No Stupid Questions
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No Stupid Questions

Research psychologist Angela Duckworth (author of "Grit") and tech and sports executive Mike Maughan really like to ask people questions, and they believe there’s no such thing as a stupid one. So they have a podcast where they can ask each other as many “stupid questions” as they want. New episodes...

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Honours versus Money: The Economics of Awards cover

Honours versus Money

Bruno S. Frey

Mentioned 4 months ago

62. How Can You Escape a Drama Triangle?

This book was referenced as arguing that awards can enhance performance across various situations, even when they are purely symbolic, suggesting that the desire for recognition is a fundamental part of human nature.

And so there's a book by Jana Gallus and Bruno Frey. It's called Honors vs. Money, the Economics of Awards.

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Some must watch while some must sleep (The Portable Stanford series)

William C. Dement

Mentioned 7 months ago

50. Are You as Observant as You Think?

Angela referenced this book she read as a teenager, which had a forest green cover with a Picasso painting of a sleeping woman. The book detailed the story of a colleague of DeMent's who began sleeping only four hours a night after the age of 23, a pattern that continued for the rest of his life.

I read this book when I was a teenager that my sister had on her shelf. I can picture it vividly. It had a forest green cover with a Picasso painting of a woman sleeping. It was called Why Some Must Sleep and Others Must Watch.

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The Black Swan

Nassim Nicholas Taleb

Mentioned 7 months ago

49. How Does Facing Death Change Your Life?

The book defined a black swan event as something unpredictable, carrying a massive impact, and which people rationalize after the fact to seem predictable. The speakers noted that people tend to misinterpret the concept by trying to predict these rare events.

Many people think of this now as the black swan effect after Nassim Taleb's book of that name.

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Grit

Angela Duckworth

Mentioned 8 months ago

46. How Can You Stop Feeling So Irritable?

The book was mentioned in the context of perseverance versus patience, suggesting Ben Franklin might have confused the two concepts before the book's publication.

Maybe he hadn't read grit.

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Um. . .: Slips, Stumbles, and Verbal Blunders, and What They Mean cover

Um. . .

Michael Erard

Mentioned 8 months ago

45. How Much Better Do You Really Want to Be?

The book discussed the observation that people generally did not focus on or complain about the use of 'um' until voice recording became common. The author made the interesting note that all languages possess their own equivalent to 'um'.

With a few exceptions, people didn't really start talking about um or complaining about it until the advent of voice recording. It is likely they were using it all along, but either they didn't notice it or didn't deem it worthy of writing down. It wasn't considered a word, but a noise like a cough.

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Against Empathy

Paul Bloom

Mentioned 9 months ago

44. Is Empathy in Fact Immoral?

This book argued that empathy is a leading motivator of inequality and immorality, characterizing it as a capricious and irrational emotion that appeals to narrow prejudices and can diminish kindness and love.

He argues that empathy is one of the leading motivators of inequality and immorality, and that far from helping us to improve the lives of others, empathy is a capricious and irrational emotion that appeals to our narrow prejudices.

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Type A Behavior and Your Heart

Meyer Friedman

Mentioned 9 months ago

44. Is Empathy in Fact Immoral?

This book detailed the authors' findings that people exhibiting Type A personality traits, such as impatience and irritability, were significantly more prone to heart attacks than those with more relaxed Type B traits.

In 1974, they published a book about their findings called Type A Behavior and Your Heart.

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Super Freakonomics

Steven D. Levitt

Mentioned 9 months ago

42. How Does When You Are Born Affect Who You Are?

The speakers referenced writing about the relative age effect in Major League Baseball within this book, noting they analyzed birth date bulges related to the July 31st cutoff date in youth leagues.

We wrote about this, I believe it was in Super Freakonomics, but we looked at the birth date bulges.

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Freakonomics [Revised and Expanded]

Steven D. Levitt

Mentioned 9 months ago

41. Why Are We So Attracted to Fame?

The first book by Stephen Dubner and his collaborator was mentioned as the one that led to the speaker being recognized in airports after a documentary film based on it was released.

Our first book, Freakonomics, came out. And then as we were working on the second book, there was a movie being made.

