No Stupid Questions
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No Stupid Questions

Research psychologist Angela Duckworth (author of "Grit") and tech and sports executive Mike Maughan really like to ask people questions, and they believe there’s no such thing as a stupid one. So they have a podcast where they can ask each other as many “stupid questions” as they want. New episodes...

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Honours versus Money: The Economics of Awards cover

Honours versus Money

Bruno S. Frey

Mentioned 4 months ago

62. How Can You Escape a Drama Triangle?

This book was referenced as arguing that awards can enhance performance across various situations, even when they are purely symbolic, suggesting that the desire for recognition is a fundamental part of human nature.

And so there's a book by Jana Gallus and Bruno Frey. It's called Honors vs. Money, the Economics of Awards.

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Some must watch while some must sleep (The Portable Stanford series)

William C. Dement

Mentioned 7 months ago

50. Are You as Observant as You Think?

Angela referenced this book she read as a teenager, which had a forest green cover with a Picasso painting of a sleeping woman. The book detailed the story of a colleague of DeMent's who began sleeping only four hours a night after the age of 23, a pattern that continued for the rest of his life.

I read this book when I was a teenager that my sister had on her shelf. I can picture it vividly. It had a forest green cover with a Picasso painting of a woman sleeping. It was called Why Some Must Sleep and Others Must Watch.

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The Black Swan

Nassim Nicholas Taleb

Mentioned 7 months ago

49. How Does Facing Death Change Your Life?

The book defined a black swan event as something unpredictable, carrying a massive impact, and which people rationalize after the fact to seem predictable. The speakers noted that people tend to misinterpret the concept by trying to predict these rare events.

Many people think of this now as the black swan effect after Nassim Taleb's book of that name.

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Grit

Angela Duckworth

Mentioned 8 months ago

46. How Can You Stop Feeling So Irritable?

The book was mentioned in the context of perseverance versus patience, suggesting Ben Franklin might have confused the two concepts before the book's publication.

Maybe he hadn't read grit.

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Um. . .: Slips, Stumbles, and Verbal Blunders, and What They Mean cover

Um. . .

Michael Erard

Mentioned 8 months ago

45. How Much Better Do You Really Want to Be?

The book discussed the observation that people generally did not focus on or complain about the use of 'um' until voice recording became common. The author made the interesting note that all languages possess their own equivalent to 'um'.

With a few exceptions, people didn't really start talking about um or complaining about it until the advent of voice recording. It is likely they were using it all along, but either they didn't notice it or didn't deem it worthy of writing down. It wasn't considered a word, but a noise like a cough.

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Against Empathy

Paul Bloom

Mentioned 9 months ago

44. Is Empathy in Fact Immoral?

This book argued that empathy is a leading motivator of inequality and immorality, characterizing it as a capricious and irrational emotion that appeals to narrow prejudices and can diminish kindness and love.

He argues that empathy is one of the leading motivators of inequality and immorality, and that far from helping us to improve the lives of others, empathy is a capricious and irrational emotion that appeals to our narrow prejudices.

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Type A Behavior and Your Heart

Meyer Friedman

Mentioned 9 months ago

44. Is Empathy in Fact Immoral?

This book detailed the authors' findings that people exhibiting Type A personality traits, such as impatience and irritability, were significantly more prone to heart attacks than those with more relaxed Type B traits.

In 1974, they published a book about their findings called Type A Behavior and Your Heart.

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Super Freakonomics

Steven D. Levitt

Mentioned 9 months ago

42. How Does When You Are Born Affect Who You Are?

The speakers referenced writing about the relative age effect in Major League Baseball within this book, noting they analyzed birth date bulges related to the July 31st cutoff date in youth leagues.

We wrote about this, I believe it was in Super Freakonomics, but we looked at the birth date bulges.

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Freakonomics [Revised and Expanded]

Steven D. Levitt

Mentioned 9 months ago

41. Why Are We So Attracted to Fame?

The first book by Stephen Dubner and his collaborator was mentioned as the one that led to the speaker being recognized in airports after a documentary film based on it was released.

Our first book, Freakonomics, came out. And then as we were working on the second book, there was a movie being made.

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The Wiley Blackwell Encyclopedia of Consumption and Consumer Studies (Wiley Blackwell Encyclopedias in Social Sciences) cover

The Wiley Blackwell Encyclopedia of Consumption and Consumer Studies (Wiley Blackwell Encyclopedias in Social Sciences)

Daniel Thomas Cook

Mentioned 9 months ago

41. Why Are We So Attracted to Fame?

This encyclopedia was cited as a source for categorizing different types of celebrities, which the speaker found useful for discussing the roles of fame.

