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We Can Do Hard Things

Come do life with Glennon Doyle, Abby Wambach, and Amanda Doyle. With more than half a billion plays, We Can Do Hard Things is a hilarious, raw, comforting “support system for braving the everyday.” The Pod Squad goes hard ($56 Million raised in global aid) and stays soft: meet here on Tuesdays to...

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Black AF History

Michael Harriot

Mentioned 5 months ago

HOW WE ALL BECOME MINNESOTA: BRITTANY PACKNETT CUNNINGHAM

This book was mentioned as an example of material people were reading and discussing online, leading to broader engagement with history.

There are people who bought Michael Harriot's Black AF history, right, and said, oh, this is interesting. Let me talk to my audience about it.

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The Condemnation of Blackness

Khalil Gibran Muhammad

Mentioned 5 months ago

HOW WE ALL BECOME MINNESOTA: BRITTANY PACKNETT CUNNINGHAM

This book was referenced to explain how European immigrant groups gradually integrated into the umbrella of 'whiteness' over generations by forming political power and protection, often involving anti-miscegenation laws to maintain racial distinction.

If you read The Condemnation of Blackness by Khalil Muhammad, he talks about how each European immigrant group took a generation or two to be pulled into the umbrella that is whiteness, right?

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A People's History of the United States

Howard Zinn

Mentioned 5 months ago

HOW WE ALL BECOME MINNESOTA: BRITTANY PACKNETT CUNNINGHAM

The proper history presented in this book has rarely been taught to most people, which is why spaces like TikTok are becoming important for sharing the real history.

But the proper people's history of the United States, to borrow Zen's phrase, has rarely been taught to most people.

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The Sum of Us

Heather McGhee

Mentioned 5 months ago

HOW WE ALL BECOME MINNESOTA: BRITTANY PACKNETT CUNNINGHAM

This book was highly recommended, particularly for its concept of 'drained pool politics,' which illustrated how systemic oppression ultimately harms everyone, even those who benefit from the system.

I think all the time of Heather McGee's book, The Sum of Us, which everybody should read.

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High Conflict

Amanda Ripley

Mentioned 1 year ago

How to Have *Healthy* Conflict with Amanda Ripley

This book details how people become trapped in conflicts and offers ways to escape them; the discussion focused on how to move from high conflict to good conflict.

when I started working on high conflict, I was following people who were trapped in really ugly dysfunctional conflicts of all kinds, all around the world. And I was asking them, how did you get out? And it turned out that's the wrong question because we need conflict.

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The Unthinkable

Amanda Ripley

Mentioned 1 year ago

How to Have *Healthy* Conflict with Amanda Ripley

This book was mentioned as one of the author's previous works, but no details of its content were discussed during the podcast.

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The Smartest Kids in the World

Amanda Ripley

Mentioned 1 year ago

How to Have *Healthy* Conflict with Amanda Ripley

This New York Times bestseller was mentioned as a previous work by the author; it was also adapted into a documentary film, but no specific details about the book were discussed in the podcast.

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The Way of Integrity

Martha Beck

Mentioned 1 year ago

Martha Beck: Move Toward Joy Today!

This was Martha Beck's newest book at the time of the recording, and it was an instant New York Times bestseller. One speaker mentioned that when they read it, the principle that every truth makes one relaxed and every lie makes one tense felt warm to them.

Her published works include the New York Times international bestsellers Finding Your Own North Star, I've read it. The Joy Diet, I've read it. Expecting Adam, I've read it. Martha's newest book, The Way of Integrity. I've read it twice. Finding the Path to Your True Self was obviously an instant New York Times bestseller.

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Finding Your Own North Star

Martha Beck

Mentioned 1 year ago

Martha Beck: Move Toward Joy Today!

This book was mentioned as one of Martha Beck's New York Times international bestsellers that one of the hosts had read.

Her published works include the New York Times international bestsellers Finding Your Own North Star, I've read it.

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Expecting Adam

Martha Beck

Mentioned 1 year ago

Martha Beck: Move Toward Joy Today!

One speaker read this book while pregnant with her first child, who was initially diagnosed with markers for Down syndrome; the book brought her great joy and peace during that uncertain time. The author later explained the book related to her own experience of receiving a Down syndrome diagnosis for her second child, Adam, while in her PhD program and choosing to keep him despite advice to terminate.

So I read Expecting Adam during that time. And that book, more than anything else, just set me at such joy and peace during that time.

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The Joy Diet

Martha Beck

Mentioned 1 year ago

Martha Beck: Move Toward Joy Today!

This book was mentioned as one of Martha Beck's New York Times international bestsellers that one of the hosts had read.

The Joy Diet, I've read it.