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The Wiley Blackwell Encyclopedia of Consumption and Consumer Studies (Wiley Blackwell Encyclopedias in Social Sciences) cover

The Wiley Blackwell Encyclopedia of Consumption and Consumer Studies (Wiley Blackwell Encyclopedias in Social Sciences)

Daniel Thomas Cook

Mentioned 9 months ago

41. Why Are We So Attracted to Fame?

This encyclopedia was cited as a source for categorizing different types of celebrities, which the speaker found useful for discussing the roles of fame.

He's at the City University of London and he wrote about celebrity for the Wiley-Blackwell Encyclopedia of Consumption and Consumer Studies, it's called.

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Influence, New and Expanded

Robert B. Cialdini PhD

Mentioned 9 months ago

41. Why Are We So Attracted to Fame?

A forthcoming new version of this book, which discusses persuasion and mental shortcuts like social proof, was mentioned as being read by Stephen Dubner.

I was just talking to our common friend, Bob Cialdini. Well, he's uncommon as a human being, but we are both friends with him. I was reading his soon to be published new version of influence and how we persuade each other.

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How Not to Be Wrong

Jordan Ellenberg

Mentioned 10 months ago

40. Have We All Lost Our Ability to Compromise?

This book was mentioned in relation to the famous story about mathematician Abraham Wald and the missing bullet holes on WWII planes, illustrating the importance of missing data.

One is in a book by Jordan Ellenberg, who I believe is a mathematician himself. And his book is called How Not to Be Wrong.

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The Food Lab: Better Home Cooking Through Science Cover

J. Kenji López-Alt

The Food Lab

Better Home Cooking Through Science

This was mentioned as J. Kenji Lpez-Alt's first number one New York Times bestselling book, detailing his very scientific approach to cooking. The author intended the book to provide context and technique rather than just specific turn-by-turn recipes.

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The Food Lab is also the title of Kenzie's first number one New York Times bestselling book.

— Episode: Presenting “Smart Girl Dumb Questions”

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Episode: Presenting “Smart Girl Dumb Questions”

This was mentioned as J. Kenji Lpez-Alt's first number one New York Times bestselling book, detailing his very scientific approach to cooking. The author intended the book to provide context and technique rather than just specific turn-by-turn recipes.

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The Food Lab is also the title of Kenzie's first number one New York Times bestselling book.

I wrote this in my first book that I feel like it's, it's far more important, at least with my work to read the surrounding material as opposed to just the specific recipe. Because the recipe is like a set of turn-by-turn directions that doesn't give you context.

The Food Lab was just like, I wrote a book thinking, I started a column thinking, okay, what would me as a young cook have wanted?

Choke: What the Secrets of the Brain Reveal About Getting It Right When You Have To Cover

Sian Beilock

Choke

What the Secrets of the Brain Reveal About Getting It Right When You Have To

Angela mentioned the book 'Choke' and a study within it on expressive writing, suggesting it aids in emotion regulation and performance under pressure, which might have helped her in college.

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I'm thinking about like the yurky Dodson curve... I think was first posited at the turn of the 20th century

— Episode: 146. How Do You Avoid Freezing Under Pre...

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Episode: 146. How Do You Avoid Freezing Under Pressure?

Angela mentioned the book 'Choke' and a study within it on expressive writing, suggesting it aids in emotion regulation and performance under pressure, which might have helped her in college.

"

I'm thinking about like the yurky Dodson curve... I think was first posited at the turn of the 20th century

there's a research study by Sian Bailak who's a scientist as well known as any scientist who's studied choking and wrote a book called Choke on the science of high pressure performance

expressive writing may help individuals develop insights that can aid emotion regulation and perceive control of stressful situations thereby offloading worries and freeing cognitive resources that can be used to optimize performance

Scorecasting: The Hidden Influences Behind How Sports Are Played and Games Are Won Cover

Tobias J. Moskowitz

Scorecasting

The Hidden Influences Behind How Sports Are Played and Games Are Won

It was brought up in the context of sports statistics and conventional wisdom, particularly in relation to the concept of home field advantage and referee bias.

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who co-wrote a book called Score Casting which was about sports statistics and conventional wisdoms

— Episode: 40. Have We All Lost Our Ability to Comp...

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Episode: 40. Have We All Lost Our Ability to Compromise?

It was brought up in the context of sports statistics and conventional wisdom, particularly in relation to the concept of home field advantage and referee bias.

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who co-wrote a book called Score Casting which was about sports statistics and conventional wisdoms

Thirty Million Words: Building a Child's Brain Cover

Dana Suskind

Thirty Million Words

Building a Child's Brain

It was mentioned as being more easily digested advice about good parenting, as compared to 'Parent Nations'.

