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Think Fast Talk Smart: Communication Techniques

One of the most essential ingredients to success in business and life is effective communication. Join Matt Abrahams, best-selling author and Strategic Communication lecturer at Stanford Graduate School of Business, as he interviews experts to provide actionable insights that help you communicate...

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Speak Out, Listen Up

Megan Reitz

Mentioned 5 months ago

259. Quick Thinks: Task-Focused to People-Focused—A Smarter Way to Communicate

This book was mentioned as Megan Reitz's published work related to the topic discussed in the podcast episode.

Megan's Book: Speak Out, Listen Up

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The Art of Negotiation

Tim Castle

Mentioned 7 months ago

247. “Matt”er of Fact: Coaching on Feedback and Q&A

The speaker planned to learn valuable negotiation skills from Chris Voss's Masterclass to better handle challenging holiday gatherings.

I'm excited to learn more from one of our former guests, Chris Voss, whose Art of Negotiation Masterclass will certainly come in handy.

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Shared Wisdom

Alex Pentland

Mentioned 7 months ago

246. Shared Wisdom: How Communication Defines Culture and Builds Community

Pentland's newest book explored how communication and story-sharing define culture, build community wisdom, and enable collective action in the age of AI. Host Matt Abrahams quoted it on the importance of stories for communities and wished it success.

He has just released his newest book, Shared Wisdom, Cultural Evolution in the Age of AI.

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Honest Signals

Alex Sandy Pentland

Mentioned 7 months ago

246. Shared Wisdom: How Communication Defines Culture and Builds Community

The book detailed research using sociometric badges to analyze honest signals like tone, movement, and interaction patterns that reveal leadership, dissatisfaction, and trust in groups.

And that's what the Honest Signals book is all about.

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Purpose

Gina Bianchini

Mentioned 8 months ago

244. Community Creates Change: Build Relationships That Actually Matter

The guest, Gina Bianchini, authored this book where she argued that community can serve as a catalyst for transformation. She shared insights from the book regarding the purpose of community and how to design one.

And you've argued in your book Purpose, and I've heard you talk about this before, that community can serve as a catalyst for transformation.

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Pattern Breakers

Mike Maples Jr

Mentioned 8 months ago

244. Community Creates Change: Build Relationships That Actually Matter

The concept of 'future story' stems from Mike Maples' discussion of backcasting, which he wrote about in his incredible book. The speaker admired Maples tremendously as an investor and mentor.

So one of my investors and just mentors who I admire tremendously is again, Mike Maples. And Mike wrote this incredible book called Pattern Breakers.

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The Big Short

Michael Lewis

Mentioned 8 months ago

242. Tech Tools: The Power of Showing, Not Telling

The book covered the buildup and burst of the U.S. housing market in 2008. The story of betting against the market and who ultimately pays for an unchecked financial system was noted as being very relevant today.

The Big Short by bestselling author Michael Lewis tells the story of the buildup and burst of the U.S. housing market back in 2008.

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The Collective Edge

Colin M. Fisher

Mentioned 8 months ago

241. Team Spirit: How to Make Group Work Work

This book explored the dichotomy of group dynamics, noting that groups can lead to the pinnacle of human accomplishment but also tend to restrict individuality and promote conformity.

His latest book is The Collective Edge, Unlocking the Secret Power of Groups.

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Leadership Unblocked

Muriel M. Wilkins

Mentioned 8 months ago

240. Belief It or Not: How to Rewrite the Narratives That Hold You Back

This new book by Muriel Wilkins explained how personal and professional blocks often stem from limiting beliefs about oneself. The author detailed a three-step process of uncover, unpack, and unblock within the book to help readers identify and update these narratives.

In her new book, Leadership Unblocked: Breakthrough the Beliefs that Limit Your Potential, she explains how our personal and professional blocks often stem from our own limiting beliefs about ourselves.

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Think Faster, Talk Smarter

Matt Abrahams

Mentioned 8 months ago

238. AMA: Why Listening Might Be Your Most Powerful Skill

The speaker mentioned having interviewed many listening experts for this book, including Collins Dobbs, who shared the concepts of pace, space, and grace for improved listening.

In my book, Think Faster, Talk Smarter, I had the wonderful pleasure of interviewing many listening experts.