He's at the City University of London and he wrote about celebrity for the Wiley-Blackwell Encyclopedia of Consumption and Consumer Studies, it's called.

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Influence, New and Expanded

Robert B. Cialdini PhD

Mentioned 9 months ago

41. Why Are We So Attracted to Fame?

A forthcoming new version of this book, which discusses persuasion and mental shortcuts like social proof, was mentioned as being read by Stephen Dubner.

I was just talking to our common friend, Bob Cialdini. Well, he's uncommon as a human being, but we are both friends with him. I was reading his soon to be published new version of influence and how we persuade each other.

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How Not to Be Wrong

Jordan Ellenberg

Mentioned 10 months ago

40. Have We All Lost Our Ability to Compromise?

This book was mentioned in relation to the famous story about mathematician Abraham Wald and the missing bullet holes on WWII planes, illustrating the importance of missing data.

One is in a book by Jordan Ellenberg, who I believe is a mathematician himself. And his book is called How Not to Be Wrong.

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Steven D. Levitt

Freakonomics [Revised and Expanded]

A Rogue Economist Explores the Hidden Side of Everything

Stephen Dubner was noted to have written this book, among others.

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And you wrote the book Freakonomics among quite a few others.

— Episode: 3. What Does It Mean to Be a “Hard Worke...

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Episode: 3. What Does It Mean to Be a “Hard Worker”?

Stephen Dubner was noted to have written this book, among others.

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And you wrote the book Freakonomics among quite a few others.

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Matthew McConaughey

Poems & Prayers

Stephen read poetry by Yehuda Amichai for about 10 or 15 minutes after removing himself from an aggravating situation, which made him feel connected to the human family again.

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And I would just leave the room. And I would just then go sit and close the door and for 10 or 15 minutes read some, in this case, Yehuda Amichai poetry.

— Episode: 2. What is the Optimal Way to Be Angry?

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Episode: 2. What is the Optimal Way to Be Angry?

Stephen read poetry by Yehuda Amichai for about 10 or 15 minutes after removing himself from an aggravating situation, which made him feel connected to the human family again.

"

And I would just leave the room. And I would just then go sit and close the door and for 10 or 15 minutes read some, in this case, Yehuda Amichai poetry.

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Steven D. Levitt

Freakonomics [Revised and Expanded]

A Rogue Economist Explores the Hidden Side of Everything

The book was mentioned when describing Stephen Dubner's background as a writer and host of Freakonomics Radio.

"

And you wrote the book Freakonomics among quite a few others.

— Episode: 1. Did Covid-19 Kill the Handshake?

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Episode: 1. Did Covid-19 Kill the Handshake?

The book was mentioned when describing Stephen Dubner's background as a writer and host of Freakonomics Radio.

"

And you wrote the book Freakonomics among quite a few others.

Start Making Sense: How Existential Psychology Can Help Us Build Meaningful Lives in Absurd Times Cover

Steven J. Heine

Start Making Sense

How Existential Psychology Can Help Us Build Meaningful Lives in Absurd Times

This book, which was unpublished at the time of recording but scheduled for release in January 2025, explored topics related to existential psychology and building meaningful lives, referencing Viktor Frankl extensively.

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Start Making Sense, How Existential Psychology Can Help Us Build Meaningful Lives in Absurd Times, is really on the same topic.

— Episode: 223. What About All the Questions We Hav...

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Episode: 223. What About All the Questions We Haven’t Answe...

This book, which was unpublished at the time of recording but scheduled for release in January 2025, explored topics related to existential psychology and building meaningful lives, referencing Viktor Frankl extensively.

"

Start Making Sense, How Existential Psychology Can Help Us Build Meaningful Lives in Absurd Times, is really on the same topic.

Heine actually references Frankl more than, I think, two or three dozen times in the book.

And Steve Heine, as somebody who has kind of mastered the skill set of an experimental psychologist and has thought about human nature for a long time, you know, in this book, he kind of picks up these questions of like what makes life meaningful.

The Serenity Prayer: Faith and Politics in Times of Peace and War Cover

Elisabeth Sifton

The Serenity Prayer

Faith and Politics in Times of Peace and War

This book was mentioned as being written by Reinhold Niebuhr's daughter, Elizabeth Sifton, concerning her father's famous Serenity Prayer and its evolution.

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But actually, if you listen to Reinhold Niebuhr's daughter, who was named Elizabeth Sifton, she did not grow up to be a minister herself, but she did grow up to be a very famous editor, and she was al...

