Adam Carolla Show

I saw this guy reading Rebel Without a Crew

I realized that historically speaking, when you heard criticism it was a potential enemy so it made sense to get up your defenses or kill the enemy before the enemy killed you.

I'm not telling you how I do it, I'm just telling you how it's done.

I feel like most guys just shut up most of the time because they're just like I don't you know I want to say this thing and I'm not I'd like something to get done I'd like to say it the last time I said it turned into something right and all just not say it even though I'm not saying it is a criticism it's going to be interpreted as something and instead I'll just eat it and not say anything which which most guys end up doing a lot I think probably women and do it as well.

It's not biologically natural for people to respond to is really criticism without becoming defensive and so I asked myself is there a way around that.

Rolemate to Soulmate the seven secrets to lifelong love Dr. Warren Farrell is the guest where do we get the book available on Amazon and of course the audio one is coming soon but you can pre-order it what are audible one can be pre-ordered and that'll be in a week or two and the Amazon is right now having a 30% discount on the rolemate to soulmate.

The lovely Sarah Silverman, The Bedwetter, the name of her book, stories of courage and redemption and P. It is out on Amazon as we speak. It's at bookstores everywhere. It's at audible.com, one of our sponsors.

I wet the bed until I was about 15.

I tell a story about it in the book where I'm like, at first I'm at a party. I can see you telling this story so well and I'll just try to tell it quickly.

I was at a birthday party, so excited. I was like six, playing on the jungle gym, all this shit. Then the girl, Heather, was like, where's your sleeping bag? My world stopped.

I'm afraid to listen to it. First of all, we both know the sound of my voice is grating. And secondly, um, yeah, you have to speak so clearly that you can't just talk the way you talk.

Christopher Kirchhoff and Raj M Shah have joined us they have a book Unit X how the pentagon and silicon valley are transforming the future of war

we've all watchedwith a lot of attentiondevelopments in ukraine which in many respects is becoming a sort of battlefield of the future

It's amazing what science fiction is, of course, a great form for projecting into the future and imagining what it might be.

But of course, when you go inside them, you learn very quickly that there's often a lot of lower and older tech in play.

If you'd like to know where we're heading, I would suggest you pick up that book.

I know she did write a book called 'It's My Turn', which I think is hysterical.

actually started reading books like thinking grow rich rich dad poor dad how to win friends and influence people and it really just taught me how to change my level of thinking

ended up writing my first book Credit Is King in 2016 and it's actually one of the top selling books on amazon

I've on the terrible Ivan Grozny. That's what they call him. I've on the terrible do Chayefsky. I've read Kafka. I've read I've a lot of Russian shit.

I'm fascinated by the movie *Sideways*. It's the only movie I've seen 30 times and now I'm in the middle of reading the book and I just, I'm, I love it.

Oh the doors

No, yeah the doors. I love the doors.

That's right. Got it melted into the role. That's such a crazy. I mean that movie with Oliver Stone and Val Kilmer should have won an Academy Award for doors.

It was long. It was kind of ponderous two hours 15 minutes, which is a standard today considered long back in the day and Huh 1991 1991 well the way you ask it. I'll say 57% 56% I was way off.

The doors After I saw the doors, I was almost haunted a little bit Like I I felt different when I left the theater like there's only a half a dozen The theater like there's only a handful of movies Where you leave and you go I feel different than I did when I yeah, I came in

Ulysses was one of the most born books ever James Joyce's won back in the days

Norman is one of the most successful writer, producer, executive. Well, I don't know, maybe not an executive. Least writer, producers in the world. And has been responsible for some of my favorite shows of all time, All in the Family, Good Times, Jefferson's, Maud. Mary Hartman. Mary Hartman.

And by the way, he has a book out called Even This I Get to Experience which is available on Amazon as we speak.

Here's the author of Tarzan of the Apes, Edgar Rice Burroughs.

Yeah, man, which I don't know people saw that one coming. It's called the Flipping Boxcars.

It's a thriller and a period piece to work that come out of have you been doing it was inside it was inside.

Well, you know it was a idea. I wanted to write about my grandfather. I used to hear these stories about him and never Never got a chance to meet him He had passed before I was born.

You must have had Cliff Nesterhoff on he wrote the book The Comedians

I got a pre copy of his new book called outrageous And it's basically the history of cancel culture where everyone's like freedom of speech is like fine And you know, they're killing it. You can't do comedy nothing and he goes through the history back in to black face and Minstrel shows through vaudeville and all the times that people said this is the end of freedom of speech

It's called outrageous. I think it comes out in November

My book comes out November 9th, Dear Mrs. Fitzsimmons. It is the fruit of two years of labor. I'm extremely proud of it. I've shown it to 10 people. Every single one of them said this is going to be huge.

He had a book called Gasping For Airtime.

You might be thinking like how good is a Jay Moore book gonna be? I feel like I already know what's gonna be in an SNL book, But it's incredibly well written and I couldn't put it down.

I learned that Rob Schneider used to examine his sushi with a jeweler's loop.