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Be Ready When the Luck Happens

Ina Garten

Mentioned 1 year ago

Secrets to a Joyful Life with Ina Garten

Ina Garten's new memoir, released on the day of the podcast recording, was discussed. The podcast hosts and Garten talked about its themes of overcoming challenges and following one's passions.

Her new memoir, Be Ready When the Luck Happens, is available today.

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Emily McIntire

Scarred (Never After Series)

It was a memoir that detailed Sarah's experiences within NXIVM and DOS, including her initiation, escape, and efforts to expose the truth.

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I sent me your book, Scarred, and in it you wrote that one of your manifestations was to dance with Abby and me to Closer to Fine by the Indigo Girls.

— Episode: 158. CULTS Part 2: How Intuition Can Sav...

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It was a memoir that detailed Sarah's experiences within NXIVM and DOS, including her initiation, escape, and efforts to expose the truth.

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I sent me your book, Scarred, and in it you wrote that one of your manifestations was to dance with Abby and me to Closer to Fine by the Indigo Girls.

And I read that a few times and I just thought it was so beautiful and interesting that you chose that song to write in the book because that song, which we love so much, is about spending our lives looking for some kind of answer.

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Emily McIntire

Scarred (Never After Series)

It was mentioned as Sarah Edmondson's memoir, detailing her experiences in NXIVM, from joining to fighting for justice against its founder.

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Sarah's memoir, Scarred, shares her true story from the moment she joined NXIVM to her harrowing fight to get out and bring its founder to justice.

— Episode: 157. CULTS: How NXIVM Controlled Women &...

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Episode: 157. CULTS: How NXIVM Controlled Women & How Sarah...

It was mentioned as Sarah Edmondson's memoir, detailing her experiences in NXIVM, from joining to fighting for justice against its founder.

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Sarah's memoir, Scarred, shares her true story from the moment she joined NXIVM to her harrowing fight to get out and bring its founder to justice.

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Carol Gilligan

In a Different Voice

Psychological Theory and Women's Development

It was discussed in relation to how girls, especially those who are disembodied or have experienced sexual trauma, may develop a higher-pitched voice and how that voice drops as they become more embodied.

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It occurred to me when I read Carol Gilligan, the feminist psychologist, her book called In a Different Voice, when she talks about how girls, especially girls who are disembodied, es...

— Episode: 156. JANE F-ING FONDA

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Episode: 156. JANE F-ING FONDA

It was discussed in relation to how girls, especially those who are disembodied or have experienced sexual trauma, may develop a higher-pitched voice and how that voice drops as they become more embodied.

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It occurred to me when I read Carol Gilligan, the feminist psychologist, her book called In a Different Voice, when she talks about how girls, especially girls who are disembodied, especially girls who've been sexually traumatized, they're not going to know what's going on in their head because it doesn't reveal anything.

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Abbi Jacobson

I Might Regret This

Essays, Drawings, Vulnerabilities, and Other Stuff

It was written after she'd fallen in love and experienced heartbreak, and she discussed feeling like she wasn't made for love, and that she might be written about as someone who never fell in love.

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You said that in your twenties, you had dated men, but you had never really been in love. And you said you'd gotten to this point where you felt like you just weren't cut out for love.

— Episode: 155. When Should We Quit? with Abbi Jaco...

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Episode: 155. When Should We Quit? with Abbi Jacobson

It was written after she'd fallen in love and experienced heartbreak, and she discussed feeling like she wasn't made for love, and that she might be written about as someone who never fell in love.

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You said that in your twenties, you had dated men, but you had never really been in love. And you said you'd gotten to this point where you felt like you just weren't cut out for love.

That you were made of solid rock and that you'd be written about later in life as the woman who never fell in love.

Yeah, I really felt that way. I mean, I dated a lot of dudes and I like love dudes, but I just was like, wait, I'm not, I'm not, I don't know. Maybe I'm just not able to connect in that way at all, I guess.

the title of the book, it's called I Might Regret This, because I was very terrified of putting any of that out into the world without it being like behind Abbie Abrams.

In your book, I loved it so much. Both of us have a lot of things that we relate to you about and differently.

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Alexandra Elle

How We Heal

Uncover Your Power and Set Yourself Free

It was discussed as a new book and described as an act of service to others, encouraging readers to heal themselves and their lineage.

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Her most recent book, How We Heal So Beautiful, is available now.

— Episode: 149. How to Heal with Alex Elle

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Episode: 149. How to Heal with Alex Elle

It was discussed as a new book and described as an act of service to others, encouraging readers to heal themselves and their lineage.

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Her most recent book, How We Heal So Beautiful, is available now.

as I write in my new book, when we heal ourselves, we heal our lineage.

Alex L., thank you for who you are in the world. Your new book, How We Heal is just an act of service to all of us. It is community care. So thank you.

