The book discusses how young people's mental health has declined since the early 2010s. It argues that the change is due to a 'tragedy in two acts': the loss of the play-based childhood and the arrival of the phone-based childhood. The book also discusses the importance of 'risky play' in childhood and how overprotection can lead to children being unprepared for adulthood.
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I see people walking all over Brooklyn holding this book. It's talking about the great rewiring. Talk to me. What is the great rewiring?
The book is about something changed between 2010 and 2015 and I'm trying to explain what it is.
You claim that this merry-go-round playground spinner is the greatest piece of playground equipment ever invented. Defend yourself.
It's just a metaphor. If you're up, you're down. You know, it's just what life is all about.
I propose in the book for there's a lot of suggestions but four norms that will break these collective action traps. First, no smartphone before high school. Just clear this out of the lives of elementary and middle school kids. Send them out, give them a flip phone, a dumb phone, a phone watch. You can say you can text them, but don't give them the entire internet, including strangers all over the world who are trying to get at them sexually. Like this is just craziness, so no smartphone till high school. The second is no social media till 16. You know the things that are sent around on social media, the things they're exposed to. Like I just recently learned about the video a cat in a blender which was popular a while ago. I don't know exactly. It is exactly what it sounds like. So you know, and this is just this is just part of childhood is hardcore porn, animal cruelty, beheading videos, so you know, let's just at least wait till they're 16 before they see that stuff. The third norm is phone-free schools. This is the most powerful one that we can do instantly. So if you're watching this and you have kids that go to a school that lets the kids keep the phone in the pocket, send well buy a copy of my book for the principal. Note to go, you know, I have videos. Send them a video of my talks on phone-free schools. Every school needs to go phone-free by September. The phones are, they don't just make the kids anxious and lonely, they make them less intelligent. Test scores have been dropping around the world since 2012. Once the kids bring a phone in school, they're doing this, they're not listening to the teacher. So get rid of phones in schools. And then the fourth norm is far more independence, free play, and responsibility in the real world. We have to, so it's not this is not just about let's take away, take away. It's let's give them a real childhood, the kind of childhood that's older people kind that we look back on. So if we, so if we love our children, the best thing we can give them is a real human childhood. And if we do it together, we can get this done in the next year or two.