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Think Fast Talk Smart: Communication Techniques

One of the most essential ingredients to success in business and life is effective communication. Join Matt Abrahams, best-selling author and Strategic Communication lecturer at Stanford Graduate School of Business, as he interviews experts to provide actionable insights that help you communicate...

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Speak Out, Listen Up

Megan Reitz

Mentioned 5 months ago

259. Quick Thinks: Task-Focused to People-Focused—A Smarter Way to Communicate

This book was mentioned as Megan Reitz's published work related to the topic discussed in the podcast episode.

Megan's Book: Speak Out, Listen Up

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The Art of Negotiation

Tim Castle

Mentioned 7 months ago

247. “Matt”er of Fact: Coaching on Feedback and Q&A

The speaker planned to learn valuable negotiation skills from Chris Voss's Masterclass to better handle challenging holiday gatherings.

I'm excited to learn more from one of our former guests, Chris Voss, whose Art of Negotiation Masterclass will certainly come in handy.

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Shared Wisdom

Alex Pentland

Mentioned 7 months ago

246. Shared Wisdom: How Communication Defines Culture and Builds Community

Pentland's newest book explored how communication and story-sharing define culture, build community wisdom, and enable collective action in the age of AI. Host Matt Abrahams quoted it on the importance of stories for communities and wished it success.

He has just released his newest book, Shared Wisdom, Cultural Evolution in the Age of AI.

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Honest Signals

Alex Sandy Pentland

Mentioned 7 months ago

246. Shared Wisdom: How Communication Defines Culture and Builds Community

The book detailed research using sociometric badges to analyze honest signals like tone, movement, and interaction patterns that reveal leadership, dissatisfaction, and trust in groups.

And that's what the Honest Signals book is all about.

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Purpose

Gina Bianchini

Mentioned 8 months ago

244. Community Creates Change: Build Relationships That Actually Matter

The guest, Gina Bianchini, authored this book where she argued that community can serve as a catalyst for transformation. She shared insights from the book regarding the purpose of community and how to design one.

And you've argued in your book Purpose, and I've heard you talk about this before, that community can serve as a catalyst for transformation.

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Pattern Breakers

Mike Maples Jr

Mentioned 8 months ago

244. Community Creates Change: Build Relationships That Actually Matter

The concept of 'future story' stems from Mike Maples' discussion of backcasting, which he wrote about in his incredible book. The speaker admired Maples tremendously as an investor and mentor.

So one of my investors and just mentors who I admire tremendously is again, Mike Maples. And Mike wrote this incredible book called Pattern Breakers.

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The Big Short

Michael Lewis

Mentioned 8 months ago

242. Tech Tools: The Power of Showing, Not Telling

The book covered the buildup and burst of the U.S. housing market in 2008. The story of betting against the market and who ultimately pays for an unchecked financial system was noted as being very relevant today.

The Big Short by bestselling author Michael Lewis tells the story of the buildup and burst of the U.S. housing market back in 2008.

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The Collective Edge

Colin M. Fisher

Mentioned 8 months ago

241. Team Spirit: How to Make Group Work Work

This book explored the dichotomy of group dynamics, noting that groups can lead to the pinnacle of human accomplishment but also tend to restrict individuality and promote conformity.

His latest book is The Collective Edge, Unlocking the Secret Power of Groups.

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Leadership Unblocked

Muriel M. Wilkins

Mentioned 8 months ago

240. Belief It or Not: How to Rewrite the Narratives That Hold You Back

This new book by Muriel Wilkins explained how personal and professional blocks often stem from limiting beliefs about oneself. The author detailed a three-step process of uncover, unpack, and unblock within the book to help readers identify and update these narratives.

In her new book, Leadership Unblocked: Breakthrough the Beliefs that Limit Your Potential, she explains how our personal and professional blocks often stem from our own limiting beliefs about ourselves.

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Think Faster, Talk Smarter

Matt Abrahams

Mentioned 8 months ago

238. AMA: Why Listening Might Be Your Most Powerful Skill

The speaker mentioned having interviewed many listening experts for this book, including Collins Dobbs, who shared the concepts of pace, space, and grace for improved listening.

In my book, Think Faster, Talk Smarter, I had the wonderful pleasure of interviewing many listening experts.

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Sacred Cows Make the Best Burgers

Robert J. Kriegel

Mentioned 9 months ago

237. Mistake It Till You Make It: Learn Faster and Fail Smarter

This was mentioned as a nonfiction book co-written by Astro Teller and his wife, focusing on the truth about divorce and marriage.

