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Something Was Wrong is an award-winning docuseries about survivors' discovery, trauma, and recovery from crime and abuse.

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The Wonder of Under

Cindy Lynn Sawyer

Mentioned 5 months ago

S25 Ep5: Testing Me

This album contained the original version of the song "U Think U," which was covered for the podcast's season theme song. The cover was performed by Abayomi.

Thank you so much to the incredibly talented Abayomi Lewis for this season's gorgeous cover of Gladrag's original song, You Think You, from their album Wonder Under, Thank you to music producer, Janice J.P. Pacheco, for their work on this cover recorded at The Grill Studios in Emeryville, California.

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Working for Justice

Amy B. Chesler

Mentioned 1 year ago

WCN Presents: [Amy B. Chesler] Season 7 Update

It was mentioned that Amy B. Chesler used the name Rory in her book, which was due to be published, because the name Jesse was difficult for her to use repeatedly.

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Why Does He Do That?

Lundy Bancroft

Mentioned 1 year ago

S21 E12: (4/4) [Jubilee] Dead Raiser

It was recommended for its insights into controlling and abusive behavior, helping the speaker understand the subtle ways her ex-husband was controlling her.

One book I really highly recommend is Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft.

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The Body Keeps the Score

Bessel van der Kolk M.D.

Mentioned 1 year ago

S21 E11: (3/4) [Jubilee] Words of Knowledge

The speaker read this book later and found it helpful in understanding the connection between the body and mental health, aiding their healing process.

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The Chronicles of Narnia (Box Set)

C. S. Lewis

Mentioned 1 year ago

S21 E11: (3/4) [Jubilee] Words of Knowledge

The speaker was given this book on their first date; they enjoyed it at the time.

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The Notebook

Nicholas Sparks

Mentioned 1 year ago

S21 E8: (2/2) [Krystyn] I Feel the Need to Fight

The speaker mentioned reading many books by Nicholas Sparks and that she was obsessed with the idea of love, implying she enjoyed his romantic novels.

I would read all of those books too by Nicholas Sparks.

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A Child Called "It"

Dave Pelzer

Mentioned 1 year ago

S21 E4: (2/2) [Michelle] Loose Lips Sink Ships

The book was described as the speaker's "Bible" after their escape from abuse, offering comfort and highlighting striking similarities to their own experience. It was mentioned as something that helped them.

After I read that book, a child called it, it was the first thing I read right after I got out and it became my Bible. It was so comforting.

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Happily Never After

Lynn Painter

Mentioned 2 years ago

[WCN Presents] SWW S15 E5 Updates // Part 2

It was mentioned that Nancy, the main character in the podcast episode, was a romance mystery writer and that all of the books she wrote involved murders.

She was a romance mystery writer.

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Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition, Text Revision (Dsm-5-Tr(r))

American Psychiatric Association

Mentioned 2 years ago

Data Points: PTSD (Featuring Dr. Danielle Moore)

The Diagnostic Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, or DSM, outlines and describes the diagnostic criteria for PTSD. It was explained that individuals must experience specific symptoms under specific categories in order to receive a clinical diagnosis.

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Position of the Day Playbook

Nerve.com

Mentioned 2 years ago

Data Points: PTSD (Featuring Dr. Danielle Moore)

This publication details the differences in PTSD between men and women, explaining that the lifetime prevalence rate of PTSD is about 5 to 6% in men compared to 10 to 12% in women.

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Without Conscience

Robert D. Hare

Mentioned 2 years ago

S20 E11: (Finale Part 1) She's a Loose Cannon

The author, Robert D. Hare, discussed the disturbing world of psychopaths. Victims of psychopaths often question their own gullibility and wonder how they could have fallen for the psychopath's lies. However, the author stressed that everyone is vulnerable to manipulation by a skilled and determined psychopath, even those who study them.

The following excerpts are from his book, Without Conscience. The disturbing world of psychopaths among us.

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The Mother Next Door

Andrea Dunlop

Mentioned 2 years ago

Data Points: Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy (featuring Andrea Dunlop)

The Mother Next Door is a book about Munchausen by Proxy, it was written by Andrea Dunlop and was scheduled to be released in February 2025 by St. Martin's Press.

I am the creator of Nobody Should Believe Me, an investigative true crime podcast about Munchausen by Proxy and the author of The Mother Next Door, Medicine, Deception, and Munchausen by Proxy, which comes out February 2025 from St. Martin's Press.

