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We Can Do Hard Things

Come do life with Glennon Doyle, Abby Wambach, and Amanda Doyle. With more than half a billion plays, We Can Do Hard Things is a hilarious, raw, comforting “support system for braving the everyday.” The Pod Squad goes hard ($56 Million raised in global aid) and stays soft: meet here on Tuesdays to...

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Black AF History

Michael Harriot

Mentioned 5 months ago

HOW WE ALL BECOME MINNESOTA: BRITTANY PACKNETT CUNNINGHAM

This book was mentioned as an example of material people were reading and discussing online, leading to broader engagement with history.

There are people who bought Michael Harriot's Black AF history, right, and said, oh, this is interesting. Let me talk to my audience about it.

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The Condemnation of Blackness

Khalil Gibran Muhammad

Mentioned 5 months ago

HOW WE ALL BECOME MINNESOTA: BRITTANY PACKNETT CUNNINGHAM

This book was referenced to explain how European immigrant groups gradually integrated into the umbrella of 'whiteness' over generations by forming political power and protection, often involving anti-miscegenation laws to maintain racial distinction.

If you read The Condemnation of Blackness by Khalil Muhammad, he talks about how each European immigrant group took a generation or two to be pulled into the umbrella that is whiteness, right?

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A People's History of the United States

Howard Zinn

Mentioned 5 months ago

HOW WE ALL BECOME MINNESOTA: BRITTANY PACKNETT CUNNINGHAM

The proper history presented in this book has rarely been taught to most people, which is why spaces like TikTok are becoming important for sharing the real history.

But the proper people's history of the United States, to borrow Zen's phrase, has rarely been taught to most people.

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The Sum of Us

Heather McGhee

Mentioned 5 months ago

HOW WE ALL BECOME MINNESOTA: BRITTANY PACKNETT CUNNINGHAM

This book was highly recommended, particularly for its concept of 'drained pool politics,' which illustrated how systemic oppression ultimately harms everyone, even those who benefit from the system.

I think all the time of Heather McGee's book, The Sum of Us, which everybody should read.

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High Conflict

Amanda Ripley

Mentioned 1 year ago

How to Have *Healthy* Conflict with Amanda Ripley

This book details how people become trapped in conflicts and offers ways to escape them; the discussion focused on how to move from high conflict to good conflict.

when I started working on high conflict, I was following people who were trapped in really ugly dysfunctional conflicts of all kinds, all around the world. And I was asking them, how did you get out? And it turned out that's the wrong question because we need conflict.

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The Unthinkable

Amanda Ripley

Mentioned 1 year ago

How to Have *Healthy* Conflict with Amanda Ripley

This book was mentioned as one of the author's previous works, but no details of its content were discussed during the podcast.

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The Smartest Kids in the World

Amanda Ripley

Mentioned 1 year ago

How to Have *Healthy* Conflict with Amanda Ripley

This New York Times bestseller was mentioned as a previous work by the author; it was also adapted into a documentary film, but no specific details about the book were discussed in the podcast.

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The Way of Integrity

Martha Beck

Mentioned 1 year ago

Martha Beck: Move Toward Joy Today!

This was Martha Beck's newest book at the time of the recording, and it was an instant New York Times bestseller. One speaker mentioned that when they read it, the principle that every truth makes one relaxed and every lie makes one tense felt warm to them.

Her published works include the New York Times international bestsellers Finding Your Own North Star, I've read it. The Joy Diet, I've read it. Expecting Adam, I've read it. Martha's newest book, The Way of Integrity. I've read it twice. Finding the Path to Your True Self was obviously an instant New York Times bestseller.

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Finding Your Own North Star

Martha Beck

Mentioned 1 year ago

Martha Beck: Move Toward Joy Today!

This book was mentioned as one of Martha Beck's New York Times international bestsellers that one of the hosts had read.

Her published works include the New York Times international bestsellers Finding Your Own North Star, I've read it.

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Expecting Adam

Martha Beck

Mentioned 1 year ago

Martha Beck: Move Toward Joy Today!

One speaker read this book while pregnant with her first child, who was initially diagnosed with markers for Down syndrome; the book brought her great joy and peace during that uncertain time. The author later explained the book related to her own experience of receiving a Down syndrome diagnosis for her second child, Adam, while in her PhD program and choosing to keep him despite advice to terminate.