— Episode: 223. What About All the Questions We Hav...

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Episode: 223. What About All the Questions We Haven’t Answe...

This book was mentioned as being written by Reinhold Niebuhr's daughter, Elizabeth Sifton, concerning her father's famous Serenity Prayer and its evolution.

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But actually, if you listen to Reinhold Niebuhr's daughter, who was named Elizabeth Sifton, she did not grow up to be a minister herself, but she did grow up to be a very famous editor, and she was also a writer, and she wrote a whole book on her father's serenity prayer and the evolution of this prayer.

A New Path to the Waterfall Cover

Ray Carver

A New Path to the Waterfall

This book contained the final poem of Raymond Carver's life, which was inscribed on his tombstone, focusing on wanting to feel beloved on earth.

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The writer Raymond Carver, the last poem in his last book when he was dying at age 50, which was inscribed on his tombstone. And did you get what you wanted from this life even so? I did. And what did...

— Episode: 223. What About All the Questions We Hav...

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Episode: 223. What About All the Questions We Haven’t Answe...

This book contained the final poem of Raymond Carver's life, which was inscribed on his tombstone, focusing on wanting to feel beloved on earth.

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The writer Raymond Carver, the last poem in his last book when he was dying at age 50, which was inscribed on his tombstone. And did you get what you wanted from this life even so? I did. And what did you want? To call myself beloved. To feel myself beloved on the earth.

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Lisa Brennan-Jobs

Small Fry

A Memoir

The speaker mentioned reading this memoir and being engrossed by every detail about Steve Jobs' personal life behind closed doors.

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And I'm reading like Steve Jobs' daughter's memoir, Small Fry, oh my gosh, I'm just leaning into every detail.

— Episode: 222. What Makes an Idea Interesting?

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Episode: 222. What Makes an Idea Interesting?

The speaker mentioned reading this memoir and being engrossed by every detail about Steve Jobs' personal life behind closed doors.

"

And I'm reading like Steve Jobs' daughter's memoir, Small Fry, oh my gosh, I'm just leaning into every detail.

I had no idea she saw her dad a handful of times all the way up till, you know, age seven. And then I had no idea that this is what he was like personally behind closed doors when nobody could see.

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Steven D. Levitt

Freakonomics [Revised and Expanded]

A Rogue Economist Explores the Hidden Side of Everything

This book was cited as an example where a counterintuitive and controversial idea--that crime reduction resulted from abortion legalization--made it widely discussed.

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My immediate reaction went back to the book Freakonomics, the original Freakonomics book. I think I was early in my collegiate career when it came out and it introduced this idea that crime reduction...

— Episode: 222. What Makes an Idea Interesting?

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Episode: 222. What Makes an Idea Interesting?

This book was cited as an example where a counterintuitive and controversial idea--that crime reduction resulted from abortion legalization--made it widely discussed.

"

My immediate reaction went back to the book Freakonomics, the original Freakonomics book. I think I was early in my collegiate career when it came out and it introduced this idea that crime reduction was the direct result of the legalization of abortion.

And that was counterintuitive and it was controversial. And I felt like everyone I knew was discussing the book mostly because of that.

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Steven D. Levitt

Freakonomics [Revised and Expanded]

A Rogue Economist Explores the Hidden Side of Everything

The book was mentioned as being read by the character Alex Dunphy in an episode of Modern Family, which Stephen referenced as a nerdy accoutrement.

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I think they were at a swimming pool and everybody's jumping around having fun and she's sitting by the pool reading Freakonomics.

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The book was mentioned as being read by the character Alex Dunphy in an episode of Modern Family, which Stephen referenced as a nerdy accoutrement.

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I think they were at a swimming pool and everybody's jumping around having fun and she's sitting by the pool reading Freakonomics.

We're in the top like 58 of nerd accoutrements in the history of nerd accoutrements.

Generations: The Real Differences Between Gen Z, Millennials, Gen X, Boomers, and Silents―and What They Mean for America's Future Cover

Jean M. Twenge PhD

Generations

The Real Differences Between Gen Z, Millennials, Gen X, Boomers, and Silents―and What They Mean for America's Future

This book was mentioned in the context of Jean Twenge's work analyzing trends in pessimism among younger generations using data from the Monitoring the Future survey.

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I think when I do think about the more recent years, I think about Gene Twenge. And we've talked a lot about Gene's work on the show, but I think this question of like, how are we feeling right now?