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Sacred Cows Make the Best Burgers

Robert J. Kriegel

Mentioned 9 months ago

237. Mistake It Till You Make It: Learn Faster and Fail Smarter

This was mentioned as a nonfiction book co-written by Astro Teller and his wife, focusing on the truth about divorce and marriage.

He has written two novels and the nonfiction book Sacred Cows, the truth about divorce and marriage that he co-wrote with his wife.

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On Writing

Stephen King

Mentioned 9 months ago

236. Tech Tools: Tech Tools: Zeroing in on Your Email Communication

The speaker admired the author's writing style, noting it was clear, concise, and persuasive, aligning with the communication goals of the speaker's company. The speaker mentioned seeing a video of the author writing every sentence at least a dozen times, which emphasized the dedication to craft.

And I think it was about five, maybe seven years ago, I actually saw a video of him writing. There was a particular YC startup and their whole shtick was, what if you could see other people writing? This was before Google Docs. And it was eye-opening. He wrote every single sentence at least a dozen times. Some he wrote two or three dozen times. And as a designer, as a craftsperson, that really spoke to me.

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Robert Cialdini Ph.D.

Pre-Suasion

A Revolutionary Way to Influence and Persuade

This book, co-authored by Robert Cialdini, identified six (and later seven) principles of persuasion, including scarcity, which was discussed in detail.

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He's the author of two amazingly popular and impactful books, Influence and Persuasion.

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This book, co-authored by Robert Cialdini, identified six (and later seven) principles of persuasion, including scarcity, which was discussed in detail.

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He's the author of two amazingly popular and impactful books, Influence and Persuasion.

And in your book Influence, you identify scarcity as a technique among others.

Happier Hour: How to Beat Distraction, Expand Your Time, and Focus on What Matters Most Cover

Cassie Holmes

Happier Hour

How to Beat Distraction, Expand Your Time, and Focus on What Matters Most

The book was discussed in relation to clarifying one's purpose to drive decisions regarding how time should be spent. The author mentioned an exercise within the book called the 'five whys' to help uncover what truly drives a person.

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In your book, you emphasize the importance of purpose and its relationship to happiness.

— Episode: 182. Stop Chasing Time and Start Owning...

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The book was discussed in relation to clarifying one's purpose to drive decisions regarding how time should be spent. The author mentioned an exercise within the book called the 'five whys' to help uncover what truly drives a person.

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In your book, you emphasize the importance of purpose and its relationship to happiness.

there is an exercise that I have my students do, and I talk about in the book, which is the five whys.

I learned it from your book. I did it. And email is the bane of my existence, too.

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Loran Nordgren

The Human Element

Overcoming the Resistance That Awaits New Ideas

This book was mentioned as something students often underprepare for when considering resistance, hesitation, or concern during communication.

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By defense, I mean being ready for friction, being ready for objections. I'm sure you know the book, The Human Element. I think students underprepare for that.

— Episode: 176. From Stereotypes to Synergy: Commun...

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This book was mentioned as something students often underprepare for when considering resistance, hesitation, or concern during communication.

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By defense, I mean being ready for friction, being ready for objections. I'm sure you know the book, The Human Element. I think students underprepare for that.

If I Understood You, Would I Have This Look on My Face?: My Adventures in the Art and Science of Relating and Communicating Cover

Alan Alda

If I Understood You, Would I Have This Look on My Face?

My Adventures in the Art and Science of Relating and Communicating

This was Alan Alda's latest book on communication, which explores how acceptance enables people to be their authentic selves for better communication.

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He is also the author of several books, including his latest on communication, If I Understood You, Would I Have This Look on My Face?

— Episode: 163. Is Your Audience Ignoring You? How...

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Episode: 163. Is Your Audience Ignoring You? How Authentici...

This was Alan Alda's latest book on communication, which explores how acceptance enables people to be their authentic selves for better communication.

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He is also the author of several books, including his latest on communication, If I Understood You, Would I Have This Look on My Face?

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John L. Hennessy

Leading Matters

Lessons from My Journey

The book, 'Leading Matters', was used as a foundational text for the leadership model that became the core of the Knight-Hennessy Scholars program. It was analyzed and distilled into a framework encompassing traits, behaviors, and goals for leadership.

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This model actually grew out of my reading John's book, Leading Matters.

— Episode: 159. Earn Your Audience: You Can’t Lead...

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Episode: 159. Earn Your Audience: You Can’t Lead If No One’...