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Lynn Painter

Happily Never After

The podcast repeatedly referenced the title as a case where a romance‑mystery author whose novels all featured murders became the prime suspect in a real‑life killing, prompting hosts to wonder if she was enacting her own stories. Various hosts across many episodes highlighted the parallels between her fictional murders and the actual crime, noting the pattern of spouses being the first suspect. The discussion was largely analytical rather than promotional, treating the work as a thematic example.

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Episode: [WCN Presents] SWW S15 E5 Updates // Part 2

It was mentioned that Nancy, the main character in the podcast episode, was a romance mystery writer and that all of the books she wrote involved murders.

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She was a romance mystery writer.

There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: [WCN Presents] SWW S15 E5 Updates // Part 1

The podcast host referenced a story that could have been ripped straight from the pages of a romance mystery novel, specifically mentioning that there are murders in all of the books.

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Nancy's love story could have been ripped right out of the pages of one of her own novels.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries. So when suspicion turned to Dan's wife, Nancy, we weren't that surprised.

But we began to wonder, had Nancy gotten so wrapped up in her own novels. There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: S19 E3: (3/5) [Amy] Fueling the Fear

It was mentioned that the victim, Nancy, was a romance mystery writer. Her husband, Dan, is a chef, but their story didn't end happily. The podcast hosts suggested that Nancy may have been acting out the murders in her books in real life.

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Nancy's love story could have been ripped right out of the pages of one of her own novels.

She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef.

But this story didn't end with a happily ever after.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries.

So when suspicion turned to Dan's wife Nancy, we weren't that surprised.

The first person they look at would be the spouse. We understand that's usually the way they do it.

But we began to wonder, had Nancy gotten so wrapped up in her own novels There are murders in all of the books.

That she was playing them out in real life?

Episode: S18 E15: [Autumn] He Needs to be Stopped

The story of Dan and Nancy was described as being a romance mystery that didn't end happily ever after. Nancy was a romance mystery writer and the first person they looked at when suspicion turned to her was her spouse. The podcast mentioned that all of her books contain murders.

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Brophy's love story could have been ripped right out of the pages of one of her own novels.

She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef.

But this story didn't end with a happily ever after.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries.

So when suspicion turned to Dan's wife Nancy, we weren't that surprised.

The first person they look at would be the spouse.

We understand that's usually the way they do it.

But we began to wonder, had Nancy gotten so wrapped up in her own novels?

There are murders in all of the books.

That she was playing them out in real life?

Follow Happily Never After Dan and Nancy on the Wondery app or wherever you get your podcasts.

You can binge all episodes of Happily Never After Dan and Nancy early and ad free right now by joining Wondery Plus.

Episode: S18 E14: (2/2) [Jimmy + Andrew + Anthony] It’s Fro...

The podcast is about a murder mystery, where suspicion falls on the victim's spouse, who is a romance mystery writer. There are murders in all of her books.

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She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries.

The first person they look at would be the spouse. We understand that's usually the way they do it.

There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: S18 E12: (2/2) [Tyler + Shane + Connelly] Believe...

The podcast hosts mentioned that the victim in the story was a romance mystery writer, and that all her books included murders.

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She was a romance mystery writer.

There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: S18 E12: (2/2) [Tyler + Shane + Connelly] Believe...

The podcast host referred to "Happily Never After" as a murder mystery story. It was mentioned that the main character, Nancy, was a romance mystery writer, and all her books had murders in them.

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She was a romance mystery writer. They gloamed on the fact that she writes stories like this. There are murders in all of the books.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries.

There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: S18 E11: (1/2) [Tyler] Don't Tell Anyone

The podcast was mentioned as a show that follows the story of Dan and Nancy, a couple whose real life story sounds like it came from the pages of Nancy's romance mystery novels.

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Nancy's love story could have been ripped right out of the pages of one of her own novels. She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef. But this story didn't end with a happily ever after.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries. So when suspicion turned to Dan's wife, Nancy, we weren't that surprised. The first person they look at would be the spouse. We understand that's usually the way they do it.

But we began to wonder, had Nancy gotten so wrapped up in her own novels? There are murders in all of the books.

Follow Happily Never After Dan and Nancy on the Wondery app or wherever you get your podcasts. You can binge all episodes of Happily Never After Dan and Nancy early and ad free right now by joining Wondery Plus.

Episode: S18 E8: (7/7) [Audrey + Amy S. + Amy] There's Not...

The podcast 'Happily Never After' was mentioned as a story about a murder mystery where the first person suspected is usually the spouse, and it was suggested that Nancy, the wife, may have been inspired by her own novels, which all have murders in them.

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From Wondery, the makers of Ghost Story and Feta, this is a story about a murder that rocked my little community. Binge all episodes of Happily Never After ad-free right now on Wondery Plus.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries.

