Surrounded by Psychopaths: How to Protect Yourself from Being Manipulated and Exploited in Business (and in Life) [The Surrounded by Idiots Series] Cover
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Surrounded by Psychopaths How to Protect Yourself from Being Manipulated and Exploited in Business (and in Life) [The Surrounded by Idiots Series]

Thomas Erikson

Part of the bestselling Surrounded by Idiots series! Charming, charismatic, and delightful or manipulative, self-serving, and cunning? Psychopaths are both and that’s exactly what makes them dangerous. Bestselling author of the international phenomenon

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The Jordan Harbinger Show

Jordan Harbinger repeatedly highlighted the book as a go‑to resource for listeners who wanted a crash course in the psychopathic mindset and practical tips for self‑protection. He and author Thomas Erikson discussed how the title explains typical psychopath behavior in personal and work settings, advising people to keep distance and recognize manipulation. The episode remarks emphasized its usefulness and recommended it strongly.

Highly Recommended

Episode: 592: Do the Math: Am I a Psychopath? | Feedback Fr...

It was mentioned as a good resource for understanding the psychopathic mindset, and the author was consulted for his opinion on a listener's question about potential psychopathic tendencies.

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So we consulted with your boy Thomas Erikson, behavioral expert and author of the books Surrounded by Psychopaths.

I highly recommend checking it out if you want a great crash course in the psychopaths mindset.

Episode: 526: What to Do When Your Teen Attempts Suicide |...

It was mentioned that the book helped a listener understand psychopathy better and made a lot of things click, specifically about a coworker. The book's advice on how psychopaths behave in the workplace was discussed.

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I am so grateful for your episode of Thomas Erickson he was actually the one who provided the model of psychopathy that made everything click with my coworker in particular

the more interesting question might be or all assholes psychopaths

if this person turns out to be a psychopath they don't react to that kind of the way normal people do

if she explodes on you or backstabs you in a meeting later or leaves a I don't know dead squirrel in your trash or something like that

if this person seems like trouble just keep your guard up minimize your contacts stay the hell away she's bad news regardless

Episode: 517: Trouble Runs Deep with the Neighborhood Creep...

It was mentioned as a good introduction to the psychopathic mindset and how they operate within society, particularly when they are not breaking the law.

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He was on the show recently, episode 465. I highly recommend listening to it if you want a solid introduction to the psychopath's mindset.

Episode: 505: Special Needs Son Seduced by Psycho Siren | F...

It was mentioned as a resource for understanding psychopathic behavior and how to protect oneself from manipulation and exploitation, particularly in the context of a manipulative individual.

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Psychopaths are seriously, seriously vengeful. If they can get back at you for something they think that you did to them, even though they are the problem, they will try to do as much harm as possible to you.

Move on with your life, put as much distance as you possibly can between you and the psychopath walk away.

When a psychopath tries to contact you, walk away.

When they try to contact somebody you know in order to get at you, walk away.

When they show up at your doorstep full of promises, I'm going to live a new life. I'm a changed man or I'm a changed woman, walk away. Remember, a psychopath will never ever change. Walk away.

Episode: 466: How to Cope with a Dying, Narcissistic Parent...

It was discussed as an episode focused on psychopathy, covering how to identify psychopaths, defend against them, and protect oneself from their negative influence.

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This is a psychopath specific episode how to spot the psychopaths in our lives a little bit of psychopaths self defense what to do when we find out who that person is, how do we defend ourselves protect ourselves against their psychopathy and other craziness that they bring to our lives.

Episode: 465: Thomas Erikson | How to Protect Yourself from...

It was mentioned as one of the author's books, and he stated that he was finishing another book that his American publisher asked him to write.

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By the way, you've written a book about being surrounded by idiots and another about being surrounded by psychopaths so you must keep some pretty interesting company man.

Episode: 592: Do the Math: Am I a Psychopath? | Feedback Fr...

It was mentioned as a good book to understand the psychopathic mindset, with the listener's email being discussed in contrast to what a true psychopath's behavior might be.

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We consulted with your boy Thomas Erikson, behavioral expert and author of the books Surrounded by Psychopaths.

I highly recommend checking it out if you want a great crash course in the psychopaths mindset.

Episode: 526: What to Do When Your Teen Attempts Suicide |...

It was discussed how the book helped one listener understand psychopathy, particularly within the context of a coworker, and understand how psychopaths tend to avoid work and take credit for others' accomplishments.

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I am so grateful for your episode of Thomas Erickson he was actually the one who provided the model of psychopathy that made everything click with my coworker in particular

whenever he hears someone say that they're encountering multiple psychopaths like my neighbors a psychopath my boss is a psychopath and the guy I met on plenty of fish is a psychopath he usually thinks that's highly unlikely

according to Thomas the psychopath is always much canier and definitely more non empathic there's usually not much of an emotional life there at all

if your colleague is exhibiting that kind of behavior on a regular basis maybe you do have a psychopath on your hands if not it's possible she's just your garden variety asshole

the more interesting question might be or all assholes psychopaths

Episode: 517: Trouble Runs Deep with the Neighborhood Creep...

It was mentioned as a helpful resource for understanding the mindset of psychopaths, particularly in the context of the listener's situation involving a difficult neighbor.

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He was on the show recently, episode 465. I highly recommend listening to it if you want a solid introduction to the psychopath's mindset.

Episode: 505: Special Needs Son Seduced by Psycho Siren | F...

It was mentioned as a resource for understanding psychopathic behavior and how to protect oneself from manipulation, in the context of the listener's story.

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Psychopaths are seriously, seriously vengeful.

If they can get back at you for something they think that you did to them, even though they are the problem, they will try to do as much harm as possible to you.

And they do not work by the same rational logic that you and I do usually psychopaths. They don't care about consequences because in their minds, they have the right to do whatever they want.

Move on with your life, put as much distance as you possibly can between you and the psychopath walk away.

This is a game you cannot win.

Episode: 466: How to Cope with a Dying, Narcissistic Parent...

It was discussed as an episode focused on psychopaths, how to identify them in one's life, and what actions to take in self-defense against them and their influence.

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This is a psychopath specific episode how to spot the psychopaths in our lives a little bit of psychopaths self defense what to do when we find out who that person is, how do we defend ourselves protect ourselves against their psychopathy and other craziness that they bring to our lives.

Episode: 465: Thomas Erikson | How to Protect Yourself from...

It was mentioned that the author was finishing a new book at the time of the podcast recording, in response to his American publisher.

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By the way, you've written a book about being surrounded by idiots and another about being surrounded by psychopaths so you must keep some pretty interesting company man.

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