The book, 'Leading Matters', was used as a foundational text for the leadership model that became the core of the Knight-Hennessy Scholars program. It was analyzed and distilled into a framework encompassing traits, behaviors, and goals for leadership.

"

This model actually grew out of my reading John's book, Leading Matters.

And I read it a couple of times and I kept pulling up all of these concepts that were very evident in the book and decided to distill it down into a leadership framework that we could use to inform our teaching.

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Tina Seelig

What I Wish I Knew When I Was 20

A Crash Course on Making Your Place in the World

The book 'What I Wish I Knew When...' was mentioned as something Tina Seelig wrote that was enjoyed by the host. It was mentioned as a segue to her reflections on leadership, particularly the importance of focusing on the success of others.

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You have written a book that I really enjoy. It's about what I wish I knew when...

— Episode: 159. Earn Your Audience: You Can’t Lead...

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Episode: 159. Earn Your Audience: You Can’t Lead If No One’...

The book 'What I Wish I Knew When...' was mentioned as something Tina Seelig wrote that was enjoyed by the host. It was mentioned as a segue to her reflections on leadership, particularly the importance of focusing on the success of others.

"

You have written a book that I really enjoy. It's about what I wish I knew when...

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Seth Godin

This Is Marketing

You Can't Be Seen Until You Learn to See

This book was mentioned as one of Seth Godin's published works that influenced the discussion on communication and branding.

"

His books include Purple Cow, Lynchpin, and This Is Marketing.

— Episode: 164. Building Your Personal Brand Makes...

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Episode: 164. Building Your Personal Brand Makes a Promise:...

This book was mentioned as one of Seth Godin's published works that influenced the discussion on communication and branding.

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His books include Purple Cow, Lynchpin, and This Is Marketing.

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Steven Pinker

The Sense of Style

The Thinking Person's Guide to Writing in the 21st Century

The speaker referenced this book when discussing the components of good writing, which include clarity, conciseness, and grace.

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In your book, The Sense of Style, you argue that good writing and communication is about clarity, conciseness, and grace.

— Episode: 231. Secret Signals: Why We Rarely Say E...

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The speaker referenced this book when discussing the components of good writing, which include clarity, conciseness, and grace.

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In your book, The Sense of Style, you argue that good writing and communication is about clarity, conciseness, and grace.

And one other thing is the vividness of the mental picture that the reader is supposed to get. And one of the things that makes bad writing bad is the reader doesn't have any image, nothing to grasp. Instead of someone describing a study with kids and they talk about the experimental stimuli instead of the big bird and Oscar the Grouch puppets.

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General Stanley McChrystal

Team of Teams

New Rules of Engagement for a Complex World

The host expressed great admiration for this book, in which the author discussed concepts like shared consciousness and shared information within teams.

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General McChrystal's Books: On Character / Team of Teams

— Episode: 234. Need to Know: Lead With Transparenc...

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Episode: 234. Need to Know: Lead With Transparency, Charact...

The host expressed great admiration for this book, in which the author discussed concepts like shared consciousness and shared information within teams.

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General McChrystal's Books: On Character / Team of Teams

General McChrystal is a retired four-star general, former commander of US and international forces in Afghanistan. And a renowned expert on leadership. He is best known for revolutionizing counterterrorism operations and building cohesive teams in complex environments. He is a highly successful author with books like Team of Teams and his latest On Character, Choices That Define a Life.

General McChrystal, I'm a huge admirer of your book, Team of Teams. And in it, you talk about shared consciousness and shared information.

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Dan Lyons

STFU

The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World

This was Dan Lyons' third book, which detailed his research and personal motivation for writing about the importance of talking less and listening more in communication.

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He recently released his third book, STFU, The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World.

— Episode: 100. Shut Up! How to Communicate Better...

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Episode: 100. Shut Up! How to Communicate Better by Talking...

This was Dan Lyons' third book, which detailed his research and personal motivation for writing about the importance of talking less and listening more in communication.

"

He recently released his third book, STFU, The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World.

I was motivated to write the book because I talk too much.

I wish you all the best with your new book, STFU, The Power of Keeping Your Mouth Shut in an Endlessly Noisy World.

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Alex Pentland

Shared Wisdom

Cultural Evolution in the Age of AI

Pentland's newest book explored how communication and story-sharing define culture, build community wisdom, and enable collective action in the age of AI. Host Matt Abrahams quoted it on the importance of stories for communities and wished it success.