So when suspicion turned to Dan's wife Nancy, we weren't that surprised.

The first person they look at would be the spouse. We understand that's usually the way they do it.

But we began to wonder, had Nancy gotten so wrapped up in her own novels There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: S18 E5: (4/7) [Seanna] How is There More?

It was mentioned that Nancy's love story could have been ripped right out of the pages of one of her own novels. It was also mentioned that there are murders in all of her books.

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Nancy's love story could have been ripped right out of the pages of one of her own novels.

She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef.

But this story didn't end with a happily ever after.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries. So when suspicion turned to Dan's wife Nancy, we weren't that surprised.

There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: S18 E3: (2/7) [Karissa] Just Vibing

The podcast is about a murder mystery that happened to a romance mystery writer who is married to a chef. The murder mystery writer happened to write stories with murders in them and the hosts wondered if she was playing out her novels in real life.

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As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries.

So when suspicion turned to Dan's wife Nancy, we weren't that surprised.

The first person they look at would be the spouse.

We understand that's usually the way they do it.

But we began to wonder, had Nancy gotten so wrapped up in her own novels... There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: S18 E2: (1/7) [Karissa] Yeah, She’s Done That Befo...

The guest mentioned that the case involved a romance mystery writer who was married to a chef, and that she had written several books involving murders. The podcast host commented that it's unsurprising the spouse would be the first suspect in a murder case, since that is usually the process.

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She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef.

There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: S18 E1: [Alexis] You're Not Alone

The podcast "Happily Never After" was discussed. It is a story about a murder that took place in a community. The story involved a romance mystery writer and a chef who were married. The story didn't end happily ever after and the writer's own novels were mentioned as having murders in all of the books.

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Follow Happily Never After Dan and Nancy on the Wondery app or wherever you get your podcasts.

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She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef.

But this story didn't end with a happily ever after.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries.

Episode: S18 E1: [Alexis] You're Not Alone

The podcast host compares the woman's story to the podcast 'Happily Never After,' mentioning that the woman in the story was a romance mystery writer, and that the murders in her books were similar to the events unfolding.

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Nancy's love story could have been ripped right out of the pages of one of her own novels.

She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef.

But we began to wonder, had Nancy gotten so wrapped up in her own novels... There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: S17 E7: Data Points: Child Abuse

It was mentioned that Nancy, the subject of the podcast, was a romance mystery writer and that her books all had murders in them. The podcast compared the fictional murders in her books to the real life murder investigation.

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She was a romance mystery writer.

They gloamed on the fact that she writes stories like this.

There are murders in all of the books.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries.

There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: S17 E4: Pure Evil

The case of Dan and Nancy was compared to a romance mystery novel, specifically mentioning that there were murders in all of the books.

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Nancy's love story could have been ripped right out of the pages of one of her own novels. She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries.

There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: S17 E2: Be Very Concerned

It was mentioned that Nancy, the wife in the "Happily Never After" podcast, was a romance mystery writer. The host then talked about the podcast, noting that the books Nancy writes are murder mysteries. The host also suggested that Nancy may have been living out her stories in real life.

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She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries.

There are murders in all of the books.

Follow Happily Never After Dan and Nancy on the Wondery app or wherever you get your podcasts.

Episode: S17 E1: Something Magical About Him

It was discussed how Nancy, the author of the book, was a romance mystery writer and that all of her books involved murders. When the murder of Chef Brophy took place, it was mentioned that the first person the police usually suspect is the spouse and that it was a little surprising that suspicion quickly turned to Nancy. It was also said that they wondered if Nancy, because she writes stories like this, was playing them out in real life.

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Nancy's love story could have been ripped right out of the pages of one of her own novels. She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef. But this story didn't end with a happily ever after.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries.

So when suspicion turned to Dan's wife Nancy, we weren't that surprised.

The first person they look at would be the spouse. We understand that's usually the way they do it.

But we began to wonder, had Nancy gotten so wrapped up in her own novels... There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: S16 E3: Something Was Wrong

Nancy was a romance mystery writer, and the murders in her books were a recurring theme. The podcast explores whether she was acting out those themes in real life.

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She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries. So when suspicion turned to Dan's wife Nancy, we weren't that surprised.

The first person they look at would be the spouse. We understand that's usually the way they do it. But we began to wonder, had Nancy gotten so wrapped up in her own novels... There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: S15 E11: [What Came Next Presents] SWW S9 Updates...

It was a romance mystery book, with murders in all of the books.

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She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries.

