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We Can Do Hard Things

Come do life with Glennon Doyle, Abby Wambach, and Amanda Doyle. With more than half a billion plays, We Can Do Hard Things is a hilarious, raw, comforting “support system for braving the everyday.” The Pod Squad goes hard ($56 Million raised in global aid) and stays soft: meet here on Tuesdays to...

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Black AF History

Michael Harriot

Mentioned 5 months ago

HOW WE ALL BECOME MINNESOTA: BRITTANY PACKNETT CUNNINGHAM

This book was mentioned as an example of material people were reading and discussing online, leading to broader engagement with history.

There are people who bought Michael Harriot's Black AF history, right, and said, oh, this is interesting. Let me talk to my audience about it.

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The Condemnation of Blackness

Khalil Gibran Muhammad

Mentioned 5 months ago

HOW WE ALL BECOME MINNESOTA: BRITTANY PACKNETT CUNNINGHAM

This book was referenced to explain how European immigrant groups gradually integrated into the umbrella of 'whiteness' over generations by forming political power and protection, often involving anti-miscegenation laws to maintain racial distinction.

If you read The Condemnation of Blackness by Khalil Muhammad, he talks about how each European immigrant group took a generation or two to be pulled into the umbrella that is whiteness, right?

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A People's History of the United States

Howard Zinn

Mentioned 5 months ago

HOW WE ALL BECOME MINNESOTA: BRITTANY PACKNETT CUNNINGHAM

The proper history presented in this book has rarely been taught to most people, which is why spaces like TikTok are becoming important for sharing the real history.

But the proper people's history of the United States, to borrow Zen's phrase, has rarely been taught to most people.

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The Sum of Us

Heather McGhee

Mentioned 5 months ago

HOW WE ALL BECOME MINNESOTA: BRITTANY PACKNETT CUNNINGHAM

This book was highly recommended, particularly for its concept of 'drained pool politics,' which illustrated how systemic oppression ultimately harms everyone, even those who benefit from the system.

I think all the time of Heather McGee's book, The Sum of Us, which everybody should read.

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High Conflict

Amanda Ripley

Mentioned 1 year ago

How to Have *Healthy* Conflict with Amanda Ripley

This book details how people become trapped in conflicts and offers ways to escape them; the discussion focused on how to move from high conflict to good conflict.

when I started working on high conflict, I was following people who were trapped in really ugly dysfunctional conflicts of all kinds, all around the world. And I was asking them, how did you get out? And it turned out that's the wrong question because we need conflict.

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The Unthinkable

Amanda Ripley

Mentioned 1 year ago

How to Have *Healthy* Conflict with Amanda Ripley

This book was mentioned as one of the author's previous works, but no details of its content were discussed during the podcast.

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The Smartest Kids in the World

Amanda Ripley

Mentioned 1 year ago

How to Have *Healthy* Conflict with Amanda Ripley

This New York Times bestseller was mentioned as a previous work by the author; it was also adapted into a documentary film, but no specific details about the book were discussed in the podcast.

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The Way of Integrity

Martha Beck

Mentioned 1 year ago

Martha Beck: Move Toward Joy Today!

This was Martha Beck's newest book at the time of the recording, and it was an instant New York Times bestseller. One speaker mentioned that when they read it, the principle that every truth makes one relaxed and every lie makes one tense felt warm to them.

Her published works include the New York Times international bestsellers Finding Your Own North Star, I've read it. The Joy Diet, I've read it. Expecting Adam, I've read it. Martha's newest book, The Way of Integrity. I've read it twice. Finding the Path to Your True Self was obviously an instant New York Times bestseller.

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Finding Your Own North Star

Martha Beck

Mentioned 1 year ago

Martha Beck: Move Toward Joy Today!

This book was mentioned as one of Martha Beck's New York Times international bestsellers that one of the hosts had read.

Her published works include the New York Times international bestsellers Finding Your Own North Star, I've read it.

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Expecting Adam

Martha Beck

Mentioned 1 year ago

Martha Beck: Move Toward Joy Today!

One speaker read this book while pregnant with her first child, who was initially diagnosed with markers for Down syndrome; the book brought her great joy and peace during that uncertain time. The author later explained the book related to her own experience of receiving a Down syndrome diagnosis for her second child, Adam, while in her PhD program and choosing to keep him despite advice to terminate.