"

He has just released his newest book, Shared Wisdom, Cultural Evolution in the Age of AI.

— Episode: 246. Shared Wisdom: How Communication De...

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Episode: 246. Shared Wisdom: How Communication Defines Cult...

Pentland's newest book explored how communication and story-sharing define culture, build community wisdom, and enable collective action in the age of AI. Host Matt Abrahams quoted it on the importance of stories for communities and wished it success.

"

He has just released his newest book, Shared Wisdom, Cultural Evolution in the Age of AI.

In your new book, Shared Wisdom, you state, and I'm quoting, it is important to remember that story sharing is at least as much for communities as it is for individuals.

Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us today, and best of luck on the book Shared Wisdom.

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Alex Sandy Pentland

Honest Signals

How They Shape Our World

The book detailed research using sociometric badges to analyze honest signals like tone, movement, and interaction patterns that reveal leadership, dissatisfaction, and trust in groups.

"

And that's what the Honest Signals book is all about.

— Episode: 246. Shared Wisdom: How Communication De...

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Episode: 246. Shared Wisdom: How Communication Defines Cult...

The book detailed research using sociometric badges to analyze honest signals like tone, movement, and interaction patterns that reveal leadership, dissatisfaction, and trust in groups.

"

And that's what the Honest Signals book is all about.

When Everyone Knows That Everyone Knows . . .: Common Knowledge and the Mysteries of Money, Power, and Everyday Life Cover

Steven Pinker

When Everyone Knows That Everyone Knows . . .

Common Knowledge and the Mysteries of Money, Power, and Everyday Life

This was introduced as Steven Pinker's latest book, which explores how shared understanding, or common knowledge, and the way we signal it influences relationships, authority, and negotiations.

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His latest, When Everyone Knows That Everyone Knows: Common Knowledge and the Mysteries of Money, Power, and Everyday Life, explores how our shared understanding of awareness -- what Steven refers to...

— Episode: 231. Secret Signals: Why We Rarely Say E...

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This was introduced as Steven Pinker's latest book, which explores how shared understanding, or common knowledge, and the way we signal it influences relationships, authority, and negotiations.

"

His latest, When Everyone Knows That Everyone Knows: Common Knowledge and the Mysteries of Money, Power, and Everyday Life, explores how our shared understanding of awareness -- what Steven refers to as common knowledge -- and the way we signal it, governs everything from friendships to authority to negotiations.

Now my book is about common knowledge.

The last chapter of When Everyone Knows That Everyone Knows is about, it's called Radical Honesty, Rational Hypocrisy.

I wish you well with your newest book, When Everyone Knows That Everyone Knows, Common Knowledge and the Mysteries of Money, Power in Everyday Life.

Purpose: Design a Community and Change Your Life---A Step-by-Step Guide to Finding Your Purpose and Making It Matter Cover

Gina Bianchini

Purpose

Design a Community and Change Your Life---A Step-by-Step Guide to Finding Your Purpose and Making It Matter

The guest, Gina Bianchini, authored this book where she argued that community can serve as a catalyst for transformation. She shared insights from the book regarding the purpose of community and how to design one.

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And you've argued in your book Purpose, and I've heard you talk about this before, that community can serve as a catalyst for transformation.

— Episode: 244. Community Creates Change: Build Rel...

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Episode: 244. Community Creates Change: Build Relationships...

The guest, Gina Bianchini, authored this book where she argued that community can serve as a catalyst for transformation. She shared insights from the book regarding the purpose of community and how to design one.

"

And you've argued in your book Purpose, and I've heard you talk about this before, that community can serve as a catalyst for transformation.

Community is when people come together and every single member has something to give and something to receive

Pattern Breakers: Why Some Start-Ups Change the Future Cover

Mike Maples Jr

Pattern Breakers

Why Some Start-Ups Change the Future

The concept of 'future story' stems from Mike Maples' discussion of backcasting, which he wrote about in his incredible book. The speaker admired Maples tremendously as an investor and mentor.

"

So one of my investors and just mentors who I admire tremendously is again, Mike Maples. And Mike wrote this incredible book called Pattern Breakers.

— Episode: 244. Community Creates Change: Build Rel...

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Episode: 244. Community Creates Change: Build Relationships...

The concept of 'future story' stems from Mike Maples' discussion of backcasting, which he wrote about in his incredible book. The speaker admired Maples tremendously as an investor and mentor.