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And data wrote a book prior to that called '30 Million Words'

— Episode: 102. What’s So Bad About Nepotism?

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Episode: 102. What’s So Bad About Nepotism?

It was mentioned as being more easily digested advice about good parenting, as compared to 'Parent Nations'.

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And data wrote a book prior to that called '30 Million Words'

But that one was more easily Digested by a parent as like these are the things that I need to do for my kid

The book seemed to have so much warmer reception than 'Parent Nation'

Encyclopedia of Ethical Failure revised July 2023 Cover

United States Government US Army

Encyclopedia of Ethical Failure revised July 2023

It was described as a book of true stories of epic screw-ups by federal workers, written by a lawyer for the U.S. Department of Defense as a way to get people to pay attention to rules and regulations.

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So instead, he created this book of true stories that he called The Encyclopedia of Ethical Failure.

— Episode: 10. Why Are Stories Stickier Than Statis...

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Episode: 10. Why Are Stories Stickier Than Statistics?

It was described as a book of true stories of epic screw-ups by federal workers, written by a lawyer for the U.S. Department of Defense as a way to get people to pay attention to rules and regulations.

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So instead, he created this book of true stories that he called The Encyclopedia of Ethical Failure.

And it was nothing but a catalog of epic screw-ups perpetrated by federal workers.

And his claim was that it was much more successful.

Words on the Move: Why English Won't - and Can't - Sit Still (Like, Literally) Cover

John McWhorter

Words on the Move

Why English Won't - and Can't - Sit Still (Like, Literally)

It was mentioned in relation to how language evolves over time, with dictionaries sometimes lagging behind actual usage, and how words change meaning and function. It was briefly mentioned in relation to the changing meaning of "literally."

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And he talked about the very fact that words just change and dictionaries sort of set in our minds that language is going to be precise forever.

— Episode: 171. Where Is the Line Between Exaggerat...

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Episode: 171. Where Is the Line Between Exaggeration and Ly...

It was mentioned in relation to how language evolves over time, with dictionaries sometimes lagging behind actual usage, and how words change meaning and function. It was briefly mentioned in relation to the changing meaning of "literally."

"

And he talked about the very fact that words just change and dictionaries sort of set in our minds that language is going to be precise forever.

And this is just what this word means or this is how we say it.

But it's a constantly evolving thing and that's why Latin became French. That's why Old English became Modern English.

The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin Cover

Benjamin Franklin

The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin

Franklin detailed an anecdote where he used a wheelbarrow full of paper to appear industrious in the neighborhood while paying off a debt to a printing house.

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He's like, fill a wheelbarrow with piles of paper and walk around the neighborhood so that people think you're an industrious person. Like, that's easier than actually being industrious.

— Episode: 17. How Can We Get More Virtue and Less...

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Franklin detailed an anecdote where he used a wheelbarrow full of paper to appear industrious in the neighborhood while paying off a debt to a printing house.

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He's like, fill a wheelbarrow with piles of paper and walk around the neighborhood so that people think you're an industrious person. Like, that's easier than actually being industrious.

I sometimes brought home the paper I purchased at the stores through the streets on a wheelbarrow, thus being esteemed an industrious, thriving young man and paying duly for what I bought.

The Expression of the Emotions in Man and Animals (Penguin Classics) Cover

Charles Darwin

The Expression of the Emotions in Man and Animals (Penguin Classics)

The speakers noted that Charles Darwin described emotions related to learning and thinking in this 1872 book, suggesting that the study of interest as an emotion is not entirely new.

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we should note that in 1872, Charles Darwin described emotions related to learning and thinking in his book The Expression of the Emotions in Man and Animals.

— Episode: 222. What Makes an Idea Interesting?

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Episode: 222. What Makes an Idea Interesting?

The speakers noted that Charles Darwin described emotions related to learning and thinking in this 1872 book, suggesting that the study of interest as an emotion is not entirely new.

"

we should note that in 1872, Charles Darwin described emotions related to learning and thinking in his book The Expression of the Emotions in Man and Animals.

PASSAGES: PREDICABLE CRISES OF ADULT LIFE. Cover

Gail Sheehy

PASSAGES

PREDICABLE CRISES OF ADULT LIFE.

It was mentioned as a book that was widely popular in the 1970s and 1980s, particularly focusing on the aging process for both men and women, based on interviews with educated middle-class individuals.