— Episode: 221. Why Are We So Pessimistic?

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Episode: 221. Why Are We So Pessimistic?

This book was mentioned in the context of Jean Twenge's work analyzing trends in pessimism among younger generations using data from the Monitoring the Future survey.

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I think when I do think about the more recent years, I think about Gene Twenge. And we've talked a lot about Gene's work on the show, but I think this question of like, how are we feeling right now?

Uncovering Your Path: Spiritual Reflections for Finding Your Purpose Cover

Charles Lattimore Howard

Uncovering Your Path

Spiritual Reflections for Finding Your Purpose

The speaker received this book from the author, who is a chaplain at the University of Pennsylvania, to endorse. The speaker initially tried to speed-read it but stopped after the author requested readers to savor the book, which the speaker then did, loving it.

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please don't rush through this book. Please savor it.

— Episode: 220. Is Your Attention Span Shrinking?

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Episode: 220. Is Your Attention Span Shrinking?

The speaker received this book from the author, who is a chaplain at the University of Pennsylvania, to endorse. The speaker initially tried to speed-read it but stopped after the author requested readers to savor the book, which the speaker then did, loving it.

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please don't rush through this book. Please savor it.

I read every word slowly. And my endorsement below is as sincere as could be.

I savored it. I absorbed it. I loved it.

Stolen Focus: Why You Can't Pay Attention--and How to Think Deeply Again Cover

Johann Hari

Stolen Focus

Why You Can't Pay Attention--and How to Think Deeply Again

The speaker started reading this book, which suggests we are in a war of distraction, heavily influenced by technology, and recommended by the speaker's 21-year-old daughter.

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And the book really focuses on technology, by the way.

— Episode: 220. Is Your Attention Span Shrinking?

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Episode: 220. Is Your Attention Span Shrinking?

The speaker started reading this book, which suggests we are in a war of distraction, heavily influenced by technology, and recommended by the speaker's 21-year-old daughter.

"

And the book really focuses on technology, by the way.

Like we're living the world that Herb Simon described well before he could anticipate just how many distractions there would be.

Generation Me: Why Today's Young Americans Are More Confident, Assertive, Entitled--and More Miserable Than Ever Before Cover

Jean M. Twenge

Generation Me

Why Today's Young Americans Are More Confident, Assertive, Entitled--and More Miserable Than Ever Before

This book was referenced as coining the term 'generation me,' which relates to the upward trend in narcissistic personality index scores found in data from the early 1980s up through the Great Recession.

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I think Gene may have coined the term Generation Me.

— Episode: 219. How Do You Identify a Narcissist?

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Episode: 219. How Do You Identify a Narcissist?

This book was referenced as coining the term 'generation me,' which relates to the upward trend in narcissistic personality index scores found in data from the early 1980s up through the Great Recession.

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I think Gene may have coined the term Generation Me.

Cincinnatus and the Citizen-Servant Ideal: The Roman Legend's Life, Times, and Legacy Cover

Michael J. Hillyard

Cincinnatus and the Citizen-Servant Ideal

The Roman Legend's Life, Times, and Legacy

This book's subject, Cincinnatus, was discussed as a Roman figure celebrated for being a humble leader who prioritized civic duty, contrasting with the modern political desire for power out of self-belief.

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So Cincinnati is named after Cincinnatus. He's a Roman figure. Like an actual person. In antiquity.

— Episode: 219. How Do You Identify a Narcissist?

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Episode: 219. How Do You Identify a Narcissist?

This book's subject, Cincinnatus, was discussed as a Roman figure celebrated for being a humble leader who prioritized civic duty, contrasting with the modern political desire for power out of self-belief.

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So Cincinnati is named after Cincinnatus. He's a Roman figure. Like an actual person. In antiquity.

So he was celebrated for being this humble leader who just focused on civic duty.

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Steven D. Levitt

Freakonomics [Revised and Expanded]

A Rogue Economist Explores the Hidden Side of Everything

The speaker mentioned that Juliana's father inspired her to read all of the Freakonomics books, which was the reason she wanted to major in economics.

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He inspired me to read all the Freakonomics books and he was the reason I wanted to major in economics.

— Episode: How Can You Give Better Gifts? (Replay)

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Episode: How Can You Give Better Gifts? (Replay)

The speaker mentioned that Juliana's father inspired her to read all of the Freakonomics books, which was the reason she wanted to major in economics.

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He inspired me to read all the Freakonomics books and he was the reason I wanted to major in economics.

She writes, I have gotten him Freakonomics books the last three years.