There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: S15 E10: [What Came Next Presents] SWW S9 Updates...

The podcast host mentions a book called Happily Never After, which is a romance mystery, and it was written by a woman who is married to a chef. She mentions that the author's own story had murders in it, like her books.

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Nancy's love story could have been ripped right out of the pages of one of her own novels. She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef.

There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: S15 E9: [Lex Fitzgerald] Willfully, Maliciously an...

The book is referenced, specifically mentioning that the fictional story was a murder mystery and the murders are in all of the books.

"

Nancy's love story could have been ripped right out of the pages of one of her own novels.

She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries, so when suspicion turned to Dan's wife Nancy, we weren't that surprised.

There are murders in all of the books.

Did she was playing them out in real life?

Episode: S15 E8: [Lex Fitzgerald] Actively Seeking to Cause...

The podcast discussed a case about a romance mystery writer who was married to a chef, and the story was compared to one of her novels.

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Nancy's love story could have been ripped right out of the pages of one of her own novels. She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries, so when suspicion turned to Dan's wife Nancy, we weren't that surprised.

They understand that's usually the way they do it. But we began to wonder, had Nancy gotten so wrapped up in her own novels?

There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: S15 E4: [Alice + John + Naomi] The Wheels Fall Off

The story of Dan and Nancy sounded like a murder mystery ripped from the pages of Nancy's romance novels. The podcast explored whether Nancy's love for writing had carried over into her real life, as her own novels often contained murders.

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Nancy's love story could have been ripped right out of the pages of one of her own novels. She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries. So when suspicion turned to Dan's wife, Nancy, we weren't that surprised.

The first person they look at would be the spouse. We understand that's usually the way they do it. But we began to wonder, had Nancy gotten so wrapped up in her own novels.

There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: S15 E2: [Valentina] Wait, You’re Supposed to Help...

The podcast host mentioned that the story of Nancy, the romance mystery writer, could have been ripped from the pages of her own novels. The host also said that there are murders in all of the books that Nancy wrote, leading the host to wonder if she was acting out her novels in real life.

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Nancy's love story could have been ripped right out of the pages of one of her own novels. She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef.

But this story didn't end with a happily ever after.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries.

There are murders in all of the books that she was playing them out in real life?

Follow Happily Never After Dan and Nancy on the Wondery app or wherever you get your podcasts.

Episode: S14 E12: Classic Jake Bullsh*t

The podcast, Happily Never After, tells the story of a romance mystery writer who was married to a chef, and the murder mystery that rocked their community. The podcast explores whether the wife's novels may have influenced her actions.

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Follow Happily Never After Dan and Nancy on the Wondery app or wherever you get your podcasts.

You can binge all episodes of Happily Never After Dan and Nancy early and ad free right now by joining Wondery Plus.

Nancy's love story could have been ripped right out of the pages of one of her own novels. She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef. But this story didn't end with a happily ever after.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries.

There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: S14 E10: A Very Bad Person

The podcast 'Happily Never After' was mentioned in the context of the story about Dan and Nancy, the romance mystery writer and her chef husband. The speaker remarked that the story could have been ripped from the pages of one of Nancy's books, and that she was a romance mystery writer whose books often featured murders.

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Nancy's love story could have been ripped right out of the pages of one of her own novels.

She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef.

But this story didn't end with a happily ever after.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries.

So when suspicion turned to Dan's wife Nancy, we weren't that surprised.

The first person they look at would be the spouse.

We understand that's usually the way they do it.

But we began to wonder, had Nancy gotten so wrapped up in her own novels...

There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: S14 E8: We Went Public

It was mentioned that a woman in the episode was a romance mystery writer, and the podcast that she was on, "Happily Never After", was about her and her chef husband, who was murdered. This led the podcast hosts to suspect Nancy, Dan's wife, of being involved in his death, especially since Nancy wrote murder mysteries that involved murder in all of the books.

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Nancy's love story could have been ripped right out of the pages of one of her own novels.

She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries.

But we began to wonder, had Nancy gotten so wrapped up in her own novels?

There are murders in all of the books.

Episode: S14 E6: Full Force

It was said that the story of Brophy's love story was ripped straight out of the pages of one of her own novels. She was a romance mystery writer married to a chef. The story ended tragically, and Nancy, the chef's wife, was suspected. The podcast hosts discussed how the books she wrote contained murders.

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Brophy's love story could have been ripped right out of the pages of one of her own novels.

She was a romance mystery writer who happens to be married to a chef.

But this story didn't end with a happily ever after.

As writers, we'd written our share of murder mysteries.

