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We Can Do Hard Things

Come do life with Glennon Doyle, Abby Wambach, and Amanda Doyle. With more than half a billion plays, We Can Do Hard Things is a hilarious, raw, comforting “support system for braving the everyday.” The Pod Squad goes hard ($56 Million raised in global aid) and stays soft: meet here on Tuesdays to...

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Black AF History

Michael Harriot

Mentioned 5 months ago

HOW WE ALL BECOME MINNESOTA: BRITTANY PACKNETT CUNNINGHAM

This book was mentioned as an example of material people were reading and discussing online, leading to broader engagement with history.

There are people who bought Michael Harriot's Black AF history, right, and said, oh, this is interesting. Let me talk to my audience about it.

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The Condemnation of Blackness

Khalil Gibran Muhammad

Mentioned 5 months ago

HOW WE ALL BECOME MINNESOTA: BRITTANY PACKNETT CUNNINGHAM

This book was referenced to explain how European immigrant groups gradually integrated into the umbrella of 'whiteness' over generations by forming political power and protection, often involving anti-miscegenation laws to maintain racial distinction.

If you read The Condemnation of Blackness by Khalil Muhammad, he talks about how each European immigrant group took a generation or two to be pulled into the umbrella that is whiteness, right?

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A People's History of the United States

Howard Zinn

Mentioned 5 months ago

HOW WE ALL BECOME MINNESOTA: BRITTANY PACKNETT CUNNINGHAM

The proper history presented in this book has rarely been taught to most people, which is why spaces like TikTok are becoming important for sharing the real history.

But the proper people's history of the United States, to borrow Zen's phrase, has rarely been taught to most people.

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The Sum of Us

Heather McGhee

Mentioned 5 months ago

HOW WE ALL BECOME MINNESOTA: BRITTANY PACKNETT CUNNINGHAM

This book was highly recommended, particularly for its concept of 'drained pool politics,' which illustrated how systemic oppression ultimately harms everyone, even those who benefit from the system.

I think all the time of Heather McGee's book, The Sum of Us, which everybody should read.

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High Conflict

Amanda Ripley

Mentioned 1 year ago

How to Have *Healthy* Conflict with Amanda Ripley

This book details how people become trapped in conflicts and offers ways to escape them; the discussion focused on how to move from high conflict to good conflict.

when I started working on high conflict, I was following people who were trapped in really ugly dysfunctional conflicts of all kinds, all around the world. And I was asking them, how did you get out? And it turned out that's the wrong question because we need conflict.

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The Unthinkable

Amanda Ripley

Mentioned 1 year ago

How to Have *Healthy* Conflict with Amanda Ripley

This book was mentioned as one of the author's previous works, but no details of its content were discussed during the podcast.

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The Smartest Kids in the World

Amanda Ripley

Mentioned 1 year ago

How to Have *Healthy* Conflict with Amanda Ripley

This New York Times bestseller was mentioned as a previous work by the author; it was also adapted into a documentary film, but no specific details about the book were discussed in the podcast.

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The Way of Integrity

Martha Beck

Mentioned 1 year ago

Martha Beck: Move Toward Joy Today!

This was Martha Beck's newest book at the time of the recording, and it was an instant New York Times bestseller. One speaker mentioned that when they read it, the principle that every truth makes one relaxed and every lie makes one tense felt warm to them.

Her published works include the New York Times international bestsellers Finding Your Own North Star, I've read it. The Joy Diet, I've read it. Expecting Adam, I've read it. Martha's newest book, The Way of Integrity. I've read it twice. Finding the Path to Your True Self was obviously an instant New York Times bestseller.

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Finding Your Own North Star

Martha Beck

Mentioned 1 year ago

Martha Beck: Move Toward Joy Today!

This book was mentioned as one of Martha Beck's New York Times international bestsellers that one of the hosts had read.

Her published works include the New York Times international bestsellers Finding Your Own North Star, I've read it.

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Expecting Adam

Martha Beck

Mentioned 1 year ago

Martha Beck: Move Toward Joy Today!

One speaker read this book while pregnant with her first child, who was initially diagnosed with markers for Down syndrome; the book brought her great joy and peace during that uncertain time. The author later explained the book related to her own experience of receiving a Down syndrome diagnosis for her second child, Adam, while in her PhD program and choosing to keep him despite advice to terminate.

