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HOW WE ALL BECOME MINNESOTA: BRITTANY PACKNETT CUNNINGHAM
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It was a memoir that detailed Sarah's experiences within NXIVM and DOS, including her initiation, escape, and efforts to expose the truth.
I sent me your book, Scarred, and in it you wrote that one of your manifestations was to dance with Abby and me to Closer to Fine by the Indigo Girls.
— Episode: 158. CULTS Part 2: How Intuition Can Sav...
It was a memoir that detailed Sarah's experiences within NXIVM and DOS, including her initiation, escape, and efforts to expose the truth.
I sent me your book, Scarred, and in it you wrote that one of your manifestations was to dance with Abby and me to Closer to Fine by the Indigo Girls.
And I read that a few times and I just thought it was so beautiful and interesting that you chose that song to write in the book because that song, which we love so much, is about spending our lives looking for some kind of answer.
It was mentioned as Sarah Edmondson's memoir, detailing her experiences in NXIVM, from joining to fighting for justice against its founder.
Sarah's memoir, Scarred, shares her true story from the moment she joined NXIVM to her harrowing fight to get out and bring its founder to justice.
— Episode: 157. CULTS: How NXIVM Controlled Women &...
It was mentioned as Sarah Edmondson's memoir, detailing her experiences in NXIVM, from joining to fighting for justice against its founder.
Sarah's memoir, Scarred, shares her true story from the moment she joined NXIVM to her harrowing fight to get out and bring its founder to justice.
Psychological Theory and Women's Development
It was discussed in relation to how girls, especially those who are disembodied or have experienced sexual trauma, may develop a higher-pitched voice and how that voice drops as they become more embodied.
It occurred to me when I read Carol Gilligan, the feminist psychologist, her book called In a Different Voice, when she talks about how girls, especially girls who are disembodied, es...
— Episode: 156. JANE F-ING FONDA
It was discussed in relation to how girls, especially those who are disembodied or have experienced sexual trauma, may develop a higher-pitched voice and how that voice drops as they become more embodied.
It occurred to me when I read Carol Gilligan, the feminist psychologist, her book called In a Different Voice, when she talks about how girls, especially girls who are disembodied, especially girls who've been sexually traumatized, they're not going to know what's going on in their head because it doesn't reveal anything.
Essays, Drawings, Vulnerabilities, and Other Stuff
It was written after she'd fallen in love and experienced heartbreak, and she discussed feeling like she wasn't made for love, and that she might be written about as someone who never fell in love.
You said that in your twenties, you had dated men, but you had never really been in love. And you said you'd gotten to this point where you felt like you just weren't cut out for love.
— Episode: 155. When Should We Quit? with Abbi Jaco...
It was written after she'd fallen in love and experienced heartbreak, and she discussed feeling like she wasn't made for love, and that she might be written about as someone who never fell in love.
You said that in your twenties, you had dated men, but you had never really been in love. And you said you'd gotten to this point where you felt like you just weren't cut out for love.
That you were made of solid rock and that you'd be written about later in life as the woman who never fell in love.
Yeah, I really felt that way. I mean, I dated a lot of dudes and I like love dudes, but I just was like, wait, I'm not, I'm not, I don't know. Maybe I'm just not able to connect in that way at all, I guess.
the title of the book, it's called I Might Regret This, because I was very terrified of putting any of that out into the world without it being like behind Abbie Abrams.
In your book, I loved it so much. Both of us have a lot of things that we relate to you about and differently.
Uncover Your Power and Set Yourself Free
It was discussed as a new book and described as an act of service to others, encouraging readers to heal themselves and their lineage.
Her most recent book, How We Heal So Beautiful, is available now.
— Episode: 149. How to Heal with Alex Elle
It was discussed as a new book and described as an act of service to others, encouraging readers to heal themselves and their lineage.
Her most recent book, How We Heal So Beautiful, is available now.
as I write in my new book, when we heal ourselves, we heal our lineage.
Alex L., thank you for who you are in the world. Your new book, How We Heal is just an act of service to all of us. It is community care. So thank you.
Gentle Reminders for Healing, Courage, and Self-Love
It was mentioned in a past tense context as a book that Alex Elle had written and given to her mother, which contained parts of her memoir and served as a guide.
When my book, After the Rain came out, which is like part memoir, part guide.