So I read Expecting Adam during that time. And that book, more than anything else, just set me at such joy and peace during that time.

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The Joy Diet

Martha Beck

Mentioned 1 year ago

Martha Beck: Move Toward Joy Today!

This book was mentioned as one of Martha Beck's New York Times international bestsellers that one of the hosts had read.

The Joy Diet, I've read it.

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Be Ready When the Luck Happens

Ina Garten

Mentioned 1 year ago

Secrets to a Joyful Life with Ina Garten

Ina Garten's new memoir, released on the day of the podcast recording, was discussed. The podcast hosts and Garten talked about its themes of overcoming challenges and following one's passions.

Her new memoir, Be Ready When the Luck Happens, is available today.

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Timothy Keller

Galatians for You

For Reading, for Feeding, for Leading (God's Word For You)

Carson referenced the book of Galatians, specifically chapter 5, while reflecting on his experiences and the fruits of the spirit.

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But I'm not feeling any of this. So like something's up. And so I started very, very slowly introducing some new experiences and ideas. I even went to my bishop and I was like, look, I'm telling you,...

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Carson referenced the book of Galatians, specifically chapter 5, while reflecting on his experiences and the fruits of the spirit.

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But I'm not feeling any of this. So like something's up. And so I started very, very slowly introducing some new experiences and ideas. I even went to my bishop and I was like, look, I'm telling you, I'm going to go on a date with a dude. We're not going to do anything that would disqualify me from any of God's blessings. And I'm going to feel it out.

Peace and long suffering. Right? But I'm not feeling any of this. So like something's up. And so I started very, very slowly introducing some new experiences and ideas. I even went to my bishop and I was like, look, I'm telling you, I'm going to go on a date with a dude. We're not going to do anything that would disqualify me from any of God's blessings. And I'm going to feel it out.

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Paul Scheer

Joyful Recollections of Trauma

Glennon was rereading a book about trauma and found herself reading the book from the perspective of the people she planned to give it to, imagining their epiphanies about their own childhood trauma.

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Babe, I'm rereading a book about trauma right now.

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Glennon was rereading a book about trauma and found herself reading the book from the perspective of the people she planned to give it to, imagining their epiphanies about their own childhood trauma.

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Babe, I'm rereading a book about trauma right now.

I found myself yesterday, I read books as the people that I love who I'm going to give the book to.

I was reading the book thinking I'm going to give this book to two people that I love.

And then I was reading paragraphs, imagining myself to be the person that I love and what epiphanies they would be having if they were reading that paragraph about their particular childhood trauma.

Because I thought, oh, this book is going to help them so much and they're going to read this and they're going to know that what they're doing in their life is really just a result of childhood trauma.

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Sarah J. Maas

A Court of Thorns and Roses (A Court of Thorns and Roses, 1)

It was described as a popular fantasy series, which was very popular on BookTok and was compared to a simplified version of Game of Thrones, but with sexier elements.

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So I have just finished reading the A Court of Thorn and Roses series. I was having so many people ask me for my professional opinion on it. It got super popular. It was really big on BookTok.

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It was described as a popular fantasy series, which was very popular on BookTok and was compared to a simplified version of Game of Thrones, but with sexier elements.

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So I have just finished reading the A Court of Thorn and Roses series. I was having so many people ask me for my professional opinion on it. It got super popular. It was really big on BookTok.

So I finished reading that series and I definitely found it to be really interesting. It was, it's kind of like very, a lot of fantasy, almost a much more simplified version of Game of Thrones thing, but like some, you know, just more sexy elements mixed in.

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Matthew Walker PhD

Why We Sleep

Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams

It was discussed as a book that talked about the science behind sleep and dreams and how it is essential for healing, memory, and creativity. It was mentioned as being both scientific and beautifully written.

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This book that I love called Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker. He's a neuroscientist. In it, he talks about sleep and dreams. It's very scientific, but then it's also very beautiful in...

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It was discussed as a book that talked about the science behind sleep and dreams and how it is essential for healing, memory, and creativity. It was mentioned as being both scientific and beautifully written.