So I read Expecting Adam during that time. And that book, more than anything else, just set me at such joy and peace during that time.

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The Joy Diet

Martha Beck

Mentioned 1 year ago

Martha Beck: Move Toward Joy Today!

This book was mentioned as one of Martha Beck's New York Times international bestsellers that one of the hosts had read.

The Joy Diet, I've read it.

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Be Ready When the Luck Happens

Ina Garten

Mentioned 1 year ago

Secrets to a Joyful Life with Ina Garten

Ina Garten's new memoir, released on the day of the podcast recording, was discussed. The podcast hosts and Garten talked about its themes of overcoming challenges and following one's passions.

Her new memoir, Be Ready When the Luck Happens, is available today.

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Rebecca Makkai

I Have Some Questions for You

A Novel

It was mentioned as a book the host had recently finished, and indicated as being very good.

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I also just finished. I Have Some Questions for You by Rebecca McKay. So flipping good.

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It was mentioned as a book the host had recently finished, and indicated as being very good.

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I also just finished. I Have Some Questions for You by Rebecca McKay. So flipping good.

How to Change Your Mind: What the New Science of Psychedelics Teaches Us About Consciousness, Dying, Addiction, Depression, and Transcendence Cover

Michael Pollan

How to Change Your Mind

What the New Science of Psychedelics Teaches Us About Consciousness, Dying, Addiction, Depression, and Transcendence

It was recommended as a book and documentary by Dr. Hillary McBride, suggesting it provided insights into psychedelics and their effects.

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I always recommend Michael Pollan's work. He's got the documentary How to Change Your Mind and a similar book.

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It was recommended as a book and documentary by Dr. Hillary McBride, suggesting it provided insights into psychedelics and their effects.

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I always recommend Michael Pollan's work. He's got the documentary How to Change Your Mind and a similar book.

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M. William Phelps

Where Monsters Hide

Sex, Murder, and Madness in the Midwest

It was mentioned as a book that the speaker recently read and found brilliant, in which the author discussed Joni Mitchell and her dating experiences in a countercultural way.

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I just finished this book that I thought was so brilliant called Monsters.

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It was mentioned as a book that the speaker recently read and found brilliant, in which the author discussed Joni Mitchell and her dating experiences in a countercultural way.

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I just finished this book that I thought was so brilliant called Monsters.

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Walt Whitman

Leaves of Grass

Unabridged Deathbed Edition with 400 Poems

Glennon shares that Walt Whitman's poetry feels like divinity to her, and she reads it to prime herself into a state of being before writing a letter from love.

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For me it's a it's poetry so like Walt Whitman does it for me Emily Dickinson does it for me Mary Oliver does it for me Rumi and Hafiz do it for me I feel like they they were directly channeling the d...

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Glennon shares that Walt Whitman's poetry feels like divinity to her, and she reads it to prime herself into a state of being before writing a letter from love.

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For me it's a it's poetry so like Walt Whitman does it for me Emily Dickinson does it for me Mary Oliver does it for me Rumi and Hafiz do it for me I feel like they they were directly channeling the divine like they were mystics who were directly channeling the divine and they were generous enough to leave the door open behind them so you're almost drafting in on them so you prime yourself into that state of being by reading something that feels to you like it comes from that place

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Oprah Winfrey

What Happened to You?

Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing

Abby mentioned this book by Oprah, which she listened to on audiobook. It was where she discovered and defined the concept of being a 'people pleaser' and its impact on her.

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Yeah. So it's Oprah's book called 'What Happened to You?'

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Episode: 29. People Pleasing, Unlocked Doors & First Kisses

Abby mentioned this book by Oprah, which she listened to on audiobook. It was where she discovered and defined the concept of being a 'people pleaser' and its impact on her.

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Yeah. So it's Oprah's book called 'What Happened to You?'

And she talked a lot about people pleasing in that book and how she's a massive people pleaser.

And I was like, well, first of all, it's kind of cool to be like Oprah in a way.

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Robert Greene

The 33 Strategies of War

Sinead O'Connor performed an a cappella version of Bob Marley's 'War' on Saturday Night Live in 1992, making it about child abuse.