— Episode: 149. How to Heal with Alex Elle
It was mentioned in a past tense context as a book that Alex Elle had written and given to her mother, which contained parts of her memoir and served as a guide.
When my book, After the Rain came out, which is like part memoir, part guide.
Navigate earth, mind and body. Step by step. (Do Books Book 30)
It was mentioned as a book that Alex Elle read and enjoyed; Libby Delaina was featured in Magnolia Journal, and this book inspired her to walk daily as a healing activity.
And she's my absolute favorite person. We are thick as thieves now. We are family now. I found her in Magnolia Journal a year ago and was like, who is this six foot tall, long white haired lady? She's...
— Episode: 149. How to Heal with Alex Elle
It was mentioned as a book that Alex Elle read and enjoyed; Libby Delaina was featured in Magnolia Journal, and this book inspired her to walk daily as a healing activity.
And she's my absolute favorite person. We are thick as thieves now. We are family now. I found her in Magnolia Journal a year ago and was like, who is this six foot tall, long white haired lady? She's so badass. They had a whole feature on her.
So I read her article, I looked her up, and I bought her book immediately.
Set the Limits That Will Set You Free
It was discussed at length as a resource for understanding and implementing boundaries in personal relationships, with specific examples for friends, family, and romantic partners.
Melissa Urban is the co-founder and CEO of Whole30, a six-time New York Times bestselling author and her highly anticipated book, the book of, one of our favorite words here, at We Can Do Hard Things,...
— Episode: 143. How to Set & Hold Boundaries with M...
It was discussed at length as a resource for understanding and implementing boundaries in personal relationships, with specific examples for friends, family, and romantic partners.
Melissa Urban is the co-founder and CEO of Whole30, a six-time New York Times bestselling author and her highly anticipated book, the book of, one of our favorite words here, at We Can Do Hard Things, Boundaries. The Book of Boundaries is available now.
I feel that you are the right person to talk to us about boundaries after reading more of your story in your book, The Book of Boundaries.
So I believe in minimum effort, maximum effect. You want to go in with the gentlest, kindest language possible and still have your boundary be respected.
Can you explain the green, yellow, red systems that you wrote about in your book?
And it goes back to what Abby was saying and what Glennon was saying, which is it's integrity. In my integrity, I want to show up. If I say yes to a task, I want to show up as my best self and if I can't, it is in everyone's best interest that I say no.
A Manifesto (Rest Is Resistance, 1)
It was described as a manifesto that promotes rest as a form of resistance and reparations, encouraging a decolonizing movement to reclaim one's self and others from the systems that seek to keep everyone exhausted.
Rest Is Resistance, a manifesto.
— Episode: 139. No More Grind: How to Finally Rest...
It was described as a manifesto that promotes rest as a form of resistance and reparations, encouraging a decolonizing movement to reclaim one's self and others from the systems that seek to keep everyone exhausted.
Rest Is Resistance, a manifesto.
I have written 55,000 words for my new book and I don't mention self-care once in it.
I say in the book, give thanks for the idea that this doesn't have to be rushed. That this doesn't have to be urgent.
I have a quote in my book that says something like, we do the work for them when we don't see ourselves as divine and perfect already.
I say so many times in the book... I am enough now.
It was mentioned as a book where the author discussed how white people haven't had the chance to heal from the wound of white supremacy and to even acknowledge that there is a wound to be healed.
There's a beautiful book called The Hidden Wound by Wendell Berry. He's a white poet and artist. And he talks about this idea of how white people have not had the opportunity to heal...
— Episode: 139. No More Grind: How to Finally Rest...
It was mentioned as a book where the author discussed how white people haven't had the chance to heal from the wound of white supremacy and to even acknowledge that there is a wound to be healed.
There's a beautiful book called The Hidden Wound by Wendell Berry. He's a white poet and artist. And he talks about this idea of how white people have not had the opportunity to heal from the wound, not even heal, but even to understand that there is a wound.
A Devotional Guide for Every Season of Your Life
It was mentioned as a book given to Emily by a friend, early in her sobriety journey, which she initially refused to read. The book was later described as 'on fire'.
And she gave me my first blue book and she was like, I don't really want to talk about the program because that's, you know.
— Episode: 133. Indigo Girls: Sexuality, Sobriety,...
