The Ramsey Show

You've seen boys in the boat Denise the movie I have not you should read the book but yes you should see the movie too I just thought of it because you love rowing it's fantastic

Dave ramsey's investing essentials as a brand new event it's a deep dive into how dav invests himself and thus how he teaches investing and this is the first time ever it's why it's breaking news james first time ever and uh so this is going to be really really fun he's even gonna include how he buys real estate and I think at this point we could say daves a real estate barren can't wait john he's a mogul oh that's even bigger than a barren I think that's I think that's probably right sounds bigger uh we don't know we'll look it up james will google it but we we know that the audience is always asking us all the time we want more investing advice investing investing investing so we said all right leave us alone we're gonna do it and so here it is here are the details uh this is an online event two nights so it's a virtual event you can watch it in your pajamas at home or however you want to watch it may 21 22 may 21 and may 22 are very own good buddy and colleague George camel will be joining this event as well they're gonna start with the basics and go deep all the way up into mutual funds real estate and more so ticket started $199 $199 for the new dav ramsys investing essentials event ramsysolutions.com slash events that's where you go to get your tickets ramsysolutions.com slash events so that's gonna be fun don't miss that

When I wrote the book Money's Not a Math Problem I came up with an acronym for that for keeping your money safe as a FE and I kind of say the S is you need to seek counsel if you are experiencing the A which is addiction of any kind so if it's gambling, it's pornography, something that's keeping them spending spending spending if there's any kind of abuse and as we saw in the last caller a lot of people hear the word abuse and they think okay this guy's slapping me around or you know maybe they're talking down to me or you know calling me names but a lot of times it's that financial abuse like we saw there they're not letting you in they're not giving you the passwords they're giving you an allowance and you can only go to the grocery store and buy this yes and that is a form of abuse and when that happens you've got to seek counsel and then the E is for evaluate your options and your options are like what Rachel said you can form another account and you can separate yourself for the time being and if that person is unwilling to seek counsel with you you've got to evaluate and say what do I need to do next are there children in this situation do I need to make some hard lines in the sand and I'm a I just don't stand for abuse of any kind so I have a really hard time telling anybody to wait that out I'm like I separate myself from that you can always yeah find inroads to get back but if a person is unwilling to seek counsel on your marriage and your money that's a hard line in the sand and it's hot it's a hard thing to swallow yeah and to say yes and to say that right now but but that's the truth of it you guys so as as married couples out there again we are so pro working together as a team but when one person in the situation is not working as a team and in that it's abuse addiction there are things there that puts you in danger that is when you have to protect yourself and and I'll say this too I we talked to you know people on all different you know income levels all different parts of the country all different viewpoints on marriage and roles and a spirituality I mean like you can get into all these nitty-gritty stuff but ladies out there if you are a stay-at-home mom you have just as much say at what is going on with the money in your home don't just yield that he's gonna just take care of everything and and so much more of this is less about you know man or woman but personality because also again not to drag on this conversation but I think it's important one of you is going to be more excited to do the budget one of you is going to be the one that's more of the nerd we call it that they they want to be oh my gosh we can't wait for this and the other free spirit sometimes the free spirits we talk to the nerds like well my wife never wants to do anything and I'm like well listen is she participating in it right is she you know part of the conversation like that's the goal here one of you may not love it as much as the other but that's what we're talking about but it's the idea that regardless of who you are in the marriage you have equal say and equal access and equal access to your money you guys it's really really crucial because that promotes health and that promotes openness and promotes communication which is going to help in other parts of your life in your marriage not just money so we want to create these good habits you guys and and money's an avenue in that

When I wrote the book Money's Not a Math Problem I came up with an acronym for that for keeping your money safe as a FE and

And if you want to know more about when to invest in Real Estate that's baby step 7 do it in cash and Dave's new book Real Estate the Ramsey way covers that as well as how to make home ownership a blessing not a burden.

hold everything in your hands lightly otherwise it hurts when God prize your fingers open

Will Guidara on Unreasonable Hospitality.

George Camel, Ramsey Personality, number one best-selling author of the book Breaking Free from Broke, and host of The George Camel Show on the Ramsey Network. He's my co-host today. . . And today I'm interviewing not a doctor either, but my friend, Will Guderra, New York Times bestselling author of the book Unreasonable Hospitality.

The book is Unreasonable Hospitality.

The book is about leadership and service through the lens of hospitality. And one of the feelings I try to like really convey is this idea that hospitality is a selfish pleasure.

Number one is steal like an artist from Austin Cleon.

Like what Ken was saying, go look at what other people are doing and make it your own.

Holly, this is for you. I want you to go buy the book, Love Talk by Les and Leslie Parrott.

In that book, it has a brief assessment with it that will teach you your Love Talk styles.

In other words, your husband has a talk style, you have a talk style.

And I think that book, you both take it and it's so helpful for you both to go, oh, this is my talk style. This is her talk style.

And you guys, it'll help you in this conversation, learn how to talk to each other just based on the way you need to be communicating with.

The other book is Marketing Made Simple from Donald Miller.

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