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There was a book by Gail Sheehy, which was just at the time massively everywhere. It was particularly looking at the passage of time and aging from a female perspective. But it was called PASS...

— Episode: 115. Are You Having a Midlife Crisis?

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Episode: 115. Are You Having a Midlife Crisis?

It was mentioned as a book that was widely popular in the 1970s and 1980s, particularly focusing on the aging process for both men and women, based on interviews with educated middle-class individuals.

"

There was a book by Gail Sheehy, which was just at the time massively everywhere. It was particularly looking at the passage of time and aging from a female perspective. But it was called PASSAGES: Predictable Crises of Adult Life.

He thought the book was about what aging is like from a female perspective.

In actuality, the book covers the aging process for both men and women, or at least a certain demographic of men and women.

Mastering the Art of French Cooking (2 Volume Set) Cover

Julia Child

Mastering the Art of French Cooking (2 Volume Set)

It was mentioned in a hypothetical example, illustrating the shift from hands-on experiences to vicarious ones through media.

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Like there was a time when people bought Julia Child's cookbook and made cacao van for the first time.

— Episode: 100. Is It Weird for Adults to Have Imag...

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Episode: 100. Is It Weird for Adults to Have Imaginary Frie...

It was mentioned in a hypothetical example, illustrating the shift from hands-on experiences to vicarious ones through media.

"

Like there was a time when people bought Julia Child's cookbook and made cacao van for the first time.

Generations: The Real Differences Between Gen Z, Millennials, Gen X, Boomers, and Silents―and What They Mean for America's Future Cover

Jean M. Twenge PhD

Generations

The Real Differences Between Gen Z, Millennials, Gen X, Boomers, and Silents―and What They Mean for America's Future

It was discussed as a book that explores the differences between generations, specifically Gen Z, millennials, Gen X, boomers, and silents, and their impact on America's future. The book was mentioned as relevant to the topic of generational differences and provided a framework to discuss it.

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The title of that book is Generations, Colin, the real differences between Gen Z, millennials, Gen X, boomers and silence and what they mean for America's future.

— Episode: 165. Do "Generations" Mean Anything?

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Episode: 165. Do "Generations" Mean Anything?

It was discussed as a book that explores the differences between generations, specifically Gen Z, millennials, Gen X, boomers, and silents, and their impact on America's future. The book was mentioned as relevant to the topic of generational differences and provided a framework to discuss it.

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The title of that book is Generations, Colin, the real differences between Gen Z, millennials, Gen X, boomers and silence and what they mean for America's future.

So what is the root cause of these cultural changes and thus the root cause of generational differences? It should be something that keeps progressing year after year and something with a big impact on day to day life. The strongest candidate is technology.

Technology and its after effects on culture, behavior and attitudes have broken the old cycles of Generations to form something novel.

Free-Range Kids: How Parents and Teachers Can Let Go and Let Grow Cover

Lenore Skenazy

Free-Range Kids

How Parents and Teachers Can Let Go and Let Grow

It was mentioned in relation to the 'free-range parenting' concept, which advocates for giving children more independence, as exemplified by the Macy's subway trip story that was also written about in a newspaper column.

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I do kind of wonder whether we're like bubble wrapping our kids.

— Episode: 178. Do Kids Need More Independence?

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Episode: 178. Do Kids Need More Independence?

It was mentioned in relation to the 'free-range parenting' concept, which advocates for giving children more independence, as exemplified by the Macy's subway trip story that was also written about in a newspaper column.

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I do kind of wonder whether we're like bubble wrapping our kids.

What I think is fascinating in this outgrowth is because there are people like you who believe that maybe we're bubble wrapping kids. This idea of free range parenting.

I always laugh when I say it because when you go buy eggs at the grocery store, there's like free range chickens.

Angela is right that the term was coined by a New York City mom but she misremembers some of the details.

In 2008, Lenore Schenazy wrote a column in The New York Sun describing how she let her then 9-year-old son, not yet in middle school, make his way home from Bloomingdale's alone via the subway and bus.

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Aly Martinez

The Difference Between Somebody and Someone (The Difference Trilogy Book 1)

John Wooden's TED Talk and philosophy of success was discussed, focusing on self-satisfaction and effort rather than external validation or winning, it was suggested that focusing on the internal journey often leads to external success.

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So John Wooden gives a TED talk back in 2001 called The Difference Between Winning and Succeeding.