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When she made her stand in 92, it wasn't about ripping up the Pope's picture. It was about singing Bob Marley's war, um, acapella essentially, and, and making it about child abuse and saying that and...

— Episode: 251. How to Break Cycles with Allison Ru...

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Episode: 251. How to Break Cycles with Allison Russell

Sinead O'Connor performed an a cappella version of Bob Marley's 'War' on Saturday Night Live in 1992, making it about child abuse.

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When she made her stand in 92, it wasn't about ripping up the Pope's picture. It was about singing Bob Marley's war, um, acapella essentially, and, and making it about child abuse and saying that and naming that on the biggest TV show of the day.

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Kate Manne

Down Girl

The Logic of Misogyny

It was briefly mentioned in the context of discussing human giver theory, an idea that explores societal expectations and how they can lead to burnout, specifically for women.

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They refer to Kate Mann, who I love, and she wrote this book called Down Girl and she talks about the human, I think it's called the human giver theory, which is if you set up a cultu...

— Episode: 93. BURNOUT: Do You Feel Half Alive?

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Episode: 93. BURNOUT: Do You Feel Half Alive?

It was briefly mentioned in the context of discussing human giver theory, an idea that explores societal expectations and how they can lead to burnout, specifically for women.

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They refer to Kate Mann, who I love, and she wrote this book called Down Girl and she talks about the human, I think it's called the human giver theory, which is if you set up a culture where half of the population gets to be human beings and their whole existence is about, you know, being served and getting their needs met and self-fulfillment and destiny fulfillment.

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Mori Taheripour

Bring Yourself

How to Harness the Power of Connection to Negotiate Fearlessly

It was discussed as a guide to negotiating fearlessly by harnessing the power of connection, in contrast to the common misconception that the best negotiators are aggressive.

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Mori Taharipour is the author of Bring Yourself, How to Harness the Power of Connection to Negotiate Fearlessly.

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It was discussed as a guide to negotiating fearlessly by harnessing the power of connection, in contrast to the common misconception that the best negotiators are aggressive.

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Mori Taharipour is the author of Bring Yourself, How to Harness the Power of Connection to Negotiate Fearlessly.

A Tale of Two Cities (Signature Editions) Cover

Charles Dickens

A Tale of Two Cities (Signature Editions)

It was mentioned as a book read by Maya Angelou that helped her to begin transforming her own pain and trauma into a source of creativity and healing.

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So Bertha Flowers introduces her to A Tale of Two Cities by Dickens and reads it to her in kind of like a voice of song.

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Episode: 85. Susan Cain Says Sadness is a Superpower

It was mentioned as a book read by Maya Angelou that helped her to begin transforming her own pain and trauma into a source of creativity and healing.

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So Bertha Flowers introduces her to A Tale of Two Cities by Dickens and reads it to her in kind of like a voice of song.

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Bronnie Ware

Top Five Regrets of the Dying

A Life Transformed by the Dearly Departing (Limited Edition Hardcove

The book is mentioned as the source of excerpts about the top regrets of the dying, especially that people wished they had let themselves be happy.

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I remember reading excerpts from this book about the top regrets of the dying that was written by someone who works with people as they're dying and pay attention to their regrets and it was things li...

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The book is mentioned as the source of excerpts about the top regrets of the dying, especially that people wished they had let themselves be happy.

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I remember reading excerpts from this book about the top regrets of the dying that was written by someone who works with people as they're dying and pay attention to their regrets and it was things like I wish I'd made more time for my friends and family I wish it hadn't worked so hard but one of the ones that really stood out to me was I wish I'd let myself be happy I'd let myself be happy not I wish I'd had a happy life yes not I wish I had more happiness I wish I had let myself be happy yeah I think it's the most powerful moments in life

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John Foxe

Foxe's Book of Martyrs (Illustrated Christian Classics)

It's about a boy trying to figure out if he's a nihilist or will choose life, and is described as utterly gorgeous.

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Oh my God. Everyone must go get the book Martyr. I want to read it.

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It's about a boy trying to figure out if he's a nihilist or will choose life, and is described as utterly gorgeous.

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Oh my God. Everyone must go get the book Martyr. I want to read it.

So it's about this boy who's trying to kind of figure out whether he's a nihilist or is going to choose life in a million different ways and it's utterly gorgeous.

