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The Unbearable Lightness of Being Twentieth Anniversary Edition

Milan Kundera

A special 20th anniversary hardcover edition of this classic work of world literature A young woman in love with a man torn between his love for her and his incorrigible womanizing; one of his mistresses and her humbly faithful lover—these are the two couples whose story is told in this masterful n...

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The Ezra Klein Show

The guest recalled a scene where a character in Super Sad True Love Story reads from this novel, using it to illustrate the book's literary references.

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There's a section in the book where Lenny is reading from The Unbearable Lightness of Being to Eunice.

— Episode: I Keep Telling People We’re Living in Th...

Episode: I Keep Telling People We’re Living in This Dystopi...

The guest recalled a scene where a character in Super Sad True Love Story reads from this novel, using it to illustrate the book's literary references.

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There's a section in the book where Lenny is reading from The Unbearable Lightness of Being to Eunice.

The Rewatchables

The hosts recalled reading the book as a cultural reference while discussing the film's literary influences, and later mentioned it when recalling early Daniel Day‑Lewis projects, though they were uncertain about the details. They treated it as a passing literary touchstone rather than a strong endorsement.

Episode: ‘Kicking and Screaming (1995)’ With Bill Simmons,...

The hosts recalled reading the novel as a cultural reference while discussing the film's literary influences.

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read The Unbearable Lightness of Being

Episode: ‘The Last of the Mohicans’ With Bill Simmons and C...

The speakers mentioned the novel while recalling early DanielDayLewis films, indicating it as one of his projects but expressing uncertainty about the details.

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And then with Daniel DayLewis in 88 and 89, he makes Unbearable Lightness of Being, Ever Smile New Jersey, which I don't even remember that movie.

The MeatEater Podcast

The podcast mentioned the book in relation to how different people interpret events, such as a parade, based on their personal experiences and backgrounds. It was used to illustrate how the same experience can have vastly different meanings depending on the individual's history and perspective.

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Have you ever read, did you ever read The Unbearable Lightness of Being by Kundera, Milan Kundera?

— Episode: Ep. 230: A Difficult Conversation

Episode: Ep. 230: A Difficult Conversation

The podcast mentioned the book in relation to how different people interpret events, such as a parade, based on their personal experiences and backgrounds. It was used to illustrate how the same experience can have vastly different meanings depending on the individual's history and perspective.

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Have you ever read, did you ever read The Unbearable Lightness of Being by Kundera, Milan Kundera?

It has a lot to do with, it's kind of this condemnation of communism. But in The Unbearable Lightness of Being there's a guy and his girlfriend and the writer gets into when a parade goes by.

Like she grew up in communist Czechoslovakia, I think. I think she grew up in communist Czechoslovakia. When she sees a parade, it means something very different. Very different. Very different than when the other person sees a parade.

Episode: Ep. 175: If Cabbages Had Legs I’d Hunt Them Too

The book was referenced in a discussion about how different people view the same event, in this case, a parade, and how that relates to the different ways hunters and non-hunters view hunting.

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There's a really good book. Have you guys read Milan Kundera's book, The Unbearable Lightness of Being? It's a good book.

Las Culturistas with Matt Rogers and Bowen Yang

It was discussed as a formative book in Ray's life, which helped her to understand and accept her emotional nature, which was not encouraged by her parents.

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When I was in 12th grade when I was like 17 or maybe 11th grade so it would have been 16 but we read a book called The Unbearable Lightness of Being.

— Episode: "Herpes Simplex I" (w/ Rae Sanni)

Episode: "Herpes Simplex I" (w/ Rae Sanni)

It was discussed as a formative book in Ray's life, which helped her to understand and accept her emotional nature, which was not encouraged by her parents.

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When I was in 12th grade when I was like 17 or maybe 11th grade so it would have been 16 but we read a book called The Unbearable Lightness of Being.

but I read it for the wrong reasons like I read it like oh my god indulge in all of your feelings like I was like I'm Teresa I'm her and I'm going to indulge in all my feelings and dump them on everybody else.

And so I was like annoying and an emo for like you know I'm probably still annoying and email emo but I like it's embarrassing but I also am very grateful because I came I my parents are Nigerian Muslim immigrants you know there's a lot of like not taking your emotional self seriously there's a lot of go to school we got hard work to do toughen up suck it up you know.