So I read Expecting Adam during that time. And that book, more than anything else, just set me at such joy and peace during that time.

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The Joy Diet

Martha Beck

Mentioned 1 year ago

Martha Beck: Move Toward Joy Today!

This book was mentioned as one of Martha Beck's New York Times international bestsellers that one of the hosts had read.

The Joy Diet, I've read it.

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Be Ready When the Luck Happens

Ina Garten

Mentioned 1 year ago

Secrets to a Joyful Life with Ina Garten

Ina Garten's new memoir, released on the day of the podcast recording, was discussed. The podcast hosts and Garten talked about its themes of overcoming challenges and following one's passions.

Her new memoir, Be Ready When the Luck Happens, is available today.

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Sarah Knight

Get Your Sh*t Together

How to Stop Worrying About What You Should Do So You Can Finish What You Need to Do and Start Doing What You Want to Do (A No F*cks Given Guide)

It was described as a book that had a profound impact on both the hosts and listeners. It was mentioned in the context of reassessing one's relationship with social media and the internet.

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I heard you on a podcast say that you read Jenny O'Dell's book.

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It was described as a book that had a profound impact on both the hosts and listeners. It was mentioned in the context of reassessing one's relationship with social media and the internet.

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I heard you on a podcast say that you read Jenny O'Dell's book.

Oh, isn't it so good? It fucked me up completely.

Absolutely. Same. I was like, I have to change my whole life.

Me too. I changed my whole life. Everyone read that book.

And this probably has to do with Jenny's book too is like, what is giving me real kind of animal pleasure in the day?

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Michelle Zauner

Crying in H Mart

A Memoir

It was described as a beautiful and moving memoir, similar to her music, exploring themes of loss, identity, and belonging through a personal journey of grief and cultural exploration.

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Crying in H Mart is so flipping beautiful. It's like your music, I don't like music that's like too cheerful at trying to trick me that the world is not shit.

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It was described as a beautiful and moving memoir, similar to her music, exploring themes of loss, identity, and belonging through a personal journey of grief and cultural exploration.

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Crying in H Mart is so flipping beautiful. It's like your music, I don't like music that's like too cheerful at trying to trick me that the world is not shit.

And then it like widens to everybody every time. It's like this alone together feeling listening to you, which is the same as your memoir.

I mean, that's essentially what Crying in H Mart is. I was crying in this grocery store and I was like, I bet other people have done this, you know? And like, I need to share.

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Robin Stern

The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide

Your Personal Journey Toward Healing from Emotional Abuse

It was discussed as a guide to healing from emotional abuse, including examples of gaslighting in relationships and how to recover from it.

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She is the author of The Gas Light Effect Recovery Guide, Your Personal Journey Toward Healing from Emotional Abuse.

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It was discussed as a guide to healing from emotional abuse, including examples of gaslighting in relationships and how to recover from it.

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She is the author of The Gas Light Effect Recovery Guide, Your Personal Journey Toward Healing from Emotional Abuse.

And after I wrote my book, I got a lot of email from people who said, guess what? You may be seeing this, but it's happening here and here and here.

in the recovery guide, I did add some lesbian couples. I added some guys who were gaslighted.

After reading your book, I now see it very clearly what was happening to get me to that absolutely extreme place.

I felt that when I was reading, I was like, oh, I've done this. I've done this with Abby even where she's come to me with a fear about our relationship that has cut so deep for me and made me so scared about who I was that I have then created a case for why that's not the case.

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Plato

The Replublic

The Original Unabridged And Complete Edition (Plato Classics)

Plato's philosophy was mentioned, suggesting that it influenced the Western view of the body as separate from the mind, which Glennon challenges in the episode.

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Like Plato said, we're body, mind, spirits.

— Episode: 200. Don’t Tell Glennon to Love Her Body

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Plato's philosophy was mentioned, suggesting that it influenced the Western view of the body as separate from the mind, which Glennon challenges in the episode.

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Like Plato said, we're body, mind, spirits.

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René Descartes

Meditations on First Philosophy (Hackett Classics)

Descartes's famous quote "I think, therefore I am" was brought up as a counterpoint to the speaker's stance that the body is not an object but rather the subject of experience.

