Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus A Practical Guide for Improving Communication and Getting What You Want in Your Relationships

It might have been like the men are from Mars or Venus.

Yeah. And right as that was happening, my friend came around the corner. I didn't know he was at the bookstore. And he was like, what the fuck are you doing? I'm alone in an aisle laughing at books and kicking the covers like a fucking lunatic.

That books like that where it's like we love women love to make you sit in a cave and men love to fly like eagles. What are you doing?

What was the name of that book? Metter from Mars women are from Venus yeah, that's a that's a hot one we we should do a book reading club

I've been reading that book and there's definitely differences, you know?

John very did a terrific job on the guy who wrote men are from Mars woman are from Venus he did a terrific job on preventing and reversing ADHD without using drugs

And the first download, when it finally happened, was in October 31st of 97. It was Men Are From Mars and Women Are From Venus, the self-help book.

First book was titled Mars.

The second meeting is at John Gray's house. Men are from Mars. Women are from Venus.

If you've if you've read the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" Jongrey talks about the fact that women like men go to lunch to solve a problem like you go to talk about something and go to lunch to just chat you gather information and it's been like like and everywhere is a tell their story right like the thing there's a reason that my college group of girlfriends the first night of our weekend together after like you know a year or someone's apart like we opened with a slides of presentation on the updates in everyone's life and i told this to a male friend and he was like this isn't sane what are you doing but like i genuinely want to know where is the video game thing resembles the problem solving like so we have come to play the game and then to leave so uh uh on top of the hang out your buddies thing one day you picked up your child for the last time and you didn't know it yeah exactly

If you've, if you've read the book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, John Gray talks about the fact that women, like, men go to lunch to solve a problem, like you go to talk about something and go to lunch to just chat. You gather information.

So you ever heard of the book, Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus?

So one of my favorite points in that book was the psychologist John Gray points out that when men go to lunch, they're typically going to talk about a specific problem.

They're like, we have a, there is a purpose to it, right? They're meeting, it's something, there's something to do. Women go and they just sort of gather a lot of information, right?

And you know what he says? He says, when women go into type A mode, when they go into like hard drive, their testosterone goes way up, their estrogen goes down.

but Dr. John Gray, men are from Mars, women for Venus. He's brilliant.

They, what's that book? Women are from Mars. Mars, yeah, it's so true.

Or better from Mars, or better from Venus.

Yeah. It's so true. People do not have the capacity to understand other people's thinking or communication.

Just like men could read stuff on how to get a girl like you. It totally... There is stuff you can learn if it doesn't come naturally to you.