The 5 Love Languages Hardcover Special Edition The Secret to Love That Lasts

I was a huge fan of you know Gary Chapman's five love languages and I think that's beautiful

If you haven't read the book, I highly recommend it.

a big thank you to Gary Chapman for writing this book, for creating this concept and for introducing it to me through his work.

I want to thank Gary Chapman again for writing the book, The Five Love Languages.

We all know the book Love Languages that Gary Chapman made. The five love languages, if you don't know it, it's an awesome theory.

The idea of we all like to receive love in different ways, but we often give love in the way we want to receive it, not in the way someone else wants to receive it.

So the five love languages are words of affirmation, physical touch, receiving gifts, quality time, and acts of service.

Gary Chapman talks about the five love languages, quality time, acts of service, gifts, words of affirmation, and touch.

Gary Chapman wrote this great book called The Five Love Languages. And if you haven't read it, I highly recommend that you do read it.

It's a great couples book because it's so simple to apply.

thank you very much to Gary Chapman, of course, for writing the book and giving us this wonderful framework.

Now, the five love languages as outlined by Gary Chapman are words of affirmation being the first.

So these are the five love languages as outlined in the book.

I think it's talked about, but not even talked about enough, is Gary Chapman's five love languages. It seems so simple, but it literally changed my marriage. I bought Dr. Gary Chapman's five love languages, right?

I don't know that's a book and I don't know the language of the book, but my love language is about doing things for the people that I really care about as much as I can.

we were reading like the love languages books and all of those things.

I'm a big fan of the five love languages, but listening to the podcast and something that sister said really made me re-evaluate it.

And it's talking about the ticker, you know, as a man, I grew up reading and understanding that the greatest act of service I could do for my spouse was to vacuum the rug and clean the bathroom, which I now know is just complete horseshit.

I'm reading a book right now. And a line in the book says, my wife's love language is acts of service. One of the things I do for her regularly as an act of love is vacuuming the floor.

Like this is what I was taught. And this is so offensive now because of the three of you. And thank you for that.

I now know that the greatest act of service is not doing things on the ticker list. It's actually seeing the ticker list.

What was it called? The Five Love Languages or something?

It was 1992 book and his idea is that everyone has preferences about how they would like to give and receive love.

So there's a preferred language that everyone speaks and it's either gifts, quality time, words of affirmation, physical touch or acts of service.

And the point is that that's how they express their love and that good partners, successful partners will take the time to figure out how to express their love in a way that translates to their partner's language.

It's so interesting when one of these books by a conservative fundamentalist type Christian pastor, which is what this man is, kind of leaks out into the general population.

I'm reading a book right now and a line in the book says, my wife's love language is acts of service. One of the things I do for her regularly as an act of love is vacuuming the floor.

There was a book released. Yes. Honestly I think it was released like in the 90s. Okay. But then I think it like caught on and became really popular like a few years back. Right. And it was it's called The Five Love Languages and pretty much what it is is it says that everyone expresses and receives love in one of five ways.

I know this book has helped bajillions of people and I don't necessarily have a problem with the ethos of it, the five love languages book, but the problem is that book has become etched in concrete. You will do this for me because this is the way and I don't like that language. I don't think it's accurate.

There's a book called the five loving live languages I never realized how powerful Understanding love is my parents loved me, but they didn't love me the way I wish they did me hugging right physical touch physical touch affirmations anything that Asians don't do that

I will come back to this but for anybody's read the 5 Love Languages, this is not a book on science. I think there's a useful paradigm here for looking at relationships and one of the love languages in that book is gift giving or gifts and if you're saying your friend takes pride in her gifts, that's great. That means she gets value from giving the gift.

It was the book, "The Five Love Languages"

Do you ever think about how different people have different love languages? They have a book about it, The Five Love Languages.