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Descartes said, I think therefore I am.

— Episode: 200. Don’t Tell Glennon to Love Her Body

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Descartes's famous quote "I think, therefore I am" was brought up as a counterpoint to the speaker's stance that the body is not an object but rather the subject of experience.

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Descartes said, I think therefore I am.

What if Descartes, what if all that was wrong? What if every single thing that we have learned about who we are is wrong?

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Plato

The Replublic

The Original Unabridged And Complete Edition (Plato Classics)

It was mentioned in context of Plato's philosophy, which suggests that humans are comprised of body, mind, and spirit, and that the mind is superior to the body.

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Like Plato said, we're body, mind, spirits.

— Episode: 200. Don’t Tell Glennon to Love Her Body

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Episode: 200. Don’t Tell Glennon to Love Her Body

It was mentioned in context of Plato's philosophy, which suggests that humans are comprised of body, mind, and spirit, and that the mind is superior to the body.

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Like Plato said, we're body, mind, spirits.

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Holly Whitaker

Quit Like a Woman

The Radical Choice to Not Drink in a Culture Obsessed with Alcohol

It was discussed in the context of alcohol and mindful drinking, and mentioned that Holly Whitaker was the one who put out the idea to 'drink responsibly'.

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Holly Whitaker does a beautiful job in her book Quit Like a Woman, talking about how big alcohol is the one that even put out the idea drink responsibly.

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It was discussed in the context of alcohol and mindful drinking, and mentioned that Holly Whitaker was the one who put out the idea to 'drink responsibly'.

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Holly Whitaker does a beautiful job in her book Quit Like a Woman, talking about how big alcohol is the one that even put out the idea drink responsibly.

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Kaitlin B. Curtice

Living Resistance

An Indigenous Vision for Seeking Wholeness Every Day

It explores the concept of resisting societal norms by nurturing oneself, others, and the environment, highlighting the importance of indigenous wisdom in this process and was discussed as a beautiful read.

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Her new book, Living Resistance, an indigenous vision for seeking wholeness every day, examines the journey of resisting the status quo by caring for ourselves, one another and mother...

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It explores the concept of resisting societal norms by nurturing oneself, others, and the environment, highlighting the importance of indigenous wisdom in this process and was discussed as a beautiful read.

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Her new book, Living Resistance, an indigenous vision for seeking wholeness every day, examines the journey of resisting the status quo by caring for ourselves, one another and mother earth and is beautiful and is available now.

That the line that you quoted from my new book, this is my problem with the term resilience is that resilience should be us choosing our resilience, not an oppressor saying you're resilient and then shoving you back down.

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Sarah Augustine

The Land Is Not Empty

Following Jesus in Dismantling the Doctrine of Discovery

It was mentioned in the context of the Doctrine of Discovery and its devastating impact on indigenous communities and the relationship with land through a Christian lens.

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And I always point to Sarah Augustine and Mark Charles have both written on this extensively. Sarah Augustine, her book is called The Land Is Not Empty.

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It was mentioned in the context of the Doctrine of Discovery and its devastating impact on indigenous communities and the relationship with land through a Christian lens.

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And I always point to Sarah Augustine and Mark Charles have both written on this extensively. Sarah Augustine, her book is called The Land Is Not Empty.

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Joshua Harris

I Kissed Dating Goodbye (updated edition)

It was described as a popular book that promoted purity culture, with Kaitlin recalling reading it and committing to certain beliefs about relationships and sexual behavior.

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So the purity movement, there was a popular book called I Kissed Dating Goodbye by a guy named Josh Harris. I remember laying in my living and reading this book and saying to myself,...

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It was described as a popular book that promoted purity culture, with Kaitlin recalling reading it and committing to certain beliefs about relationships and sexual behavior.

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So the purity movement, there was a popular book called I Kissed Dating Goodbye by a guy named Josh Harris. I remember laying in my living and reading this book and saying to myself, I will not kiss anyone until I am ready to marry them.

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Jennifer A. Nielsen

Resistance (Scholastic Gold)

It was recommended to the listeners as a book about the NAP ministry, exploring the concept of rest as a form of resistance, particularly in relation to being a cog in the capitalist machine.

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That is the scary question is if the systems are like this and we have been taught to be like this and the systems probably aren't changing anytime soon, then how are we supposed to resist that status...