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Alexandra Elle

After the Rain

Gentle Reminders for Healing, Courage, and Self-Love

It was mentioned in a past tense context as a book that Alex Elle had written and given to her mother, which contained parts of her memoir and served as a guide.

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When my book, After the Rain came out, which is like part memoir, part guide.

— Episode: 149. How to Heal with Alex Elle

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Episode: 149. How to Heal with Alex Elle

It was mentioned in a past tense context as a book that Alex Elle had written and given to her mother, which contained parts of her memoir and served as a guide.

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When my book, After the Rain came out, which is like part memoir, part guide.

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Libby Delana

Do Walk

Navigate earth, mind and body. Step by step. (Do Books Book 30)

It was mentioned as a book that Alex Elle read and enjoyed; Libby Delaina was featured in Magnolia Journal, and this book inspired her to walk daily as a healing activity.

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And she's my absolute favorite person. We are thick as thieves now. We are family now. I found her in Magnolia Journal a year ago and was like, who is this six foot tall, long white haired lady? She's...

— Episode: 149. How to Heal with Alex Elle

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Episode: 149. How to Heal with Alex Elle

It was mentioned as a book that Alex Elle read and enjoyed; Libby Delaina was featured in Magnolia Journal, and this book inspired her to walk daily as a healing activity.

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And she's my absolute favorite person. We are thick as thieves now. We are family now. I found her in Magnolia Journal a year ago and was like, who is this six foot tall, long white haired lady? She's so badass. They had a whole feature on her.

So I read her article, I looked her up, and I bought her book immediately.

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Melissa Urban

The Book of Boundaries

Set the Limits That Will Set You Free

It was discussed at length as a resource for understanding and implementing boundaries in personal relationships, with specific examples for friends, family, and romantic partners.

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Melissa Urban is the co-founder and CEO of Whole30, a six-time New York Times bestselling author and her highly anticipated book, the book of, one of our favorite words here, at We Can Do Hard Things,...

— Episode: 143. How to Set & Hold Boundaries with M...

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It was discussed at length as a resource for understanding and implementing boundaries in personal relationships, with specific examples for friends, family, and romantic partners.

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Melissa Urban is the co-founder and CEO of Whole30, a six-time New York Times bestselling author and her highly anticipated book, the book of, one of our favorite words here, at We Can Do Hard Things, Boundaries. The Book of Boundaries is available now.

I feel that you are the right person to talk to us about boundaries after reading more of your story in your book, The Book of Boundaries.

So I believe in minimum effort, maximum effect. You want to go in with the gentlest, kindest language possible and still have your boundary be respected.

Can you explain the green, yellow, red systems that you wrote about in your book?

And it goes back to what Abby was saying and what Glennon was saying, which is it's integrity. In my integrity, I want to show up. If I say yes to a task, I want to show up as my best self and if I can't, it is in everyone's best interest that I say no.

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Tricia Hersey

Rest Is Resistance

A Manifesto (Rest Is Resistance, 1)

It was described as a manifesto that promotes rest as a form of resistance and reparations, encouraging a decolonizing movement to reclaim one's self and others from the systems that seek to keep everyone exhausted.

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Rest Is Resistance, a manifesto.

— Episode: 139. No More Grind: How to Finally Rest...

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It was described as a manifesto that promotes rest as a form of resistance and reparations, encouraging a decolonizing movement to reclaim one's self and others from the systems that seek to keep everyone exhausted.

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Rest Is Resistance, a manifesto.

I have written 55,000 words for my new book and I don't mention self-care once in it.

I say in the book, give thanks for the idea that this doesn't have to be rushed. That this doesn't have to be urgent.

I have a quote in my book that says something like, we do the work for them when we don't see ourselves as divine and perfect already.

I say so many times in the book... I am enough now.

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Wendell Berry

The Hidden Wound

It was mentioned as a book where the author discussed how white people haven't had the chance to heal from the wound of white supremacy and to even acknowledge that there is a wound to be healed.

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There's a beautiful book called The Hidden Wound by Wendell Berry. He's a white poet and artist. And he talks about this idea of how white people have not had the opportunity to heal...

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It was mentioned as a book where the author discussed how white people haven't had the chance to heal from the wound of white supremacy and to even acknowledge that there is a wound to be healed.

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There's a beautiful book called The Hidden Wound by Wendell Berry. He's a white poet and artist. And he talks about this idea of how white people have not had the opportunity to heal from the wound, not even heal, but even to understand that there is a wound.

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Jim Branch

The Blue Book

A Devotional Guide for Every Season of Your Life

It was mentioned as a book given to Emily by a friend, early in her sobriety journey, which she initially refused to read. The book was later described as 'on fire'.

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And she gave me my first blue book and she was like, I don't really want to talk about the program because that's, you know.