— Episode: 177. What Does Success Look Like?

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Episode: 177. What Does Success Look Like?

John Wooden's TED Talk and philosophy of success was discussed, focusing on self-satisfaction and effort rather than external validation or winning, it was suggested that focusing on the internal journey often leads to external success.

"

So John Wooden gives a TED talk back in 2001 called The Difference Between Winning and Succeeding.

He said, peace of mind attained only through self-satisfaction in knowing you made the effort to do the best of which you are capable.

If you make the effort to do the best of which you're capable, trying to improve the situation that exists for you, I think that's success.

Reputation is what you're perceived to be. Character is what you really are.

It comes down to like, did you put out your very best effort?

Administrative Behavior Cover

Herbert A. Simon

Administrative Behavior

The book, "Administrative Behavior" by Herbert Simon, was mentioned in the context of his theory of "satisficing", an alternative to maximizing that involves choosing a "good enough" option rather than the best.

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So Herb Simon who truly was brilliant had this expression.

— Episode: 176. Why Is It So Hard to Make Decisions...

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Episode: 176. Why Is It So Hard to Make Decisions?

The book, "Administrative Behavior" by Herbert Simon, was mentioned in the context of his theory of "satisficing", an alternative to maximizing that involves choosing a "good enough" option rather than the best.

"

So Herb Simon who truly was brilliant had this expression.

Here's one sentence from Herb Simon's original work in 1947.

Simplification may lead to error, but there's no realistic alternative in the face of the limits on human knowledge and reasoning.

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Amy Tan

The Hundred Secret Senses

The hosts briefly mentioned that one of them had read it in a book club and was impressed by it.

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Have you ever read anything of hers? I have absolutely my book club we read The Hundred Secret Senses have you read that one?

— Episode: 174. What’s the Point of I.Q. Testing?

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Episode: 174. What’s the Point of I.Q. Testing?

The hosts briefly mentioned that one of them had read it in a book club and was impressed by it.

"

Have you ever read anything of hers? I have absolutely my book club we read The Hundred Secret Senses have you read that one?

Intelligence is not enough;: The story of my first forty years and of the early years of the Experiment in International Living Cover

Donald Beates Watt

Intelligence is not enough;

The story of my first forty years and of the early years of the Experiment in International Living

Angela Duckworth's PhD thesis, it was mentioned as exploring non-IQ factors influencing achievement, reflecting her strong perspective on the topic.

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My PhD dissertation, I'm trying to remember what it was exactly called. I think it was called non-I.Q. determinants of achievement.

— Episode: 174. What’s the Point of I.Q. Testing?

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Episode: 174. What’s the Point of I.Q. Testing?

Angela Duckworth's PhD thesis, it was mentioned as exploring non-IQ factors influencing achievement, reflecting her strong perspective on the topic.

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My PhD dissertation, I'm trying to remember what it was exactly called. I think it was called non-I.Q. determinants of achievement.

Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make--and Keep--Friends Cover

Marisa G. Franco PhD

Platonic

How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make--and Keep--Friends

It was mentioned regarding how people who view friendships as based on effort tend to be less lonely later in life compared to those who see it as luck.

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Let me share a little from Marissa Franco, who's at the University of Maryland.

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Episode: 149. Is It Harder to Make Friends as an Adult? (Re...

It was mentioned regarding how people who view friendships as based on effort tend to be less lonely later in life compared to those who see it as luck.

"

Let me share a little from Marissa Franco, who's at the University of Maryland.

And she talks about this. She said, and those who see it as something that happened based on effort are less lonely in later years.

Of Blood and Bones: Working with Shadow Magick & the Dark Moon Cover

Kate Freuler

Of Blood and Bones

Working with Shadow Magick & the Dark Moon

It was discussed in relation to the author's journey as a chef, including the various skills and challenges involved in the profession and the evolution of her perspective on leadership and teamwork.

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I am dying to ask you a question that has actually been simmering as I read through like essays that you've published in the Times and course I read Blood Boons and Butter.

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It was discussed in relation to the author's journey as a chef, including the various skills and challenges involved in the profession and the evolution of her perspective on leadership and teamwork.

"

I am dying to ask you a question that has actually been simmering as I read through like essays that you've published in the Times and course I read Blood Boons and Butter.

You've titled your book, Blood, Bones and Butter, The Inadvertent Education of a Reluctant Chef.

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