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It was recommended to the listeners as a book about the NAP ministry, exploring the concept of rest as a form of resistance, particularly in relation to being a cog in the capitalist machine.

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That is the scary question is if the systems are like this and we have been taught to be like this and the systems probably aren't changing anytime soon, then how are we supposed to resist that status quo? How do we do that? What I have come to is that we keep having conversations with our kids and we keep giving them the tools they need.

Tricia Hersey's new book of the NAP ministry, Restless Resistance. I bought that book for every woman in my family because we have all become a part of the cogs in the machine.

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Sarah Polley

Run Towards the Danger

Confrontations with a Body of Memory

Glennon Doyle discussed reading Sarah Polley's book and found one essay particularly important and a unique perspective on sexual assault and its aftermath. It was discussed as potentially changing how the world views these issues.

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I started getting to know you a few months ago. I read your book, Run Towards the Danger, loved it so much that I immediately watched your documentary, loved that so much that I immed...

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Glennon Doyle discussed reading Sarah Polley's book and found one essay particularly important and a unique perspective on sexual assault and its aftermath. It was discussed as potentially changing how the world views these issues.

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I started getting to know you a few months ago. I read your book, Run Towards the Danger, loved it so much that I immediately watched your documentary, loved that so much that I immediately watched Women Talking.

But there's one essay in the book that when I read it, I felt like, well, this is the most important essay I've read in a decade.

If It's Okay, Run Towards the Danger, which by the way, I love that freaking title.

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Mae Martin

Can Everyone Please Calm Down

It was discussed as a funny family guide to 21st-century sexuality, and the parents' sex-positive approach to discussing sexuality with their children was mentioned.

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Mae is also the author of Can Everyone Please Calm Down?: A Guide to 21st Century Sexuality, which our family has been going through like a hilarious family class for the last month.

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Episode: 173. How to be Sexually Confident with Mae Martin

It was discussed as a funny family guide to 21st-century sexuality, and the parents' sex-positive approach to discussing sexuality with their children was mentioned.

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Mae is also the author of Can Everyone Please Calm Down?: A Guide to 21st Century Sexuality, which our family has been going through like a hilarious family class for the last month.

And also if you need a cheat sheet, you could explain orgasms the way that May's mother did, which is this. When two, okay. Just want you to imagine some, a mother saying this to six-year-old May. Okay. When two people love each other and they're naked and having sex, they feel very happy and then they feel increasingly happy. And finally they reach a moment of extreme happiness and an explosion of rainbows cascades across the sky.

So poetic and so misleading.

I mean, like, yeah, I was really, really disappointed when it finally happened. No rainbows.

The only person for whom the first orgasm was really fucking let down. It was a letdown.

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Richard C. Schwartz

Internal Family Systems Therapy

It was discussed as being very helpful for understanding the human mind and Internal Family Systems, with many people finding it relatable.

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Dick Schwartz is the author of All Things Family Systems.

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It was discussed as being very helpful for understanding the human mind and Internal Family Systems, with many people finding it relatable.

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Dick Schwartz is the author of All Things Family Systems.

really, I feel like he understands the human mind in a way that is so unique. And everyone I know who reads his book or learns about IFS is like this just makes sense.

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Danya Ruttenberg

On Repentance and Repair

Making Amends in an Unapologetic World

It was discussed at length as a framework for righting wrongs. It was described as a process with 5 stages, starting with confession and ending with apology, with the victim at the centre of the repair.

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I loved so much, On Repentance and Repair, Making Amends in an Unapologetic World.

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It was discussed at length as a framework for righting wrongs. It was described as a process with 5 stages, starting with confession and ending with apology, with the victim at the centre of the repair.

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I loved so much, On Repentance and Repair, Making Amends in an Unapologetic World.

I wrote up a couple of paragraphs based on what I think, you know, Maimonides sort of order of repentance and we'll get into what the steps are.

One of my favorite confessions is Dan Harmon, who was the showrunner for Community and he sexually harassed one of the writers on his set, Megan Gantz.

Like, oh, well, isn't this a hard one? Because you have to say it, change it, and then accept the consequences for it.

And the reason why that's given by later commentators is very much because, you know, if somebody talks crap about you, it's like the feathers have been let loose in the wind.

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