— Episode: 133. Indigo Girls: Sexuality, Sobriety,...

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It was mentioned as a book given to Emily by a friend, early in her sobriety journey, which she initially refused to read. The book was later described as 'on fire'.

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And she gave me my first blue book and she was like, I don't really want to talk about the program because that's, you know.

It's not there on a little altar. And then and I was like, oh, well, I'm not like that. It's classic.

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Chani Nicholas

You Were Born for This

Astrology for Radical Self-Acceptance

It was discussed how the author's childhood experiences led her to astrology, offering a sense of distinction and self in a chaotic environment. The book also detailed how she used astrology for self-discovery and as a tool for understanding human behavior and purpose.

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I loved how you wrote about your life so much.

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It was discussed how the author's childhood experiences led her to astrology, offering a sense of distinction and self in a chaotic environment. The book also detailed how she used astrology for self-discovery and as a tool for understanding human behavior and purpose.

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I loved how you wrote about your life so much.

the way that you describe how you came to astrology I thought was so beautiful.

Understanding yourself as separate and distinct from that is a fascinating need that I had never really thought of before I read that part of your book.

the things that happened to me weren't ever about me.

And I'm not putting it out in the world in a way that's blaming anyone, but I'm putting it out in the world so that I can understand who I am.

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Franklin Veaux

More Than Two

A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory (More Than Two Essentials)

It was briefly mentioned as another book on polyamory, alongside 'The Ethical Slut,' that Glennon Doyle had read.

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There's one called More Than Two, which is really good.

— Episode: 121. Martha Beck & Rowan Mangan: Polyamo...

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It was briefly mentioned as another book on polyamory, alongside 'The Ethical Slut,' that Glennon Doyle had read.

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There's one called More Than Two, which is really good.

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David R. Hawkins

Letting Go

The Pathway of Surrender

Chelsea discussed this book as being insightful and metaphysical, with a story of a man who grieved until he felt joy again, relating it to exhausting her own pain.

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I don't know if you guys have read this David Hawking's book, Letting Go. It's pretty deep and pretty metaphysical.

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Episode: 115. Chelsea Handler: On Breaking Up & Being Unbre...

Chelsea discussed this book as being insightful and metaphysical, with a story of a man who grieved until he felt joy again, relating it to exhausting her own pain.

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I don't know if you guys have read this David Hawking's book, Letting Go. It's pretty deep and pretty metaphysical.

He talks about this guy who lost his mother and he just went to a cabin and just sat alone in this cabin and cried and cried and cried until he felt joy again.

And he faced his grief head on and dealt with it.

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Natalie Portman

Natalie Portman's Fables

It was mentioned as her debut picture book and a New York Times Bestseller.

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Her book, Natalie Portman's Fables, is a New York Times bestseller.

— Episode: 111. Natalie Portman: How to Know When t...

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Episode: 111. Natalie Portman: How to Know When to Say YES

It was mentioned as her debut picture book and a New York Times Bestseller.

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Her book, Natalie Portman's Fables, is a New York Times bestseller.

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Marisa Renee Lee

Grief Is Love

Living with Loss

It was described as a book that normalizes grief and encourages readers to surrender to the experience, rather than attempting to control it, as it is presented as a form of love.

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I knew we were ready to finally do this episode when I read Marissa Renee Lee's book, Grief Is Love.

— Episode: 110. Why Grief – like Love – is Forever...

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It was described as a book that normalizes grief and encourages readers to surrender to the experience, rather than attempting to control it, as it is presented as a form of love.

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I knew we were ready to finally do this episode when I read Marissa Renee Lee's book, Grief Is Love.

Marisa really normalizes grief for the world. She doesn't present it prescriptively or make any promises. She just paints it as a beautiful picture. And really she teaches us that we can't prepare for it because to prepare is to control and love can't be controlled so neither can grief because as she tells us and teaches us through her work, Grief Is Love.

They're just different words to say the same thing. So even if we can't prepare for it, we can be together in it.

Marisa Renee Lee is a grief advocate, entrepreneur and author of Grief Is Love.

Marisa's book utilizes research-based approaches to navigate the complicated and challenging emotions we face when experiencing loss, offering unique insights for women and black communities.

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Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

On Death and Dying (Scribner Classics)

It was mentioned that the author read this book months before her mother's death, as part of her efforts to prepare, in an attempt to mitigate the impact of grief and loss.

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I did all of my grief research. I was reading Elizabeth Kubler-Ross's On Death and Dying months before my mom died.

— Episode: 110. Why Grief – like Love – is Forever...

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It was mentioned that the author read this book months before her mother's death, as part of her efforts to prepare, in an attempt to mitigate the impact of grief and loss.

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I did all of my grief research. I was reading Elizabeth Kubler-Ross's On Death and Dying months before my mom died.

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