Women Talking Cover

Miriam Toews

Women Talking

The film was an adaptation of this book, which was inspired by true events in a Mennonite colony in Bolivia where girls and women were systematically raped. The film imagines a fictional reckoning where the women discuss how to respond to the abuse.

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Women Talking was based on a novel written by Miriam Taves, which was inspired by real events that occurred in a Mennonite colony in rural Bolivia.

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The film was an adaptation of this book, which was inspired by true events in a Mennonite colony in Bolivia where girls and women were systematically raped. The film imagines a fictional reckoning where the women discuss how to respond to the abuse.

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Women Talking was based on a novel written by Miriam Taves, which was inspired by real events that occurred in a Mennonite colony in rural Bolivia.

It was a 2,500 person, very conservative colony in which boys and men systematically raped approximately 150 girls and women aged 3 to 65.

You'll Never Blue Ball in This Town Again: One Woman's Painfully Funny Quest to Give It Up Cover

Heather McDonald

You'll Never Blue Ball in This Town Again

One Woman's Painfully Funny Quest to Give It Up

It was discussed that the author spent a week reading Billie Jean King's autobiography, 'All In', and had many spiritual experiences from it, especially regarding her visualization philosophy.

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Her memoir, All In, an autobiography is available now.

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It was discussed that the author spent a week reading Billie Jean King's autobiography, 'All In', and had many spiritual experiences from it, especially regarding her visualization philosophy.

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Her memoir, All In, an autobiography is available now.

I spent a solid week doing nothing but reading your memoir from first page to last page underlining.

I had so many spiritual experiences reading your memoir.

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Tara Westover

Educated

A Memoir

The book was discussed in the context of parents acknowledging their shortcomings and the impact it has on children. It was mentioned that Tara's mother acknowledging her failings helped her to become a better parent.

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I'm thinking of the Tara Westover Educated book where she said, I know only this, that when my mother told me she had not been the mother to me that she wished she'd been, she became...

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The book was discussed in the context of parents acknowledging their shortcomings and the impact it has on children. It was mentioned that Tara's mother acknowledging her failings helped her to become a better parent.

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I'm thinking of the Tara Westover Educated book where she said, I know only this, that when my mother told me she had not been the mother to me that she wished she'd been, she became that mother for the first time.

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Elaine N. Aron Ph.D.

The Highly Sensitive Person

How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You

Alanis Morissette talked about reading this book and being overwhelmed by the recognition of her own experiences as a highly sensitive person, feeling like it explained a lot about her life.

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Someone gave me the book, The Highly Sensitive Person book, and when I first got it, you know I was seeing still through the lens of patriarchy and you know extraversion centricity an...

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Alanis Morissette talked about reading this book and being overwhelmed by the recognition of her own experiences as a highly sensitive person, feeling like it explained a lot about her life.

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Someone gave me the book, The Highly Sensitive Person book, and when I first got it, you know I was seeing still through the lens of patriarchy and you know extraversion centricity and I didn't actually want to read it, and then a few years later there it was and I read it in its entirety and it was just weeping the whole way through, that of recognition and just thought oh this explains a lot.

Then I just talked about rabbit holes. I just wanted to go more deeply and deeply, and a lot of times I would think well, I'm an extrovert because I love humans, I love conversations, I love listening and I've come to see that introverts and highly sensitive and empaths. We light up when we're around like-mindeds. When we're not around like-mindeds we can often be positive check or just more observing, more what sort of people watching. So it depends on context, as always. So for those listening the four characteristics of a highly sensitive person are the depth of processing which means when Abby and I walk into a room and then we leave and I'm like do you not notice the 12,000 things that just happened in that room and she's okay. Abby, are you a non-HSP? Do you identify as non-HSP?

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Janet W. Hardy

The Ethical Slut, Third Edition

A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love

It was mentioned as a book about polyamory that Glennon Doyle read, where the concept of jealousy was reframed as a natural emotion that can be worked through, rather than a relationship dealbreaker.

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So I'm reading this book called The Ethical Slut.

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It was mentioned as a book about polyamory that Glennon Doyle read, where the concept of jealousy was reframed as a natural emotion that can be worked through, rather than a relationship dealbreaker.

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So I'm reading this book called The Ethical Slut.

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