Ace What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex

And I will tell you that I did start reading her work to understand asexuality better. And what happened is that I began to understand myself and everyone that I know better and what sexuality is in general better. And it just kind of opened up a whole new world.

And I'm glad that the subtitle did not lie because I do think asexuality is about desire and society and the meaning of sex and not just no one specific experience.

So good to hear, you know, thank you. Shout out to my marketing team. Yes, they nailed it. Exactly. They nailed it. They nailed it.

And I should back up and say, you know, by that point I was in a second serious relationship and I'd never had any, what you might call sexual problems like libido stuff or inhibition. It was all very smooth in that area.

I think that understanding sex and sexuality in the hunger and the hamburger was so liberating to me personally, because it was like, I think there's probably whole swaths of people, including myself, who only understand their sexuality interpersonally.

I was reading Angela Chen's Ace book and she was talking about how there was this study where a bunch of men either walked across a sturdy bridge or a swaying bridge.