"

So one of my investors and just mentors who I admire tremendously is again, Mike Maples. And Mike wrote this incredible book called Pattern Breakers.

The Collective Edge: Unlocking the Secret Power of Groups Cover

Colin M. Fisher

The Collective Edge

Unlocking the Secret Power of Groups

This book explored the dichotomy of group dynamics, noting that groups can lead to the pinnacle of human accomplishment but also tend to restrict individuality and promote conformity.

"

His latest book is The Collective Edge, Unlocking the Secret Power of Groups.

— Episode: 241. Team Spirit: How to Make Group Work...

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Episode: 241. Team Spirit: How to Make Group Work Work

This book explored the dichotomy of group dynamics, noting that groups can lead to the pinnacle of human accomplishment but also tend to restrict individuality and promote conformity.

"

His latest book is The Collective Edge, Unlocking the Secret Power of Groups.

Groups can be, in my mind, the pinnacle of human accomplishment.

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Muriel M. Wilkins

Leadership Unblocked

Break Through the Beliefs That Limit Your Potential

This new book by Muriel Wilkins explained how personal and professional blocks often stem from limiting beliefs about oneself. The author detailed a three-step process of uncover, unpack, and unblock within the book to help readers identify and update these narratives.

"

In her new book, Leadership Unblocked: Breakthrough the Beliefs that Limit Your Potential, she explains how our personal and professional blocks often stem from our own limiting belie...

— Episode: 240. Belief It or Not: How to Rewrite th...

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This new book by Muriel Wilkins explained how personal and professional blocks often stem from limiting beliefs about oneself. The author detailed a three-step process of uncover, unpack, and unblock within the book to help readers identify and update these narratives.

"

In her new book, Leadership Unblocked: Breakthrough the Beliefs that Limit Your Potential, she explains how our personal and professional blocks often stem from our own limiting beliefs about ourselves.

She hosts the HBR podcast, Coaching Real Leaders. And she has a new book out, Leadership Unblocked, Breakthrough the Beliefs That Limit Your Potential.

As I wrote this book and I worked through each of the beliefs, I was pretty sure I only had like maybe two of them. And every time I would finish a chapter, I'd be like, oh my god damn it, I have this one too.

Sacred Cows Make the Best Burgers: Paradigm-Busting Strategies for Developing Change-Ready People and Organizations Cover

Robert J. Kriegel

Sacred Cows Make the Best Burgers

Paradigm-Busting Strategies for Developing Change-Ready People and Organizations

This was mentioned as a nonfiction book co-written by Astro Teller and his wife, focusing on the truth about divorce and marriage.

"

He has written two novels and the nonfiction book Sacred Cows, the truth about divorce and marriage that he co-wrote with his wife.

— Episode: 237. Mistake It Till You Make It: Learn...

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Episode: 237. Mistake It Till You Make It: Learn Faster and...

This was mentioned as a nonfiction book co-written by Astro Teller and his wife, focusing on the truth about divorce and marriage.

"

He has written two novels and the nonfiction book Sacred Cows, the truth about divorce and marriage that he co-wrote with his wife.

On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft: 25th Anniversary Classic Edition Cover

Stephen King

On Writing

A Memoir of the Craft

The speaker admired the author's writing style, noting it was clear, concise, and persuasive, aligning with the communication goals of the speaker's company. The speaker mentioned seeing a video of the author writing every sentence at least a dozen times, which emphasized the dedication to craft.

"

And I think it was about five, maybe seven years ago, I actually saw a video of him writing. There was a particular YC startup and their whole shtick was, what if you could see other people writing? T...

— Episode: 236. Tech Tools: Tech Tools: Zeroing in...

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The speaker admired the author's writing style, noting it was clear, concise, and persuasive, aligning with the communication goals of the speaker's company. The speaker mentioned seeing a video of the author writing every sentence at least a dozen times, which emphasized the dedication to craft.

"

And I think it was about five, maybe seven years ago, I actually saw a video of him writing. There was a particular YC startup and their whole shtick was, what if you could see other people writing? This was before Google Docs. And it was eye-opening. He wrote every single sentence at least a dozen times. Some he wrote two or three dozen times. And as a designer, as a craftsperson, that really spoke to me.

Now, fortunately, he's codified all of his rules in a very short essay that he published way back in 2005. If folks are interested to check that out, it is called Writing, Briefly. Writing Briefly.

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