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This book that I love called Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker. He's a neuroscientist. In it, he talks about sleep and dreams. It's very scientific, but then it's also very beautiful in the way that he speaks about dreaming and the idea of when we sleep, what's happening in our brains.

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James Clear

Atomic Habits

An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones

It was mentioned that Bren Brown had interviewed James Clear and that a quote from this book was used to help with her systems regarding saying no to opportunities.

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we will never rise to the level of our goals. We will fall to the level of our systems.

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It was mentioned that Bren Brown had interviewed James Clear and that a quote from this book was used to help with her systems regarding saying no to opportunities.

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we will never rise to the level of our goals. We will fall to the level of our systems.

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Paulo Coelho

The Alchemist - Gift Edition

It was briefly mentioned amongst other books that Sarah enjoyed reading, likely as a part of her personal growth journey.

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Don't forget the Alchemist.

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It was briefly mentioned amongst other books that Sarah enjoyed reading, likely as a part of her personal growth journey.

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Don't forget the Alchemist.

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Oliver Burkeman

Four Thousand Weeks

Time Management for Mortals

Oliver Burkeman's '4,000 Weeks' was brought up in the context of understanding how limited time actually is, contrasting it with the common misconception that we have a million weeks. This book was mentioned as a reminder that we shouldn't fall into diet-culture thinking, believing we can achieve success through strategies and resources. It was also highlighted as a powerful realization that life is finite and we shouldn't waste it on things that won't truly make us happy.

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Oliver Berkman in 4,000 weeks, which first of all he asked like a thousand people how many weeks the average human life has and they're all like 100,000 weeks.

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Oliver Burkeman's '4,000 Weeks' was brought up in the context of understanding how limited time actually is, contrasting it with the common misconception that we have a million weeks. This book was mentioned as a reminder that we shouldn't fall into diet-culture thinking, believing we can achieve success through strategies and resources. It was also highlighted as a powerful realization that life is finite and we shouldn't waste it on things that won't truly make us happy.

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Oliver Berkman in 4,000 weeks, which first of all he asked like a thousand people how many weeks the average human life has and they're all like 100,000 weeks.

Yeah, I would have 200,000 weeks. The average human life is 4,000 weeks.

We all get a million weeks.

But he talks about this a lot about how like that's a lie and it's very similar to diet culture to think, well, if I only had this one strategy, it would get done.

Or this is my moral failing that I'm failing to manage all of this. And if I just keep gathering strategies and keep gathering resources or put that extra hour in or put the whatever that I'm going to make sense of all of this and be successful.

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Mark Manson

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life

It was mentioned as a book that Glennon had read and enjoyed. Simone mentioned she doesn't read much but does listen to audiobooks.

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One of my favorite ones that I did read would be the sub to art of not giving a fuck.

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It was mentioned as a book that Glennon had read and enjoyed. Simone mentioned she doesn't read much but does listen to audiobooks.

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One of my favorite ones that I did read would be the sub to art of not giving a fuck.

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Dr. Robin DiAngelo

White Fragility

Why It's So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism

The author of "My Grandmother's Hands" compared reading "White Fragility" to the act of telling someone they are going to run a marathon tomorrow but haven't taken any preparatory steps. The author, Resmaa Menakem, did state that he and Robin DiAngelo are close and that he loves her, but this was in the context of criticism.

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So I told you I read Robin Angelo's White Fragility, So I'm All Set, that's the equivalent of the, I don't trust your fucking judgment.

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The author of "My Grandmother's Hands" compared reading "White Fragility" to the act of telling someone they are going to run a marathon tomorrow but haven't taken any preparatory steps. The author, Resmaa Menakem, did state that he and Robin DiAngelo are close and that he loves her, but this was in the context of criticism.

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So I told you I read Robin Angelo's White Fragility, So I'm All Set, that's the equivalent of the, I don't trust your fucking judgment.

I mean, and me and Robin are tight. I love Robin. I'm just saying probably half the people that are listening to this read that book.

That's what I'm saying. They read it and they, and it was good and they ain't read it again since.

They haven't grabbed another white body and said for the next 30 years, me and you going to roll around race specifically.

And we are going to cultivate between ourselves a different way of understanding this. And we may not be able to get to what we think we need to get to, but at least we're going to nibble on this.