So when suspicion turned to Dan's wife Nancy, we weren't that surprised.

The first person they look at would be the spouse.

We understand that's usually the way they do it.

But we began to wonder, had Nancy gotten so wrapped up in her own novels?

There are murders in all of the books.

That she was playing them out in real life?

The Wonder of Under Cover

Cindy Lynn Sawyer

The Wonder of Under

The album "Wonder Under" by Glad Rags is the theme song for the podcast.

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our theme song was composed by glad rags check out their album wonder under thank you so much

— Episode: S19 E11: Community Catch Up

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Episode: S19 E11: Community Catch Up

The album "Wonder Under" by Glad Rags is the theme song for the podcast.

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our theme song was composed by glad rags check out their album wonder under thank you so much

Episode: S18 E6: (5/7) [Amy + Amy S.] Very Calculated

The podcast's theme song was composed by Glad Rags, so they recommend listening to their album, Wonder Under.

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Check out their album, Wonder Under.

Episode: S17 E6: Healer

This album, 'Wonder Under,' was composed by Gladrags.

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This prime song was composed by Gladrags. Check out their album, Wonder Under.

Episode: S16 E8: Memories for Blessing

The speaker recommended listening to the album 'Wonder Under' by the band Gladrags, who composed the theme song for the podcast.

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Our theme song was composed by Gladrags. Check out their album Wonder Under.

Episode: S16 E8: Memories for Blessing

The theme song for the podcast was composed by Gladrags. It was suggested to check out their album "Wonder Under".

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Our theme song was composed by Gladrags. Check out their album Wonder Under.

Episode: S14 E9: Mind F*ck

The album 'Wonder Under' is mentioned when the host credits the music for the podcast.

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SWW's theme music - _U think U_ by Glad Rags, from their album _Wonder Under_

Episode: S14 E7: This is a Dog That Bites

The album "Wonder Under" by Glad Rags was mentioned as the source for the podcast's theme music.

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SWW's theme music -*U think U* by Glad Rags, from their album *Wonder Under*

Episode: S14 E5: What a F*cking Psycho

The album Wonder Under by Glad Rags was mentioned, as it contains the theme music for the podcast.

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SWW's theme music -*U think U* by Glad Rags, from their album *Wonder Under*

Episode: S13 E17: [Claire + Riley] I Might Not Be Alone

It was the album that contained the theme music for the podcast, 'U think U'. It was mentioned several times throughout the episode.

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SWW's theme music - U think U by Glad Rags, from their album Wonder Under.

Psychopath Free (Expanded Edition): Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other Toxic People Cover

Jackson MacKenzie

Psychopath Free (Expanded Edition)

Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other Toxic People

The book was repeatedly cited as a resource for recovering from emotionally abusive, narcissistic or sociopathic relationships, with hosts noting its insights on how abusers condition victims and the healing process. It appeared in episode descriptions across the season and was directly quoted in one episode, emphasizing its practical guidance for listeners dealing with trauma. The overall view was that it served as a valuable guide for those seeking to understand and move beyond such abuse.

Highly Recommended
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Episode: S1 E10: Real Kimmy & Brian

It was mentioned that the book talks about how emotional abusers condition their victims to feel ashamed and unstable, often choosing targets who are successful and idealistic.

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In Jackson Mackenzie's book, Psychopath Free, he writes, 'Emotional abusers condition their victims to feel ashamed, inadequate and unstable.'

...and in the Psychopath Free book, it says like any person that you need, you feel the need to investigate is not somebody that should be in your life.

Episode: S1 E9: Unencumbered by the Weight of Women

It was mentioned as a book about psychopathy, sociopathy, and narcissism, detailing the effects these personality disorders have on relationships and the healing process.

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Everything you once understood about people did not apply to this person.

During the relationship, you tried to be compassionate, easygoing, and forgiving.

You never could have known that this person you loved was actively using these things against you.

But once you discover psychopathy, sociopathy, or narcissism, everything starts to change.

You feel disgusted, horrified that you let this darkness into your life.

Combating Cult Mind Control: The Guide to Protection, Rescue and Recovery from Destructive Cults Cover

Steven Hassan

Combating Cult Mind Control

The Guide to Protection, Rescue and Recovery from Destructive Cults

The hosts repeatedly cited the book as a primary resource for explaining cult mind control, especially when discussing Jonestown and modern cult tactics. They highlighted its thorough overview of psychological manipulation and the value of ex‑member accounts for learning about specific groups. The discussion emphasized the growing threat of destructive cults and positioned the book as essential reading for anyone wanting to understand and combat such influence.