He has written two novels and the nonfiction book Sacred Cows, the truth about divorce and marriage that he co-wrote with his wife.

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On Writing

Stephen King

Mentioned 9 months ago

236. Tech Tools: Tech Tools: Zeroing in on Your Email Communication

The speaker admired the author's writing style, noting it was clear, concise, and persuasive, aligning with the communication goals of the speaker's company. The speaker mentioned seeing a video of the author writing every sentence at least a dozen times, which emphasized the dedication to craft.

And I think it was about five, maybe seven years ago, I actually saw a video of him writing. There was a particular YC startup and their whole shtick was, what if you could see other people writing? This was before Google Docs. And it was eye-opening. He wrote every single sentence at least a dozen times. Some he wrote two or three dozen times. And as a designer, as a craftsperson, that really spoke to me.

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Amy C. Edmondson

The Fearless Organization

Creating Psychological Safety in the Workplace for Learning, Innovation, and Growth

The Fearless Organization, creating psychological safety in the workplace for learning, innovation, and growth, was mentioned as a book by Amy Edmondson, a professor at Harvard Business School.

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She is the author of the influential book, The Fearless Organization, creating psychological safety in the workplace for learning, innovation, and growth.

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The Fearless Organization, creating psychological safety in the workplace for learning, innovation, and growth, was mentioned as a book by Amy Edmondson, a professor at Harvard Business School.

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She is the author of the influential book, The Fearless Organization, creating psychological safety in the workplace for learning, innovation, and growth.

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Jeffrey Pfeffer

Dying for a Paycheck

How Modern Management Harms Employee Health and Company Performance―and What We Can Do About It

This book was mentioned alongside "Power: Why Some People Have It and Others Don't" by Professor Jeffrey Pfeffer. Pfeffer was described as the author of many books, including these two.

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And he is the author of many books, including Dying for a Paycheck and Power, Why Some People Have It and Others Don't.

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This book was mentioned alongside "Power: Why Some People Have It and Others Don't" by Professor Jeffrey Pfeffer. Pfeffer was described as the author of many books, including these two.

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And he is the author of many books, including Dying for a Paycheck and Power, Why Some People Have It and Others Don't.

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David Brooks

The Road to Character

It was mentioned as one of David Brooks' books, alongside "The Social Animal" and "How to Know a Person".

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He's the best-selling author of several books, including The Road to Character, The Social Animal, and his latest book is How to Know a Person.

— Episode: 129. Connect Deeply: How to Communicate...

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It was mentioned as one of David Brooks' books, alongside "The Social Animal" and "How to Know a Person".

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He's the best-selling author of several books, including The Road to Character, The Social Animal, and his latest book is How to Know a Person.

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David Brooks

How to Know a Person

The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen

It was mentioned as David Brook's latest book, focusing on vulnerability and building deeper connections. The book explores how vulnerability is key to fostering deeper connections.

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He's the best-selling author of several books, including The Road to Character, The Social Animal, and his latest book is How to Know a Person.

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It was mentioned as David Brook's latest book, focusing on vulnerability and building deeper connections. The book explores how vulnerability is key to fostering deeper connections.

"

He's the best-selling author of several books, including The Road to Character, The Social Animal, and his latest book is How to Know a Person.

In his latest, How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen, he explores how vulnerability -- both being vulnerable ourselves and creating space for others to be as well -- is the key to fostering deeper connections at home, at work, and throughout our lives.

Brooks is a writer for the New York Times, the Atlantic, and the best-selling author of several books. In his latest, How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen, he explores how vulnerability -- both being vulnerable ourselves and creating space for others to be as well -- is the key to fostering deeper connections at home, at work, and throughout our lives.

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Karin M. Reed

Suddenly Virtual

Making Remote Meetings Work

Joe and Karen have written three helpful books about meetings, including "Suddenly Virtual" which helps make remote meetings work.

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Joe and Karen have written three helpful books on meetings.

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Joe and Karen have written three helpful books about meetings, including "Suddenly Virtual" which helps make remote meetings work.

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Joe and Karen have written three helpful books on meetings.

Suddenly Virtual, Making Remote Meetings Work,

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Karin M. Reed

Suddenly Hybrid

Managing the Modern Meeting

The third book Joe and Karen wrote about meetings was "Suddenly Hybrid" which helps manage the modern meeting.

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Suddenly Hybrid, Managing the Modern Meeting,

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The third book Joe and Karen wrote about meetings was "Suddenly Hybrid" which helps manage the modern meeting.