It was mentioned as a book given to Emily by a friend, early in her sobriety journey, which she initially refused to read. The book was later described as 'on fire'.
And she gave me my first blue book and she was like, I don't really want to talk about the program because that's, you know.
It's not there on a little altar. And then and I was like, oh, well, I'm not like that. It's classic.
Astrology for Radical Self-Acceptance
It was discussed how the author's childhood experiences led her to astrology, offering a sense of distinction and self in a chaotic environment. The book also detailed how she used astrology for self-discovery and as a tool for understanding human behavior and purpose.
I loved how you wrote about your life so much.
— Episode: 129. What Your Sign Says About How You L...
It was discussed how the author's childhood experiences led her to astrology, offering a sense of distinction and self in a chaotic environment. The book also detailed how she used astrology for self-discovery and as a tool for understanding human behavior and purpose.
I loved how you wrote about your life so much.
the way that you describe how you came to astrology I thought was so beautiful.
Understanding yourself as separate and distinct from that is a fascinating need that I had never really thought of before I read that part of your book.
the things that happened to me weren't ever about me.
And I'm not putting it out in the world in a way that's blaming anyone, but I'm putting it out in the world so that I can understand who I am.
A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory (More Than Two Essentials)
It was briefly mentioned as another book on polyamory, alongside 'The Ethical Slut,' that Glennon Doyle had read.
There's one called More Than Two, which is really good.
— Episode: 121. Martha Beck & Rowan Mangan: Polyamo...
It was briefly mentioned as another book on polyamory, alongside 'The Ethical Slut,' that Glennon Doyle had read.
There's one called More Than Two, which is really good.
The Pathway of Surrender
Chelsea discussed this book as being insightful and metaphysical, with a story of a man who grieved until he felt joy again, relating it to exhausting her own pain.
I don't know if you guys have read this David Hawking's book, Letting Go. It's pretty deep and pretty metaphysical.
— Episode: 115. Chelsea Handler: On Breaking Up & B...
Chelsea discussed this book as being insightful and metaphysical, with a story of a man who grieved until he felt joy again, relating it to exhausting her own pain.
I don't know if you guys have read this David Hawking's book, Letting Go. It's pretty deep and pretty metaphysical.
He talks about this guy who lost his mother and he just went to a cabin and just sat alone in this cabin and cried and cried and cried until he felt joy again.
And he faced his grief head on and dealt with it.
It was mentioned as her debut picture book and a New York Times Bestseller.
Her book, Natalie Portman's Fables, is a New York Times bestseller.
— Episode: 111. Natalie Portman: How to Know When t...
It was mentioned as her debut picture book and a New York Times Bestseller.
Her book, Natalie Portman's Fables, is a New York Times bestseller.
Living with Loss
It was described as a book that normalizes grief and encourages readers to surrender to the experience, rather than attempting to control it, as it is presented as a form of love.
I knew we were ready to finally do this episode when I read Marissa Renee Lee's book, Grief Is Love.
— Episode: 110. Why Grief – like Love – is Forever...
It was described as a book that normalizes grief and encourages readers to surrender to the experience, rather than attempting to control it, as it is presented as a form of love.
I knew we were ready to finally do this episode when I read Marissa Renee Lee's book, Grief Is Love.
Marisa really normalizes grief for the world. She doesn't present it prescriptively or make any promises. She just paints it as a beautiful picture. And really she teaches us that we can't prepare for it because to prepare is to control and love can't be controlled so neither can grief because as she tells us and teaches us through her work, Grief Is Love.
They're just different words to say the same thing. So even if we can't prepare for it, we can be together in it.
Marisa Renee Lee is a grief advocate, entrepreneur and author of Grief Is Love.
Marisa's book utilizes research-based approaches to navigate the complicated and challenging emotions we face when experiencing loss, offering unique insights for women and black communities.
It was mentioned that the author read this book months before her mother's death, as part of her efforts to prepare, in an attempt to mitigate the impact of grief and loss.
I did all of my grief research. I was reading Elizabeth Kubler-Ross's On Death and Dying months before my mom died.
— Episode: 110. Why Grief – like Love – is Forever...
It was mentioned that the author read this book months before her mother's death, as part of her efforts to prepare, in an attempt to mitigate the impact of grief and loss.
I did all of my grief research. I was reading Elizabeth Kubler-Ross's On Death and Dying months before my mom died.
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