And like so I think that was the first time I let myself in a real way indulge in as in how emo I actually am and uh and you know I was also old enough to articulate for my mom why it's okay that I'm more emotional than everybody else in the family and like my mom is learning super late now but like she's learning how to be indulging herself too because she doesn't have to be our mom anymore because my youngest sister is 25.

Yeah and that's you know maybe I'll give that to my mom to read one day.

Episode: "Herpes Simplex I" (w/ Rae Sanni)

It was discussed as a formative book that encouraged Rae Sanni to embrace her emotions, providing a contrast to her upbringing with Nigerian Muslim immigrant parents who emphasized practicality and emotional restraint.

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When I was in 12th grade, when I was like 17 or maybe 11th grade, so it would have been 16, but we read a book called 'The Unbearable Lightness of Being'.

I read it for the wrong reasons, like I read it like, oh my god, indulge in all of your feelings, like I was like, I'm Teresa, I'm her, and I'm going to indulge in all my feelings and dump them on everybody else.

And so I was like annoying and an emo for like, you know, I'm probably still annoying and an email emo, but I like it's embarrassing, but I also am very grateful because I came, my parents are Nigerian Muslim immigrants, you know, there's a lot of like not taking your emotional self seriously, there's a lot of go to school, we got hard work to do, toughen up, suck it up, you know.

And like, so I think that was the first time I let myself in a real way indulge in as in how emo I actually am, and uh, and you know, I was also old enough to articulate for my mom why it's okay that I'm more emotional than everybody else in the family.

Yeah, and that's, you know, maybe I'll give that to my mom to read one day.

The Jordan Harbinger Show

It was referenced in a discussion about the psychology of men who pay for sex, exploring the idea that some men view sex as a way to uncover something unique about a person, like a collection of unique features or 'one-millionths'.

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So Milan Kundera in the Unbearable Lightness of Being, he wrote about sexuality as uncovering the one millionth or something like that, that you can only see in the act of sex.

— Episode: 1042: Sex Trafficking | Skeptical Sunday

Episode: 1042: Sex Trafficking | Skeptical Sunday

It was referenced in a discussion about the psychology of men who pay for sex, exploring the idea that some men view sex as a way to uncover something unique about a person, like a collection of unique features or 'one-millionths'.

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So Milan Kundera in the Unbearable Lightness of Being, he wrote about sexuality as uncovering the one millionth or something like that, that you can only see in the act of sex.

He wrote about a protagonist who kept cheating on his wife. And he said like, his wife's friends were nowhere near as beautiful as her. They were nowhere near as intelligent or interesting or sexy or whatever it might be. But they had one thing she didn't have, which was that they weren't her.

The Daily Stoic

The book was mentioned in relation to a scene where the protagonist rescues a crow, contrasting it with her husband's refusal to sign a political petition; this highlighted the importance of seemingly small acts of kindness over grand gestures.

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It is much more important to dig a half-buried crow out of the ground than to send petitions to a president.

— Episode: This Matters Way More Than The Details |...

Episode: This Matters Way More Than The Details | Ask DS

The book was mentioned in relation to a scene where the protagonist rescues a crow, contrasting it with her husband's refusal to sign a political petition; this highlighted the importance of seemingly small acts of kindness over grand gestures.

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It is much more important to dig a half-buried crow out of the ground than to send petitions to a president.

Episode: Do The Little Thing, It’s All The Matters

It was mentioned in relation to the author's act of rescuing a crow, highlighting the importance of small acts of kindness over grand gestures, even in times of political upheaval. The quote "It is much more important to dig a half buried crow out of the ground than to send petitions to a president" summarizes this idea.

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It is much more important to dig a half buried crow out of the ground than to send petitions to a president.

All In with Chris Hayes

The book was referenced during a discussion of recurring motifs of kitsch and its cultural impact, with the hosts noting a lengthy riff on the theme within the novel. It was mentioned as an example of how kitsch appears in literature, without any explicit endorsement or critique.

Episode: Trump tariffs found illegal by U.S. appeals court

The novel was cited while discussing the recurring motifs of kitsch and its cultural impact, noting a long riff on kitsch in the work.

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along Kundera, Unbearable Lightness of Being, there's a long riff about kitsch

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