Scroogenomics: Why You Shouldn't Buy Presents for the Holidays Cover

Joel Waldfogel

Scroogenomics

Why You Shouldn't Buy Presents for the Holidays

Joel Waldfogel wrote a book that revolved around the concept of dead weight loss, arguing that much of the stuff people buy for others is wasted and they would be better off giving cash instead.

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And Joel subsequently wrote a book that revolved around this. It was called Screwgenomics.

— Episode: How Can You Give Better Gifts? (Replay)

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Episode: How Can You Give Better Gifts? (Replay)

Joel Waldfogel wrote a book that revolved around the concept of dead weight loss, arguing that much of the stuff people buy for others is wasted and they would be better off giving cash instead.

"

And Joel subsequently wrote a book that revolved around this. It was called Screwgenomics.

Scroogenomics: Why You Shouldn't Buy Presents for the Holidays Cover

Joel Waldfogel

Scroogenomics

Why You Shouldn't Buy Presents for the Holidays

This paper, written by Joel Waldfogel, dealt with the concept of deadweight loss in gift-giving, which measures the gap between the cost of a gift to the giver and its perceived value to the recipient.

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So for those who wish to know more, you could search for dead weight loss, dead weight one word and Joel Waldfogel.

— Episode: How Can You Give Better Gifts? (Replay)

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Episode: How Can You Give Better Gifts? (Replay)

This paper, written by Joel Waldfogel, dealt with the concept of deadweight loss in gift-giving, which measures the gap between the cost of a gift to the giver and its perceived value to the recipient.

"

So for those who wish to know more, you could search for dead weight loss, dead weight one word and Joel Waldfogel.

I mean, she could print out the Joel Waldfogel article, Deadweight Loss of Christmas.

Contract Drafting and Negotiation for Entrepreneurs and Business Professionals Cover

Paul A. Swegle

Contract Drafting and Negotiation for Entrepreneurs and Business Professionals

This influential 1988 paper discussed how explanations (excuses vs. justifications) function in negotiating reality after a negative outcome. The authors argued that employing an excuse sequence, focusing on external factors, preserved the excuse-giver's self-esteem and sense of control, contrasting with the self-focus of the no-excuse sequence.

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It's excuses, colon, their effective role in the negotiation of reality.

— Episode: 216. Why Do We Make Excuses?

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Episode: 216. Why Do We Make Excuses?

This influential 1988 paper discussed how explanations (excuses vs. justifications) function in negotiating reality after a negative outcome. The authors argued that employing an excuse sequence, focusing on external factors, preserved the excuse-giver's self-esteem and sense of control, contrasting with the self-focus of the no-excuse sequence.

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It's excuses, colon, their effective role in the negotiation of reality.

If you are in the no excuse sequence, what you do is you internalize the cause to yourself. That's what it means not to make excuses.

Here, you think of external things. You know, the road blockages, the computer rebooted, the I was sent the wrong document, the whatever it is.

New Directions in Attribution Research Cover

J. H. Harvey

New Directions in Attribution Research

This questionnaire, developed by Marty Seligman and colleagues, was designed to assess an individual's spontaneous attribution style following negative events across three dimensions: personal, permanent, and pervasive. A profile scoring high on all three dimensions was found to be characteristic of individuals with clinical depression.

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And when he came up with this questionnaire, he called it the attributional style questionnaire or ASQ for short.

— Episode: 216. Why Do We Make Excuses?

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Episode: 216. Why Do We Make Excuses?

This questionnaire, developed by Marty Seligman and colleagues, was designed to assess an individual's spontaneous attribution style following negative events across three dimensions: personal, permanent, and pervasive. A profile scoring high on all three dimensions was found to be characteristic of individuals with clinical depression.

"

And when he came up with this questionnaire, he called it the attributional style questionnaire or ASQ for short.

And the three dimensions are personal, permanent, and pervasive.

Lolita: Introduction by Martin Amis (Everyman's Library Contemporary Classics Series) Cover

Vladimir Nabokov

Lolita

Introduction by Martin Amis (Everyman's Library Contemporary Classics Series)

This book was mentioned in the context of how its author forces readers to consider motivations behind actions, which is harder than simply labeling someone as pure evil.

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much like Namikoff forces us to do in Lolita.

— Episode: 214. What Does It Take to Survive a Scan...

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Episode: 214. What Does It Take to Survive a Scandal?

This book was mentioned in the context of how its author forces readers to consider motivations behind actions, which is harder than simply labeling someone as pure evil.

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much like Namikoff forces us to do in Lolita.

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