Highly Recommended
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Episode: S4 E3: A Constant Evolvement of Power

It was mentioned in the context of cult psychology and mind control, highlighting the difficulty in describing beliefs and practices of different cults due to their variety.

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Since there are so many different types of mind control cults, it would be impossible to describe the beliefs and practices of each one, or even each type. The best way to learn about a specific group is to locate a former member or a former member's written or video account. Ex-members are a great source of information.

Episode: S4 E2: Living with the Dogs

It was discussed in the context of cults, and how they are a growing problem and a threat to individual liberties. The destructive nature of cults and the concept of mind control were explored.

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In the past decade, the destructive cult phenomenon has mushroomed into a problem of tremendous social and political importance. It is estimated that there are now over 3,000 destructive cults in the United States, directly affecting more than 3 million people.

Why is there so much complacency about the threat of mind control cults?

Episode: S4 E1: There's No Comfort to Run To | Season Four...

It was referenced throughout the episode, particularly in relation to cult tactics, mind control, and how cults operate.

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Cults are not new. Throughout history, groups of enthusiasts have sprung up around charismatic leaders of every possible description. But in recent decades, something has been added--the systematic use of modern psychological techniques to reduce a person's will and gain control over their thoughts, feelings, and behavior.

Over the past half-century, undue influence has become more of a science.

Since World War II, intelligence agencies around the world have been aggressively engaged in mind control research and development.

These organizations include religious cults, political cults, psychotherapy-slash-educational cults, and commercial cults.

Religious cults are best known and most notorious.

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Julia Scheeres

A Thousand Lives

The Untold Story of Hope, Deception, and Survival at Jonestown

The hosts repeatedly cited the book as a primary source for detailed accounts of the Jonestown tragedy, referencing its interviews with survivors such as Tom and Jim Bogue and its narrative of key moments like Tommy's arrival. They highlighted how it shed light on personal motivations and conversations within the People's Temple, using it to deepen listeners' understanding of the events. Overall, the book was presented as a valuable and insightful resource for the episode’s discussion.

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Episode: S4 E4: We Will Kill You

It was based on interviews with Tom and Jim Bogue, and detailed Tommy's arrival to Jonestown in July 1976, including Jim Bogue's reaction to seeing his son again after two years.

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Based on her interviews she did with Tom and Jim, Julia Shears wrote about Tommy's arrival to Jonestown in her book A Thousand Lives.

Episode: S4 E3: A Constant Evolvement of Power

It was mentioned in the context of Jim Jones and his move to South America, highlighting a specific conversation between Jones and Jim Bogue about Edith's pride in her husband's appointment to a task.

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In Julia Shearer's book, A Thousand Lives, she writes of the conversation between Jones and Jim on his moving to South America with the other settlers. He knew that the appointment would make Edith proud.

Episode: S4 E2: Living with the Dogs

It was mentioned in the context of the People's Temple and Jim Jones, with a quote from the book regarding Jim Bogue's motivations for joining the church. It highlighted the father's heartbreak that led to his involvement.

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Unlike other members, Jim Bogue's reasons for joining the People's Temple were not lofty. A father's heartbreak drove him to Jim Jones.

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Liane Moriarty

Big Little Lies

The host selected the title as their audiobook of the month across several episodes, praising its female writers, heroines, celebrity narration, and immersive sound design. They highlighted it as a standout choice from the catalog.

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Episode: S20 E9: The Real Brody

The speaker selected this book as their audiobook for the month. It was described as having female writers and heroines, celebrity narration, multicast productions with immersive sound design, and traditional audiobooks.

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This month I selected Big Little Lies.

Episode: S20 E8: What the F*ck Happened?!

The speaker mentioned selecting "Big Little Lies" as their audiobook of the month from Audible.

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This month I selected Big Little Lies.

Episode: S20 E6: Rot in Hell

The speaker selected "Big Little Lies" as their audiobook of the month, praising the female writers and heroines, celebrity narration, and immersive sound design.

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This month I selected Big Little Lies.

Episode: S20 E5: Evil to Her Core

It was chosen as the audiobook to keep from the entire catalog for the month.

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This month I selected Big Little Lies.

Episode: S20 E4: FAKE

It was selected by the host as their audiobook choice of the month from Audible.

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This month I selected Big Little Lies.

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Lisa Jewell

None of This Is True

A Novel

The hosts repeatedly urged listeners to check out the book, describing it as a shocking psychological thriller available on Audible. They highlighted it as a good mystery for anyone in the mood for a thrilling story. The overall tone was a strong recommendation.

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Episode: S20 E8: What the F*ck Happened?!

