The Power of Regret
How Looking Backward Moves Us Forward
The podcast discussed the book's central argument that regret is a common and helpful emotion, and that the "no regrets" philosophy is harmful and inaccurate. The book details how to approach regret in a healthier way.
The problem with regret is that it feels terrible. It's painful. And our tendency is just simply to bat away negative feelings.
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The podcast discussed the book's central argument that regret is a common and helpful emotion, and that the "no regrets" philosophy is harmful and inaccurate. The book details how to approach regret in a healthier way.
The problem with regret is that it feels terrible. It's painful. And our tendency is just simply to bat away negative feelings.
The philosophy of no regrets is not an act of courage. It's an act of denial.
What's courage is looking at your regrets dead in the eye and learning lessons from them.
What I'm trying to do here is reclaim regret, get over this no regrets philosophy, which you very appropriately called bullshit.
Regret makes us human...But if we process it correctly, it makes us better. It leads us to make better decisions. It allows us to learn and grow.