tool for self-protection, and mentioned in relation to navigating potentially dangerous situations.
He also made sure I read The Gift of Fear, which is a book I recommend everyone read at some point.
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It was described as a book written by one of the world's leading security experts, and the book's central theme was that fear is a brilliant internal guardian that can warn and guide us through risky situations.
Gavin DeBecker, one of the world's leading security experts in the gift of fear, calls it a brilliant internal guardian that stands ready to warn you of hazards and guide you through risky situations.
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The book's content was discussed regarding the importance of recognizing potentially dangerous situations and the concept of trust in the modern era, particularly for women, in the context of unwanted approaches by male strangers.
In Gavin DeBecker's book, The Gift of Fear, he writes, Unlike when people lived in small communities and could not escape their past behavior, we live in an age of anonymous one-time encounters, and many people have become expert at the art of fast persuasion.
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It was discussed as a book full of examples regarding intuition and fear, and how the subconscious mind processes cues to alert us to potential danger. The podcasters highly recommended it.
It is very much worth your time Regardless of who you are. It is just filled with bangers after bangers ice cold bars this guy has
It has two big words gift and fear it overwhelmingly focuses on intuition as a means of safety and harm prevention and survival
I think it's interesting too that fear is the key word in that title because I mean a lot of the stuff Goes back to you know, just animalistic instincts
We owe a lot of this to an author named gavin de becker who wrote the gift of fear
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It was highly recommended, and its argument was discussed: that the unconscious mind may pick up on danger cues that the conscious mind misses, potentially explaining unsettling feelings in certain places.
It reminds me of this excellent book called The Gift of Fear, which I highly recommend, which essentially the argument is that your unconscious mind picks up a lot of things that your conscious mind might miss. And when you get a bad vibe or you get a strange feeling, that could be your some other part of your mind saying, hey, you and the forebrain pay attention to this.
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Recommended as it discusses how to recognize and react to potentially dangerous situations where a person might get a bad vibe from someone they encounter.
which is why I highly recommend a book called The Gift of Fear by a guy named Gavin DeBecca.
It's the full title is The Gift of Fear, Survival Signals that Protect Us from Violence.
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It was discussed in detail as it emphasizes intuition as a safety mechanism and harm prevention, including many anecdotes and examples.
It is very much worth your time Regardless of who you are.
It is just filled with bangers after bangers ice cold bars this guy has
It has two big words gift and fear
fear fear
I think it's interesting too that fear is the key word in that title because I mean a lot of the stuff Goes back to you know, just animalistic Instincts, you know, I mean if you are threatened then you're going to be in a heightened state of awareness and you're going to be Kind of keyed up to to lock in on some of these non-verbal cues a threatening stance perhaps
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It was highly recommended for its exploration of the unconscious mind's ability to detect danger, and how a bad vibe or strange feeling can be a warning sign.
It reminds me of this excellent book called The Gift of Fear, which I highly recommend, which essentially the argument is that your unconscious mind picks up a lot of things that your conscious mind might miss.
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It was recommended for helping readers learn to identify dangerous vibes or people who may be a threat, in light of the Nevada Triangle disappearances.
which is why I highly recommend a book called The Gift of Fear by a guy named Gavin DeBecca.
It's the full title is The Gift of Fear, Survival Signals that Protect Us from Violence.
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It was highly recommended for its exploration of the unconscious mind's ability to pick up on danger cues, even when the conscious mind may miss them. The idea that a 'bad vibe' could be a subconscious warning was discussed.
It reminds me of this excellent book called The Gift of Fear, which I highly recommend, which essentially the argument is that your unconscious mind picks up a lot of things that your conscious mind might miss.
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It was recommended due to its advice on recognizing and heeding the warning signs of danger. It was mentioned in context of warnings from individuals that could not be proven.
which is why I highly recommend a book called The Gift of Fear by a guy named Gavin DeBecca.
It's the full title is The Gift of Fear, Survival Signals that Protect Us from Violence.
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It was mentioned as a book that contains valuable information about intuitive feelings and the ability to trust your instincts in potentially dangerous situations.
I only realized a decade and a half later when reading the book they give to fear that that was you.
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It was mentioned by Jordan Harbinger and Michele Rigby Assad as a book that contains valuable advice about dangerous situations and how to avoid being a victim.
We did an episode with Gavin Debecker who wrote The Gift of Fear and one of the things that he taught me in the 90s that he writes about in some of his books is never go to the secondary location.
I always reference this book The Gift of Fear it is absolutely one of the best books that I've ever read and he is spot on in terms of telling you how to handle these situations.
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It was discussed in detail throughout the podcast as a valuable tool for understanding fear, intuition, and recognizing potential danger, particularly in the context of abusive or predatory relationships.
Gavin's been head of security for folks like Oprah, Jeff Bezos, one of the world's most respected people in the security industry globally. He's also the author of The Gift of Fear. This book is tremendously popular.
This show morphed into a sort of a toolbox for safety here on The Jordan Harbanger Show, send it to everyone you care about.
Links to everything he's done will be in the website in the show notes, of course, including the book The Gift of Fear.
If you buy the book, it does help support the show.
There's so much here in the book as well. A lot of practical exercises about asking yourself what your anxiety is hiding using the gift of fear might have to have you come back at some point as well.