The speaker suggested listeners check out "None of This is True" by Lisa Jewell, an example of a shocking psychological thriller available on Audible.

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If you're in the mood for a shocking psychological thriller check out None of This Is True by Lisa Jewell

Episode: S20 E5: Evil to Her Core

It is a shocking psychological thriller that is recommended for anyone in the mood for a good mystery.

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If you're in the mood for a shocking psychological thriller, check out None of This Is True by Lisa Jewel.

Episode: S20 E4: FAKE

It was recommended as a shocking psychological thriller to check out on Audible.

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If you're in the mood for a shocking psychological thriller check out None of This Is True by Lisa Jewell.

Episode: S20 E3: Don't Wake the Bear

It was strongly recommended for listeners who enjoy a shocking psychological thriller.

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If you're in the mood for a shocking psychological thriller, check out None of This Is True by Lisa Jewell.

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Robert D. Hare

Without Conscience

The Disturbing World of the Psychopaths Among Us

The hosts referenced the book to illustrate how psychopaths manipulate victims and even experts, noting that anyone can be deceived by a skilled psychopath. They highlighted the unsettling accounts and the common question victims ask about their own gullibility, emphasizing the book’s insight into psychopathic behavior. Their discussion underscored its value for listeners seeking to understand this disturbing phenomenon.

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Episode: S20 E11: (Finale Part 1) She's a Loose Cannon

The author, Robert D. Hare, discussed the disturbing world of psychopaths. Victims of psychopaths often question their own gullibility and wonder how they could have fallen for the psychopath's lies. However, the author stressed that everyone is vulnerable to manipulation by a skilled and determined psychopath, even those who study them.

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The following excerpts are from his book, Without Conscience. The disturbing world of psychopaths among us.

One question runs like a refrain through the stories told by the victims of psychopaths. How could I be so stupid? How could I have fallen for that incredible line of baloney?

The characteristic answer, you had to be there. It seemed reasonable and plausible at the time.

Few people are such sophisticated and perceptive judges of human nature that they cannot be taken in by the machinations of a skilled and determined psychopath. Even those who study them are not immune.

As I've indicated in previous chapters, my students and I are sometimes conned, even when aware that we're dealing with a probable psychopath.

Episode: S20 E2: Brody Is Going to Get You Every Time

The book explores the disturbing world of psychopaths in society.

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I selected Without Conscience, the disturbing world of psychopaths among us.

Episode: S20 E1: [Preview] S20: Becoming Brody

The book, "Without Conscience", discussed the disturbing world of psychopaths.

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I selected Without Conscience, the disturbing world of psychopaths among us.

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Lundy Bancroft

Why Does He Do That?

Inside the Minds of Abusive and Controlling Men

The book was praised for its deep insights into controlling and abusive behavior, with one host noting it helped her recognize subtle financial manipulation by her ex-husband. Another episode highlighted its discussion of the lasting emotional scars abuse can cause, emphasizing how abusers manipulate others. A third host called it the most helpful resource on abuse she had read, having revisited it multiple times.

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Episode: S21 E12: (4/4) [Jubilee] Dead Raiser

It was recommended for its insights into controlling and abusive behavior, helping the speaker understand the subtle ways her ex-husband was controlling her.

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One book I really highly recommend is Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft.

When I was reading that book I didn't have words to any of the things I was going through. I didn't realize the ways that he was subtly being controlling. I didn't realize that he was trying to make sure that I couldn't financially take care of myself.

Episode: S1 E4: Kimmy & Brian

Lundy Bancroft's book, 'Why Does He Do That?', was discussed, focusing on the lasting impact of emotional abuse and how abusers manipulate others into supporting their actions.

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The scars from mental cruelty can be as deep and long-lasting as wounds from punches or slaps, but are often not as obvious.

In fact, even among women who have experienced violence from a partner, half or more report that the man's emotional abuse is what's causing them the greatest harm.

It takes a village to raise a child, and the same can be said for abusing a woman.

Episode: S1 E2: It Was Weird

It was described as the most helpful book on abuse that the podcast host had read, focusing on the behaviors of abusive men, and was mentioned to have read it three times.

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The most helpful book I've read on abuse, and I've read three times now and counting, is Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft.

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Nicholas Sparks

The Notebook

The title was brought up in two episodes as part of a discussion about the hosts' fascination with romantic stories, with one host noting she reads many Nicholas Sparks novels and the other recalling watching the film adaptation during late‑night hangouts. Both mentions were casual references rather than formal recommendations.

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Episode: S20 E8: What the F*ck Happened?!