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J.A. Jance

Unfinished Business (16) (Ali Reynolds Series)

Priyanka's book, 'Unfinished', was mentioned as being released during the pandemic, about two years prior to this podcast recording.

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Priyanka Chopra Jonas is a multifaceted talent, New York Times bestselling author of Unfinished

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Priyanka's book, 'Unfinished', was mentioned as being released during the pandemic, about two years prior to this podcast recording.

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Priyanka Chopra Jonas is a multifaceted talent, New York Times bestselling author of Unfinished

Priyanka, last time we talked was two years ago and it was during the pandemic and your book Unfinished was just coming out

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William Golding

Lord of the Flies (Penguin Drop Caps)

The book was mentioned in relation to how children in the book are left to fend for themselves without adult guidance, similar to how internal parts can be left to run a person's life without the presence of a self.

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It's like the book we had to read in high school, Lord of the Flies.

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The book was mentioned in relation to how children in the book are left to fend for themselves without adult guidance, similar to how internal parts can be left to run a person's life without the presence of a self.

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It's like the book we had to read in high school, Lord of the Flies.

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Dante Alighieri

The Divine Comedy (The Inferno, The Purgatorio, and The Paradiso)

It was mentioned in reference to the journey through hell and the need for ego collapse to reach paradise.

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And it's in Dante's Inferno too. Like what's at the bottom of the center of the frozen lake of hell inside of Satan's belly, you come through that into paradise.

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It was mentioned in reference to the journey through hell and the need for ego collapse to reach paradise.

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And it's in Dante's Inferno too. Like what's at the bottom of the center of the frozen lake of hell inside of Satan's belly, you come through that into paradise.

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Kara Swisher

Burn Book

A Tech Love Story

It was mentioned as a New York Times bestselling memoir and a 'tech love story' written by the guest on the podcast, Kara Swisher.

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She's the author of the New York Times best-selling memoir, Burn Book: A Tech Love Story.

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It was mentioned as a New York Times bestselling memoir and a 'tech love story' written by the guest on the podcast, Kara Swisher.

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She's the author of the New York Times best-selling memoir, Burn Book: A Tech Love Story.

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Isabel Wilkerson

Caste

The Origins of Our Discontents

It was referenced in relation to how people carry themselves and are perceived by others, drawing parallels to Michelle's experiences with identity and cultural conditioning.

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I think all the time about this part in Isabelle Wilkerson's cast where she talks about how experts in cast can identify what cast a person's from by just the way they walk into a room, regardless of...

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It was referenced in relation to how people carry themselves and are perceived by others, drawing parallels to Michelle's experiences with identity and cultural conditioning.

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I think all the time about this part in Isabelle Wilkerson's cast where she talks about how experts in cast can identify what cast a person's from by just the way they walk into a room, regardless of what they're wearing, what they're whatever.

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Malcolm Gladwell

Outliers

The Story of Success

Glennon was reading Malcolm Gladwell's book 'Outliers' and there was a part where he talked about the anomaly of commercial airline crashes. The book was about finding out that crashes were much more likely to happen when the pilot, not the first officer, was flying the plane, and much less likely to happen when the first officer was flying the plane.

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I've been reading Malcolm Gladwell's book Outliers and there's this part in it where he talks about the anomaly of commercial airline crashes.

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Glennon was reading Malcolm Gladwell's book 'Outliers' and there was a part where he talked about the anomaly of commercial airline crashes. The book was about finding out that crashes were much more likely to happen when the pilot, not the first officer, was flying the plane, and much less likely to happen when the first officer was flying the plane.

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I've been reading Malcolm Gladwell's book Outliers and there's this part in it where he talks about the anomaly of commercial airline crashes.

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Taylor Jenkins Reid

Daisy Jones & The Six

A Novel

It was mentioned as a book the hosts were watching the adaptation of, comparing it to the film Almost Famous.

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Oh, and also just precious is Daisy Jones and the Six. Taylor Jenkins read wrote Daisy Jones the Six and we're watching that with Tish and it's just, it's just precious.

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It was mentioned as a book the hosts were watching the adaptation of, comparing it to the film Almost Famous.

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Oh, and also just precious is Daisy Jones and the Six. Taylor Jenkins read wrote Daisy Jones the Six and we're watching that with Tish and it's just, it's just precious.

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