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Suddenly Hybrid, Managing the Modern Meeting,

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Jacob Morgan

Leading with Vulnerability

Unlock Your Greatest Superpower to Transform Yourself, Your Team, and Your Organization

The book discusses the difference between being vulnerable and leading with vulnerability, suggesting that it's not just about admitting mistakes but also sharing lessons learned and plans for improvement. It also emphasizes the importance of leaders demonstrating vulnerability through their own actions.

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Here's what I learned from the mistake that I made [and] steps that I'm going to put into place to make sure this doesn't happen again.

— Episode: 121. Building trust and connection: How...

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The book discusses the difference between being vulnerable and leading with vulnerability, suggesting that it's not just about admitting mistakes but also sharing lessons learned and plans for improvement. It also emphasizes the importance of leaders demonstrating vulnerability through their own actions.

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Here's what I learned from the mistake that I made [and] steps that I'm going to put into place to make sure this doesn't happen again.

Leadership plus vulnerability, not just the vulnerability piece.

It's not just a reframe, it's a demonstration.

If you want other people that you work with to act and behave a certain way, it has to start with you.

So if you lead with vulnerability, then those around you will lead with vulnerability.

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Rob Jenkins

Stand Out 2

Workbook

It was mentioned as one of Dorie Clark's books, along with "The Long Game".

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Among her many books are Stand Out, representing you, and her latest, The Long Game.

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It was mentioned as one of Dorie Clark's books, along with "The Long Game".

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Among her many books are Stand Out, representing you, and her latest, The Long Game.

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Elena Armas

The Long Game

A Novel

The Long Game was mentioned as Dorie Clark's latest book. She also spoke about Phil Van Nostrand's story, which was featured in the book.

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Among her many books are Stand Out, representing you, and her latest, The Long Game.

— Episode: 118. Maximizing your Personal Brand: Com...

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Episode: 118. Maximizing your Personal Brand: Communicating...

The Long Game was mentioned as Dorie Clark's latest book. She also spoke about Phil Van Nostrand's story, which was featured in the book.

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Among her many books are Stand Out, representing you, and her latest, The Long Game.

I think about in my most recent book, The Long Game, I tell the story of a guy named Phil Van Nostrand who was a, I mean, now he's become every year more and more successful.

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Chris Frantz

Remain in Love

Talking Heads, Tom Tom Club, Tina

It was discussed how conversation shapes our worlds and creates a shared reality by blending language, memory, and imagination.

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It's called Talking Heads, the new science of how conversation shapes our worlds.

— Episode: 117. Say It, See It: How to Connect Thro...

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It was discussed how conversation shapes our worlds and creates a shared reality by blending language, memory, and imagination.

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It's called Talking Heads, the new science of how conversation shapes our worlds.

For me, a conversation is where we create a shared reality together by means of communicating with each other.

A Brain for Business – A Brain for Life: How insights from behavioural and brain science can change business and business practice for the better (The Neuroscience of Business) Cover

Shane O'Mara

A Brain for Business – A Brain for Life

How insights from behavioural and brain science can change business and business practice for the better (The Neuroscience of Business)

The book discussed how insights from behavioral and brain science can change business and business practice for the better, with a particular focus on cognitive biases and the importance of premortems.

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One of your earlier books is entitled A Brain for Business, A Brain for Life, how insights from behavioral and brain science can change business and business practice for the better.

— Episode: 117. Say It, See It: How to Connect Thro...

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The book discussed how insights from behavioral and brain science can change business and business practice for the better, with a particular focus on cognitive biases and the importance of premortems.

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One of your earlier books is entitled A Brain for Business, A Brain for Life, how insights from behavioral and brain science can change business and business practice for the better.

So a good way to think about this is to assume that you've gone with a course of action, assume that it has blown up in your face, and that it has been a complete catastrophe, and sit down and do a premortem rather than a postmortem.

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Jennifer Aaker

Humor, Seriously

Why Humor Is a Secret Weapon in Business and Life (And how anyone can harness it. Even you.)

The book is about the importance of humor in business and was discussed in the context of how humor can be a useful tool in communication.

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Their book, Humor Seriously, is all about how to leverage humor in a work environment. So it's appropriate.

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The book is about the importance of humor in business and was discussed in the context of how humor can be a useful tool in communication.

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Their book, Humor Seriously, is all about how to leverage humor in a work environment. So it's appropriate.

Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It: Unlock Your Persuasion Potential in Professional and Personal Life Cover

Chris Voss

Never Split the Difference

Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It

This book was mentioned as Chris Voss's work, co-authored with another individual, detailing negotiation techniques based on his experience.