The speaker said that they used to spend time in Jess's room, watching movies like "The Notebook" and "A Walk to Remember".

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Jess and I as friends, which she was one of those very possessive friends, all we would do is sit in her room, listen to love stories, watch The Notebook, watch A Walk to Remember, like watching all of these lovey-dovey movies.

Episode: S21 E8: (2/2) [Krystyn] I Feel the Need to Fight

The speaker mentioned reading many books by Nicholas Sparks and that she was obsessed with the idea of love, implying she enjoyed his romantic novels.

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I would read all of those books too by Nicholas Sparks.

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Nancy Brophy

The Wrong Brother (Wrong Never Felt So Right Book 1)

Nicole was reading the "Wrong Never Felt So Right" series while on her honeymoon, she read two books and aimed to read all five by the end of her trip. The series follows a former Navy SEAL who comes to the rescue of a beautiful young woman on the run from her dangerous husband.

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She was already on book number two in the Wrong Never Felt So Right series.

— Episode: Listen Now: Happily Never After: Dan & N...

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Episode: Listen Now: Happily Never After: Dan & Nancy

Nicole was reading the "Wrong Never Felt So Right" series while on her honeymoon, she read two books and aimed to read all five by the end of her trip. The series follows a former Navy SEAL who comes to the rescue of a beautiful young woman on the run from her dangerous husband.

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She was already on book number two in the Wrong Never Felt So Right series.

And she was determined to get through all five books by the end of her trip.

Every book was more or less the same.

Burly former Navy SEAL comes to the rescue of beautiful young woman on the run from her dangerous husband.

It was an odd choice of reading for a honeymoon.

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Gavin De Becker

The Gift of Fear

Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence

The book's content was discussed regarding the importance of recognizing potentially dangerous situations and the concept of trust in the modern era, particularly for women, in the context of unwanted approaches by male strangers.

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In Gavin DeBecker's book, The Gift of Fear, he writes, Unlike when people lived in small communities and could not escape their past behavior, we live in an age of anonymous one-time encounters, and m...

— Episode: S1 E11: This is a Pattern

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Episode: S1 E11: This is a Pattern

The book's content was discussed regarding the importance of recognizing potentially dangerous situations and the concept of trust in the modern era, particularly for women, in the context of unwanted approaches by male strangers.

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In Gavin DeBecker's book, The Gift of Fear, he writes, Unlike when people lived in small communities and could not escape their past behavior, we live in an age of anonymous one-time encounters, and many people have become expert at the art of fast persuasion.

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Michelle Alexander

The New Jim Crow

Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness

The New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander is recommended as a resource for understanding the history of race and racism.

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The Autobiography of Malcolm X, Where Do We Go From Here by Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., Just Mercy by Bryan Stevenson, The New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander, Freedom is a Co...

— Episode: Data Points: Racism (Featuring LeRon Bar...

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Episode: Data Points: Racism (Featuring LeRon Barton)

The New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander is recommended as a resource for understanding the history of race and racism.

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The Autobiography of Malcolm X, Where Do We Go From Here by Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., Just Mercy by Bryan Stevenson, The New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander, Freedom is a Constant Struggle by Angela Davis, The Man Not by Dr. Tommy J. Curry.

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Stephenie Meyer

The Twilight Saga

Complete 4 Book Set ( 1 Pb & 3 Hb ) (Twilight (pb) / New Moon (hb) / Eclipse (hb) / Breaking Dawn (hb))

The family of the victim in the case believed that the victim's aunt was in a vampire cult because she liked the Twilight books.

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They also said that I was in a vampire cult, which I think is because I was into Twilight at the time.

— Episode: S17 E3: Living in a Nightmare

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Episode: S17 E3: Living in a Nightmare

The family of the victim in the case believed that the victim's aunt was in a vampire cult because she liked the Twilight books.

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They also said that I was in a vampire cult, which I think is because I was into Twilight at the time.

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Malcolm X

The Autobiography of Malcolm X (As told to Alex Haley)

The Autobiography of Malcolm X is recommended as a resource for understanding the history of race and racism.

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The Autobiography of Malcolm X, Where Do We Go From Here by Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., Just Mercy by Bryan Stevenson, The New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander, Freedom is a Constant Struggle b...

— Episode: Data Points: Racism (Featuring LeRon Bar...

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The Autobiography of Malcolm X is recommended as a resource for understanding the history of race and racism.

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The Autobiography of Malcolm X, Where Do We Go From Here by Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., Just Mercy by Bryan Stevenson, The New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander, Freedom is a Constant Struggle by Angela Davis, The Man Not by Dr. Tommy J. Curry.

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