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Chris's Book: Never Split the Difference Negotiating as if Your Life Depended on It

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This book was mentioned as Chris Voss's work, co-authored with another individual, detailing negotiation techniques based on his experience.

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Chris's Book: Never Split the Difference Negotiating as if Your Life Depended on It

He is the CEO of the Black Swan Group and co-author of Never Split the Difference, Negotiating as if Your Life Depended on It.

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Kelly McGonigal

The Joy of Movement

How exercise helps us find happiness, hope, connection, and courage

This book, McGonigal's latest at the time of the podcast, discusses how exercise helps people find happiness, hope, connection, and courage.

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And your newest book, The Joy of Movement, is a testament to that idea.

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This book, McGonigal's latest at the time of the podcast, discusses how exercise helps people find happiness, hope, connection, and courage.

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And your newest book, The Joy of Movement, is a testament to that idea.

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Jen Psaki

Say More

Lessons from Work, the White House, and the World

Jen Psaki's recently released book was introduced as sharing lessons from her White House experience, with the host quoting its three principles of strategic communication and Psaki referencing its discussions on the 'mother-in-law test' for accessible language and lowering engagement barriers.

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She is the author of the recently released, Say More, Lessons From Work, The White House and The World.

— Episode: 161. Do Your Homework: Know What to Say...

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Episode: 161. Do Your Homework: Know What to Say by Knowing...

Jen Psaki's recently released book was introduced as sharing lessons from her White House experience, with the host quoting its three principles of strategic communication and Psaki referencing its discussions on the 'mother-in-law test' for accessible language and lowering engagement barriers.

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She is the author of the recently released, Say More, Lessons From Work, The White House and The World.

Thank you for having me and you're quoted in my book so it's a thrill to be here.

So in your book you write and I quote the three principles of strategic communication are identify the audience use what you know to figure out how to engage them and lower barriers to that engagement.

I talk about in my book the mother in law test and my mother in law is a retired teacher incredibly well read very smart pay attention to the news.

I talked about this a little bit in the book about people who in the White House briefing room would raise questions from a straw man perspective right everybody's saying this.

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Seth Godin

Purple Cow, New Edition

Transform Your Business by Being Remarkable

This book was mentioned as one of Seth Godin's previous works that shaped how people think about communication, branding, and creative work.

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His books include Purple Cow, Lynchpin, and this is marketing.

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This book was mentioned as one of Seth Godin's previous works that shaped how people think about communication, branding, and creative work.

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His books include Purple Cow, Lynchpin, and this is marketing.

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Carissa Carter

The Secret Language of Maps

How to Tell Visual Stories with Data (Stanford d.school Library)

It was previously mentioned as a book by Carissa Carter, who had been on a past episode discussing how to use data to tell visual stories.

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Some of you might remember that Carissa joined me on episode 61 to discuss her previous book, The Secret Language of Maps, how to tell visual stories with data.

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It was previously mentioned as a book by Carissa Carter, who had been on a past episode discussing how to use data to tell visual stories.

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Some of you might remember that Carissa joined me on episode 61 to discuss her previous book, The Secret Language of Maps, how to tell visual stories with data.

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Samin Nosrat

Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat

Mastering the Elements of Good Cooking

It was mentioned as a cookbook that was used as a metaphor for exploring the core components of communication, described as abstract, and the process of exploring it was ongoing.

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I'm working right now on a little bit of a communication strategy that's based on salt fat acid heat it's a cookbook it's sort of like what are the ingredients that are really needed for communication...

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It was mentioned as a cookbook that was used as a metaphor for exploring the core components of communication, described as abstract, and the process of exploring it was ongoing.

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I'm working right now on a little bit of a communication strategy that's based on salt fat acid heat it's a cookbook it's sort of like what are the ingredients that are really needed for communication and I've just been using it as a lecturer for now just to see how it works something about it's a little abstract I gotta like get down to more of the nitty-gritty.

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Jamil Zaki

Hope for Cynics

The Surprising Science of Human Goodness

The speaker's recent book was discussed, which focuses on challenging cynical assumptions and fostering trust through surprising scientific insights into human goodness.

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It's called Hope for Cynics, the surprising science of human goodness.

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The speaker's recent book was discussed, which focuses on challenging cynical assumptions and fostering trust through surprising scientific insights into human goodness.

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It's called Hope for Cynics, the surprising science of human goodness.

Your new book focuses on cynicism.

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